i'm starting to feel less and less safe in this site as a fictionkin, so i just wanted to call out (factkin dni please):
yeah i'm so sick of some of this fandom feeling so entitled to what everyone else is doing. guys you need to understand that not everything revolves around you and what you enjoy. Just because you're uncomfortable doesn't mean everyone has to stop dead and leave.
If you enter a conversation about something you're uncomfortable with, you have no right to shut them down. Go find somewhere else to have your own conversation instead of breaking up someone elses.
If you're talking to someone and they mention something that you're uncomfortable with, it is ON YOU to tell them POLITELY. People cannot read your mind, nor will they check every blog you own and every backlog of text you post before interacting with you, nor are they trying to make you uncomfortable. Stewing in your discomfort or being rude because of an honest mistake is on you, not them.
Tumblr, AO3, and public discord servers are just that, PUBLIC! Anyone can join the conversation, and everyone is allowed to have fun here. You cannot gatekeep or push people away because they do something you dislike or are uncomfortable with. In a public area it is on you to curate what you see and do. People are allowed to post tsams in the tsams tags, people are allowed to post character art in the character tags, people are allowed to make smut on the fanfic sites, people are allowed to have fun. If you want a perfectly fluffy place with only what you enjoy, you need to make your own private discord or your own hosting site. Hell, you can make your own special tag if you want, you have that option.
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Do any other fictionkins have the problem of not being able/allowed/skilled enough to do or have a comfort that your kintype likes/needs/has and been irritated/saddened/maybe even panicked about it?
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Anxieties! Attack!
You know what, fuck it. Letโs show some love for the โunpleasantโ autistics.
For the autistics who are always accused of being angry or moody when all theyโre doing is sitting there.
For the autistics who take everything literally and respond sincerely.
For the autistics who come across as โbluntโ or โrudeโ for being honest.
For the autistics who are called โcontrol freaksโ for needing a sense of order and routine.
For the autistics who get told to shut up for infodumping about uncomfortable topics.
For the autistics who find it too exhausting to mask and pretend to be sunny and friendly.
โUnpleasantโ autistics, I love you.
Varian: Why did God give me a uterus? Everything fucking hurts! *in pain and dying*
Hugo: *So dumb that he thinks he got Varian pregnant and just stands there in concern*
reading posts again? on the search for dopamine? I wish you the best of luck soldier
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Be you. <3