yeah i'm so sick of some of this fandom feeling so entitled to what everyone else is doing. guys you need to understand that not everything revolves around you and what you enjoy. Just because you're uncomfortable doesn't mean everyone has to stop dead and leave.
If you enter a conversation about something you're uncomfortable with, you have no right to shut them down. Go find somewhere else to have your own conversation instead of breaking up someone elses.
If you're talking to someone and they mention something that you're uncomfortable with, it is ON YOU to tell them POLITELY. People cannot read your mind, nor will they check every blog you own and every backlog of text you post before interacting with you, nor are they trying to make you uncomfortable. Stewing in your discomfort or being rude because of an honest mistake is on you, not them.
Tumblr, AO3, and public discord servers are just that, PUBLIC! Anyone can join the conversation, and everyone is allowed to have fun here. You cannot gatekeep or push people away because they do something you dislike or are uncomfortable with. In a public area it is on you to curate what you see and do. People are allowed to post tsams in the tsams tags, people are allowed to post character art in the character tags, people are allowed to make smut on the fanfic sites, people are allowed to have fun. If you want a perfectly fluffy place with only what you enjoy, you need to make your own private discord or your own hosting site. Hell, you can make your own special tag if you want, you have that option.
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You're overthinking your theriotype research.
"What do I act like. Whats my personality. Whats my mood? Whats-"
What do you feel like.
You could be a wolf that likes being pet and like toys.
You could be a cat that likes water and forests.
You could even be a dog that prefers forests.
Therianthropy is what YOU feel like you are.
If what you're personality "shows" you are is something that you feel like you arent. Then you arent. Despite what the signs are.
YOU ARE WHAT YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE.
This doesn't mean "oh I WANT to be a bird so ill pick bird." No- do you *feel* more like a bird than human?
Remember. Getting your theriotype wrong is normal. Theriotypes changing is normal. Were all non-human together.
DONT OVERTHINK IT!
ⓘ You can Bite your Friends.
Ohh, so I was looking at my storage and found these! I originally shared them on twitter before yeeting the platform. Anyway, feel free to use! Art memes for your oc :D
this randomly blew up on twitter so i figured i’d post it here bc lord knows everyone on this app is neurodivergent
“My body, my choice” only makes sense when someone else’s life isn’t at stake.
There’s nothing inherently “scary” about someone talking to themself in public.
There’s nothing “scary” about someone rocking back and forth in public.
There’s nothing “scary” about someone pacing back and forth in public.
Some of y’all are just ableist.
Varian: Why did God give me a uterus? Everything fucking hurts! *in pain and dying*
Hugo: *So dumb that he thinks he got Varian pregnant and just stands there in concern*
gives you a thumbs up and sparkle-like effects surround it and i get scared cus it never did that before
Just gotta vent but I'm steamed right now I denied from a roleplay discord, I mean, I'm kin! Who knows me better than me?! No one, that's who! (Except doubles, y'all are great 💖) - Signed, a frustrated kinnie