ive been trying for weeks to find the right way to say that, the way people my age (20s) nowadays, especially those who are very lefty in their ideology, speak about having children is fucked up
ultimately i think its just fucking rude and an overcorrection to the whole "women bear the children" part of living in society
honestly i can understand being scared of the biological parts of child bearing, i sure am, but acting like a spoiled brat and being all "i would never want to give up my freedom, i dont want a screaming pooping demon in my house, blah blah blah" its like ...its just a baby... its a little human. like you once were.
maybe yeah raising a child wouldnt fit in with your lifestyle.... but i sincerely doubt it, since these kinds of people dont do much with their lives it seems except be online and buy toys for themselves even though they're grown adults.... maybe yeah they shouldnt have kids then. just wish they would be less RUDE about it - and dont demonize women who do want kids!!!
of all 'feminine' things to pick out and feel weird about, its painting your nails and plucking your eyebrows this person points out? really? even women who are super feminine dont do that shit on a regular basis. i cant imagine smoking that gender ideology pack so hard that you reach this point.
If we can all agree to call Robert Prevost by his new chosen name of Leo XIV then we can all call trans people by their chosen names. It’s not hard.
Trans women calling themselves ‘dolls’ really shows what they think women are tbh
Do you think that the trans movement is going to fail and backfire eventually? Also, do you think that it will lead to more homophobia on the general public's part?
yes and yes
it's already backfiring, public opinion is swinging the other way even independent of libsoftiktok-level psychos
the general public is unable to distinguish between the gay community and the trans community, which is something the trans movement leverages for their own legitimacy, so yeah the blowback is a rise in homophobia and misogyny
like the narrative from the trans movement is "we're the front line, the conservatives are gonna go after us and then they're gonna go after women and gay people" when in reality the conservatives don't see a meaningful difference between the groups
leading to stuff like this where legislation is explicitly and intentionally targeting married women and the trans take is "how can i make this about me"
like obviously this legislation is more concerned about controlling the votes of every woman married to a republican voter than a handful of hentai addicts but they're positioning themselves as the canary in the coal mine and everyone is getting sick of it
but of course they're never gonna have to answer for the damage they caused to feminist and gay rights activism because they'll just call everyone terfs and run away
autistic girls really need to know its ok to be uncomfortable with femininity or feminine stereotypes. it doesnt mean you're not a girl. you can be a girl your own way.
looking back on it, my enjoyment of m/m fan fiction kickstarted the whole thing. i think it’s a case for a lot of autistic women who feel kind of out place:
the “i’m so gay” phase, the tumblr ideology (bc it’s tied with fandom), the scared of men irl and just genuinely being weird about them, all while just actually being a normal straight girl
i just wonder what my life would be like if i never got sucked into tumblr 2010s world. if i never believed so strongly all those harmful beliefs tumblr perpetuated about gender, sexuality, anxiety, self love, etc. where would i be! who knows i might be married by now.
but oh well, we move on and are living fully now!
top 3 reasons why we don’t need female-only bathrooms:
3. this man has put on a dress, make up, injects hormones and has undergone surgery. maybe he has even castrated himself! and you want him to go to MENS bathroom! that’s unsafe for HIM!
2. you and your dad/brother/uncle/boyfriend use the same bathroom at home. yes, public multiple stall toilets are totally the same.
1. come oooon why can’t people just pee in peace😒you’re weird if you think that’s even a problem.
it's always "listen to [identity group] voices!" until its detransitioners' voices.
they don't want to hear them, because their stories gaining mainstream traction would upend their whole movement.
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