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obsessed with the conversation around queerbaiting coming back because of 911 but pinknews still chooses to use a cover photo from a show that ended 5 years ago. her influence🩷

nah mate you're not unlovable you just forgot to eat breakfast this morning. no bro you're not beyond saving it's winter and you're having a rough time. bro you're not a bad person you're just scared and overwhelmed and that makes sense considering everything that's been going on lately. put the shovel down dude look at your hands they're cramping from white knuckling the handle so long. c'mon! my mom's making chili for dinner and she said you can come over! i love you okay don't forget that

"Not all men" you're right, Spencer Reid would never

OH MY GOD??????

THEY WERE GATEKEEPING IT FOR 10 YEARS

HAPPY NEW YEARS ! [CST]

SO! In honour of the new year, I've decided to spend more time doing what I love on social media! I'll be making new blogs for some of the stuff I like! And probably an art blog! I wanna update the whole tumblr to get more of the vibe I'm going for this year, and I hope to make some more friends along the way :] PLEASE REMEMBER WE ARE A SYSTEM AND THIS IS STRICTLY MY [THE HOST] BLOG

will be tagging all my fandoms, perhaps see if we have anything in common?

no because why is this every writer ever, including myself- we just go "Oo! New idea! i need to write it rn!" *tosses the idea i just had in my hands* im walking in a circle

As someone who has a bipolar parent and is bipolar themselves, Bob is SUCH an important rep of us. This is SO important to keep in mind. Bob is more than just a silly little guy. He's a grown man with severe trauma and a disorder that millions of people across the globe have too. He can still be the silly guy, just don't infantalize him or take away the disordered parts of him. REAL Bipolar people can't do that. We can't take the disorder out of us.

I want to talk about Bob.

I want to talk about Bob and how fandom treats characters with mental illnesses, because I’m already seeing this shit.

Spoilers below the cut.

His arc is so good, and yet some people are really just focusing on making him into “UwU babygirl” material. I know, this is tumblr, home of the babygirlified characters.

But there’s heavier context here. We’re talking about someone who survived an abusive childhood and overcame the addiction he used to self-medicate for a wildly unrepresented/stigmatized illness.

His memory loss is not cute. It’s traumatic. He’s traumatized.

Yes, it’s important that he absolutely can be seen as a love interest, as a favorite blorbo, as a comfort character. In fact, I think he will be for many people with mental illnesses. His story resonates.

But there’s a systemic, historic pattern of treating mentally ill folks as children, or incapable.

The situation with Valentina is a metaphor for conservatorship. She handles him, makes decisions for him, all while talking down to him.

Don’t let fandom do that to him, too.

oh so you'll respond to my tumblr but you wont text me back i see how it is. fine i'll go sulk and look at destiel posts and ignore YOU BACK >:( /silly

im the child you bully. you don't bully children you bully CHILD and that child is ME, Jerk <3

that’s just my god given right as your big sib, sorry bitch

wouldn't wanna find out any other way :]

Farewell online privacy