Wild concept that shouldn’t be wild and the coldest take ever: disabled adults are *adults* and not just children trapped in adult bodies
Disabled adults have sex
Disabled adults do drugs
Disabled adults curse
Disabled adults get piercings and tattoos
Disabled adults can make adult decisions and act and behave like adults because we are adults
It’s just so weird for people to constantly infantilize me all because of my mobility aids when I’m not a child!!!
Living with a chronic illness be like:
"I feel like I'm going to die"
5 minutes later...
"Ok, let's see what movie I should watch"
Harry performing As it Was live at the 2023 BRITs - 02.11.2023
We all know how annoying it is when someone says "get well soon" so what's a good alternative? What would you rather hear?
I generally say something along the lines of "I hope you feel a bit better soon"
Here are some others I've found:
I hope you get some relief
I hope your pain eases
I hope tomorrow is easier
I hope you have a low-symptom day soon
I hope you can get some nice rest
Wishing you more spoons tomorrow
If there's anything I can take off your plate, please let me know
Hoping for some restful moments for you today
I hope things improve, even just a little
I hope you have something good happen soon, you deserve it
Hang on in there, I'm rooting for you
I hope you get some answers and closure soon
If you need to vent or need a distraction, I'm happy to help, just say the word
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pleasing: Harry Styles wears Perfect Pearl from Pleasing at the 65th Annual GRAMMY Awards, February 2023.
Young people can have back pain. Young people can have joint pain. Young people can require a cane to get around. Young people can have memory problems. Young people can get migraines. Young people can lose their eyesight. Young people can lose their hearing. Young people can lose their teeth and require dentures. Young people can have neurological disorders. Young people can go through menopause. Young people can have heart attacks. Young people can have strokes. Young people can go through all kinds of things you think only happens to older people and they don’t deserve to be invalidated or bullied just because you have never heard of it.
so delicious
when rest and "lazy days" stop being optional, you eventually stop enjoying it. i don't even know how to relax anymore. there's barely any relaxation in rest for me, it's all forced by a sick body.