Good Evening Why Did Dr. Phil Invite Eli Erlick, A Confessed Rapist (OF OTHER TRANS PPL), On His Show

the way he almost got it. the gist is “why are women single? because men dont value them. women’s standards are too high” uh??? yes. bingo bullseye right on the money. nailed it my guy.

my videos are banned off of tiktok but this isn’t part 145

you can resort to namecalling or whatever but the bottom line is that nobody has managed to produce an argument as to why biological sex isn’t a social construct that’s remotely coherent, nevermind convincing. your attitudes towards people who don’t fit your criteria for being male or female – whether they’re intersex, trans, or just people who’s sex characteristics in any way deviate from your anatomy textbooks – make it extremely clear to me that your ideology is more important to you than actual human beings. maybe get out of your echo chamber for a change and stop picking apart people’s bodies to determine whether or not you’re allowed to want to fuck them, which is really the only reason most of you care about this discussion to begin with. ugh. 

Don’t be afraid of releasing the old, the new journey has already begun.

Terf dating..... When....

“To fall in love with the world isn’t to ignore or overlook suffering, both human or otherwise. For me anyway, to fall in love with the world is to look up at the night sky and feel your mind swim before the beauty and the distance of the stars. It is to hold your children while they cry and watch the sycamore trees leaf out in June. When my breastbone starts to hurt, and my throat tightens and tears well in my eyes, I want to look away from feeling. I want to deflect with irony or anything else that will keep me from feeling directly. We all know how loving ends. But I want to fall in love with the world anyway, to let it crack me open. I want to feel what there is to feel while I am here.”

― John Green, The Anthropocene Reviewed

out of interest I just looked up transit directions in Google maps from my parents house to my house and it told me to drive 20 minutes to a park to ride bus station, wait 6 hours, get on several different busses, then get off and order a Lyft

Just thinking about the recent Her app homophobic meltdown and that poll that was going around showing that most radblr lesbians are single... It might actually be time to build something like the radblr dating service that was joked about in the comments of that poll.  Like its funny as a joke, but the more this goes on the more it feels genuinely needed. Even just adding a “open to ___” (flirting dating etc) role on some of these existing discords could work. Like we can’t just openly post thirst traps to each other on tumblr without fear of doxxing. But yeah, Im just worried that most of us have become kinda apathetic about the State of Things and don’t wanna try. Maybe a good chunk of it is just being comfortable alone? I don’t even know if I would use such a thing but I think it might need to exist

Peace can be a terror when you have never known it before.

Moments passed, and nothing happened, and nothing happened. The safety promised by the embrace blurred the line between the body and the spirit, and her heart and her soul both ached as one. She could scream now, and she did, relentlessly, wordlessly, a cry of hurt and terror, of discovery and loss.

What a waste it all had been. She had done everything expected of her, she had stayed so cautiously within the borders of girlhood, of propriety, of safety. All for nothing.

In the end, there was just no way to be careful enough.

And With Her Went the Spring

by CAROLINE RATAJSKI

it's God. The yearning you feel is for God plain and simple. Research Orthodoxy

actually i was yearning for gay sex but i appreciate you trying