I Need Help. I Live In A Very Abusive Situation, With My Parents And Now My Ex-girlfriend. My Parents

It doesn't matter what gender the person is, if they are a great person, I will love them!!

Reblog if you would date someone who is nonbinary ✨

This is for all those people who are nonbinary and believe no one will accept them

natural voice change

Lower

Boom Your Voice

How to deepen your voice naturally

How to talk with a deeper voice 

How to deepen your voice (pre-t) Voice masculinization

Vocal androgyny in speech and singing

This Phone App Helps Transgender Users Change The Pitch And Tone Of Their Voices (buzzfeed article) 

Higher

Voice Feminization

Pitch, range, resonance, depth

How to develop a female voice

Feminine voice techniques         

Transfeminine Presentation Resources Masterpost

(For a transmasc version of this post, click here)

Some of this could also be useful for other feminine people and transneutral people who were camab as well! And of course feel free to add to this post if you have more good links and/or info to share.

& the obligatory disclaimer: transfeminine people can present however they want. There’s absolutely no obligation to do the stuff listed here.

Chest:

Optical Illusions

Bra Sizing

Buying a Bra as a Trans Woman

For flat-chested people

A post about bras

Non-fetish options

Using Socks

Bra inserts: one, two

How To Stuff Your Bra

“Chicken cutlet” bra inserts + Where to buy

GenderMender

TheBreastFormStore + Size Fitting Guide

Amoena

For swimming: one, two, three

Tucking:

Safety

Pain and related issues

WikiHow

Video

Explanation

Explanation #2

Underwear

DIY Gaff

Hair:

Hairstyle Guide

Pintrest hair inspiration: one, two, three, four

How to Take Care of Black Girls’ Hair

Egg Treatment

Wig Info

The Do’s & Don’t For Wigs

Wig Buyer Guide

Hair Extensions

Hair Extensions Video

Short hair: one, two, three, four

Voice:

Voice Analyzer App

Eva Voice App

Voice Training with Singing

Voice Traning for Trans Girls Video

Voice Training Regimen

Free Trans Voice Resources

Trans Voice Subreddit

Nails & Makeup:

How To Nail Polish Video

Makeup For Beginners Video

Feminizing Makeup For Trans Women Video

Makeup Tutorials For Black Girls

Hiding Facial Hair Videos: Part 1 and Part 2

How to Cover 5 o’clock Shadow Video

Clothes:

Thrift Stores

Shoes

Dresses

Dressing Like a Grown Ass Trans Woman

Dressing for Broad Shoulders

Tall Girl Resources

Discrete

Butch / tomboy

Sizing: one, two, three

Swimwear

Trans women? You mean…

Talented folks who happen to be

Real women and

Astronomically beautiful while also

Naturally amazing and

Spirited and should be

Worshipped like the goddesses they are, because of how

Overwhelmingly courageous, and

Mystical, and

Entralling and interesting and

Noble by nature, as trans women always are 💕

it’s fun to stay at the Y

So I found this cool website for learning ancient languages

go wild

its kinda scary how your whole life depends on how well you do as a teenager 

Scars

The scars on my arms fade, but the cuts on my heart remain. I felt something then, but your hate numbs me. No one loved me like you, but now the mask’s off and your spit runs down my face. Pain’s my topic now, because that’s what you subject me to. Looking in the mirror and finally seeing the horror, the demon standing next to me. I hid behind the false face, the lies that you made, but real monsters aren’t in the closet with me, they are your friends and leaders. I try to get away, to follow my heart, but all it knows how to do is break. My head’s heavy from all the lies swimming around. Love is a four-letter word, but so is hate, and you seem to confuse the two constantly. Not on the front lines, but the war inside me has made more scars than any knife can carve.

So I'm just questioning my gender, but I'm sorta stuck. I'm amab and that doesn't bother me sometimes, but sometimes dysphoria is overwhelming. Like I want a female body but I don't mind being seen as male or female. I'd honestly prefer to be seen as both but still physically transition.

I get that. Trans people have a very intimate relationship with gender roles and can often see how the grass is greener on both sides of the fence. As much as dysphoria wanted me to be seen as a male, sometimes I wish people still treated me socially like a girl (because there are some benefits to that). On the other hand, i love being treated as a guy because it matches my personality and helps combat my dysphoria. It makes sense that, having seen one side, you’d want to be socially in the middle instead of on either extreme. 

It’s quite possible you’re a trans woman who just doesn’t want to bother with gender roles or social transition as much. I know for me, physically dysphoria was definitely stronger than social dysphoria, so I’d be fine with being seen somewhere in the middle as well. I don’t think it invalidates your gender at all. 

This is really hard and sorta nsfw... But one of the guys I used to know has done some things that are inexcusable, like make sexual advances towards me and my girlfriend, but he's one of the two people that genders me correctly (I'm mtf) and he is autistic, so I don't know what to do about all this, especially since I am terrified of him and confrontation in general.

boy howdy have i been in this situation before. don’t make my mistake and give him multiple chances, because chances are it’s only going to get worse as time goes on. if worst case happens, sever all contact and try to disappear from his life, and if he keeps harassing you that strays into illegality. 

good luck <3

~kacie