This Is Really Hard And Sorta Nsfw... But One Of The Guys I Used To Know Has Done Some Things That Are

This is really hard and sorta nsfw... But one of the guys I used to know has done some things that are inexcusable, like make sexual advances towards me and my girlfriend, but he's one of the two people that genders me correctly (I'm mtf) and he is autistic, so I don't know what to do about all this, especially since I am terrified of him and confrontation in general.

boy howdy have i been in this situation before. don’t make my mistake and give him multiple chances, because chances are it’s only going to get worse as time goes on. if worst case happens, sever all contact and try to disappear from his life, and if he keeps harassing you that strays into illegality. 

good luck <3

~kacie

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6 years ago

Because it was literally in a zombie movie, Don't Stop Me Now

Reblog with the Queen song that you go so hard to that it could probably revive you from the dead

6 years ago

Lee says:

Here’s a transitioning starter pack for all my trans folk out there!

Transfeminine resources:

Presentation:

Tucking

Chest area

Voice

Broad shoulders tips

Hair removal

Feminine walk

Curves

Waist training

Growing out your hair

Clothing

Makeup

Passing

Medical transitioning:

Not medically transitioning

Fertility

Puberty blockers

Estrogen & anti-androgens/testosterone blockers FAQ

The types of surgery available

Surgery: A guide for transfeminine people

Pumping (Silicone injections)

Facial Feminization Options

Breast Augmentation

Other:

Representation

Transfeminine period dysphoria

Yes, Transfeminine People Can Get Period Symptoms

Slipping into masculinity

Women’s restroom etiquette

Transfeminine people can breastfeed

Having sex or masturbating

Transmasculine resources:

Presentation:

Binding FAQ

Clothing

Facial hair

Masculine makeup

Getting short hair / Masculine long hair

If you can’t start T

Lowering your voice

Packing and standing to pee

Passing as male

Not shaving legs

Medical transitioning:

Not medically transitioning

Fertility

Puberty blockers

Testosterone FAQ

Top surgery

Facial masculinization surgery

Body masculinization surgery

Hysterectomy and oophorectomy

Bottom surgery (genital surgery)

Other:

Periods and related things

Help! I need to see a gyno

Pumping

Masturbation and sex

Using the men’s bathroom

Hudson’s FTM Guide

Height dysphoria

Hip dysphoria

More resources:

What gender am I? A brief intro to questioning

Trans 101 for trans people

What is the transgender umbrella?

How do I choose a name?

How do I come out at work/school or to family/friends?

Dysphoria info and tips page

Mental health coping page

Being trans in school

Non-binary resources

Resources to send allies/friends

A page to send to parents/guardians

Convincing someone to respect name/pronouns 

Here is how to get hormones in the US

Here is how to get hormones in the UK

Here’s a US resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker 

Here is a UK resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker

What are the WPATH-SOC guidelines?

How to save money

How to buy a trans-related item online without parents knowing

I have to go swimming, what do I wear/do?

Trying to sleep when you have dysphoria

Traveling by plane

Gender neutral bathrooms

Getting insurance to cover your transition

Does transitioning help mental health?

Trans teen’s experiences with inpatient hospitalization

Trans identity isn’t a mental disorder

Being religious and LGBT

Suicide and crisis hotlines

Transgender Lives: Your Stories (to see trans adults) 

Gender neutral pronouns in Spanish

Gender Variance Around the World Over Time

A map of gender-diverse cultures

American LGBT history by the National Parks Service

5 years ago

Makeup:

Makeup skills:

Beginning Makeup forum

How To: Makeup

Basic makeup

Contouring

How To Wear Makeup

Make-up Class for Beginners

3 Ways to Apply Basic Makeup

Easy Makeup Tips

17 Easy Makeup Tips

Makeup Essentials Checklist

Makeup For Dark Skin: Ultimate Step-By-Step Beginners Guide

15 Super Easy Makeup Tutorials For Black Girls

How to Apply Makeup for Dark Skin

Useful Makeup Tips For Trans Women

Feminizing Make-up for Trans Women

There are a lot of makeup tutorials and beauty vloggers and youtubers on the internet!

Hiding facial hair:

Hide Facial Hair (with Makeup!) Part 1: Shaving

Hide Facial Hair (using Makeup!) Part 2: Makeup

a way to hide stubble for facial hair

4 Must-Have Items for Concealing a Beard Shadow

How To Cover Up Facial Hair

Hiding facial hair

Tips on hiding facial hair

How To Cover 5 O'clock Shadow

Disability and makeup:

Makeup brushes with bendable handles for disabled ppl

Makeup with sensory issues (helpful things in the notes too)

Makeup tips for someone with sensory issues

7 Beauty Instagrammers With Disabilities

How do blind people put on their make-up?

Applying eyeliner with shaky hands

Chronic Illness Makeup

Makeup Tips for Physical Disabled Women

Working around disability when applying makeup

Makeup and skin tone:

Makeup by skintone

10 makeup brands for people of color

32 Amazing Beauty Products People Of Color Should Try Right Now

What Are The Best Makeup Products For People Of Color?

12 Great Makeup Brands for Women of Color

32 Black-Owned Makeup Brands

16 Black Owned Beauty Brands

15 Must-Try Black-Owned Cosmetics Brands

The Best Makeup Brands for Dark Skin Tones

7 Black-Owned Cosmetic Brands

How to Choose the Right Makeup for Dark Skin Tones

Cheap makeup:

Cheap makeup

$20 makeup challenge

Cheap makeup masterpost

Makeup list for under $50 total

9 Cheap Makeup Brands

10 Affordable Makeup Brands

The Best Makeup You Can Buy at the Drugstore

Other:

A webcomic

Followers, feel free to add on!

6 years ago

If you don't think ace people are LGBT unfollow me now

Reblog if you agree

6 years ago

Reblog if you're not homophobic

Every url that reblog’s will be written in a book and shown to my homophobic dad. 

7 years ago

Are there any LGBT dating sites/apps that aren't Grindr? I'm over 18 so age isn't an issue, but the amount of transphobic people on Grindr (I'm a pansexual trans girl, pre-everything) and the people just looking for hookups make it impossible to use.

personally, i’ve used Her in the past. it’s original purpose was for lesbians, but it’s definitely super trans girl friendly, as well as just trans friendly in general. funnily enough it’s actually where i met my girlfriend-turned-best-friend back a few years ago. tinder is like….okay. it really depends on where you are in terms of people, but it is definitely trans friendly. interestingly enough fetlife is pretty trans friendly, but the interface is total garbage and that’s definitely more for the kink crowd and that’s not everyone’s cup of tea.

i hope this helps! 

~kacie

6 years ago

Hi, so is it possible for me to be a trans girl, but prefer to be fluid in my expression? Like I know I don't fit in my body and need to transition, but after that, I want to be able to wear feminine and masculine clothes and express myself as more of a mix of both. Hope this makes sense.

Yes absolutely! Lots of girls are tomboys, and trans girls aren’t any different. 

5 years ago
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5 years ago

I need some help with dysphoria. I'm not able to start E for about another year or two, but I'm really dysphoric about my hair in general. I haven't been able to grow it out, so that's one thing that bothers me, but also it's starting to recede and thin, and I need support and advice for preventing it as much as possible and cope with how much I've lost already. Sorry, long ask, its just really bothering me and worrying me.

Hi anon! I’m sorry you’re feeling nervous and dysphoric. I know that feeling and it really sucks. 

If you’re able, I’d talk to your doctor about hair regrowth treatments. There are medications out there that can help slow or stop hair loss, depending on a few factors. Unfortunately, since I am not a doctor, I don’t know what drugs are good options for you or if there are any safe OTC drugs you could look into. 

The good news is, there are trans women who had receded hairlines pre-E who have beautiful long, natural hair now. There are some examples of them in the Before and After tag. 

I hope you’re able to get the help you need soon!

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you got any of them taquitos?

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