HOW MANY OF THESE 30 LIFE RULES DO YOU LIVE BY?

HOW MANY OF THESE 30 LIFE RULES DO YOU LIVE BY?

Surely, gents, this is one of life’s rules that every gentleman should live by. It would appear that standards are falling by the wayside, so here are a few more…

1. NEVER SPLIT THE BILL 
2. Don’t go after a friend’s wife or girlfriend 
3. Keep a secret when told in confidence 
4. Learn the craft of small talk 
5. Never cancel at the last minute – this is a sure fire way to not be invited back 
6. Never be late – unless carrying a worthy excuse. Maybe not even then 
7. Use failure as a spur to push forward 
8. Remember manners at all times – opening doors, giving up seats, walking kerbside, etc. 
9. Be interested and interesting – be the man people want to be seated near at dinner parties 
10. Know your alcohol limits, and respect them 
11. Better to be loved and hated, rather than liked by all 
12. Avoid anger without reason – the tube strike is not one 
13. Never turn up to a party, friend’s house, or supper empty handed 
14. Know when to tip 
15. Buy your round of drinks when it comes, without having to be prompted 
16. Know when you’re wrong, and when to say sorry 
17. Understand that chivalry is NOT dead 
18. Say thank you, a lot. It goes a long way. And always send a thank you letter 
19. Leave your arrogance in your teens 
20. Give everyone a chance – if only a brief one 
21. Choose books over television 
22. Don’t crave being the centre of attention 
23. Take a risk every now and then, and break out of your comfort zone. Regret is a nasty thing 
24. Be spontaneous 
25. Learn to relax and let go – life’s too short to just commute, work, eat and sleep 
26. Confront boredom by making a change 
27. Be confident, but accept when you’re in need of help 
28. Take a compliment as well as you can give one 
29. Watch what you eat, take care of what you wear and have pride in how you conduct yourself 
30. Travel whenever possible. Follow passions and indulge in guilty pleasures

By Patrick Tillard found on Gentleman’s Journals

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