June Habit Swaps :
Instead of Netflix : Read a book
Instead of sugar : Eat fruits
Instead of self doubt : Repeat affirmations
Instead of scrolling on social media : Go exercise
Instead of judging others : Help someone out
Instead of processed food : Home cooked meals
Instead of self hate : Self love
“Tinashe” - Means “God is with us” in Shona ( An African language spoken by nearly 80 percent of people in Zimbabwe.)
“Lakeisha” - A Swahili name meaning “favorite one.”
“Ashanti” - Name of a powerful African empire in West Africa.
“Tanisha” - Hausa of West Africa name meaning “born on Monday.”
“Zola” - Means “quiet, tranquil” in Zulu.
“Amandla” - Zulu and Xhosa word meaning “power”. The word was a popular rallying cry in the days of resistance against Apartheid.
“Zendaya” - Means “ To Give Thanks” in Shona
“Latonia” - A Latin name. Latonia was the mother of Diana in Roman mythology.
“Lulu” - Swahili and Muslim name meaning “pearl” or “precious.”
“Ciara” - Means “dark-haired” in Irish Gaelic
“Lateefah” - A North African name meaning “gentle and pleasant.”
“Mercedes” - Means “Gracious gifts/Benefits) in Spanish
“Kaya” - Ghanaian name meaning “stay and don’t go back.”
“Amara” - The Swahili word amara, meaning “urgent business.” Also the Hindu name meaning “immortal.”
“Shanika” - African Bantu name, meaning “young one from the wilderness.
“Zuri” - Means “beautiful” in Swahili.
“Onika” - Word of African origin meaning “warrior.”
JUST BECAUSE A NAME SOUNDS DIFFERENT DOES NOT MEAN IT’S “RATCHET” OR “GHETTO” THEY HAVE BEAUTIFUL MEANINGS.
DON’T BE IGNORANT, LEARN.
Area 51 alignment chart: Midsomer Murders edition
Eggless chocolate cheesecake (no bake)
Follow @this-is-life-actually
jasmine; what mythical creature do you wish actually existed?
lavender; soundcloud or vinyls?
primrose; what book does everyone right now need to read?
lunar mist; do you like wearing other people’s shirts/jackets?
bird of paradise; what was the best thing that happened to you this month?
gardenia; what’s a promise you’ve recently made to yourself?
lion’s fairytale; would you rather be the sky, the ocean or the forests?
whirling butterflies; would you kiss the last person you kissed again?
marmalade skies; do you plan your outfits?
apricot drift; how do you feel right now?
everlasting daisy; what’s the last dream you remember having?
queen’s cup; what are you craving right now?
lavender dream; turn ons/offs?
water lilly; when was the last time you cried? why?
lily of the valley; did the one person who hurt you most in your life apologize?
winterberry; do you bite or lick your ice cream?
honey perfume; favorite movie ever?
desert rose; do you like yourself?
snapdragon; have you ever met or seen in person a celebrity?
night owl; how many countries have you visited?
heliotrope; have you ever been in a castle?
creams and sky; what’s the craziest/bravest thing you’ve done?
lantana; what’s on your mind right now?
pumpkin patch; what’s your zodiac sign?
tulip; name 5 facts about yourself.
daphne; do you believe in karma?
queen of the meadow; ever been in love?
wisteria; whom do you admire and why?
angel’s face; what was your favorite bedtime story as a child?
remember me; did you make someone laugh today?
iris; do you believe in ghosts?
lilac; if you could go back in time which time period would you visit?
caramel kisses; would you want to live forever? why/why not?
primula; what makes you sad?
rain lily; was today typical? why/why not?
queen anne’s lace; who do you trust the most?
lady’s slipper; what did you have for breakfast today?
forget me not; do you have any regrets looking back in your life?
lunaria; what’s your favorite fictional universe?
violet; favorite tv show?
sunflower; share a favorite quote.
snowdrop; what does your ideal day look like?
tiger lily; do you have any hobbies?
peony; share a small random book passage that means something to you.
tea rose; what’s something you always wanted to do but were too scared?
honeysuckle; do you usually date people your age or older/younger?
sweet pea; who means the world to you? why?
love in the mist; best books you’ve ever read?
foxglove; who is your favorite cartoon character?
magnolia; coffee or tea?
crown imperial; would you rather be extremely rich or extremely loved?
snowflake; are you a dog or a cat person?
bell flower; what is your biggest addiction?
cosmos; do you ever think about the galaxy?
moonflower; what’s your favorite color?
freesia; do you have a good relationship with your parents and siblings? why/why not?
sundrop; are you a morning or a night person?
poppy; have you ever dealt with a mental illness?
clover; how would your friends describe you?
dandelion; do you consider yourself and extrovert or an introvert?
lilly; what’s something you love watching/reading but you are too embarrassed to admit you do?
anemone; describe yourself in 3 words.
lotus; best memory as a child?
angelonia; what is your eye and hair color?
dahlia; do you like crystals?
buttercup; if you could change one thing in the world, what would it be?
baby’s breath; what’s your hogwarts house?
calendula; biggest pet peeve?
blanker flower; would you rather go to a cocktail party with your best friends or stay home and read a book/watch a movie with your pet?
blazing star; share a secret.
carnation; would you rather live longer or happier?
petunia; who’s story is your biggest inspiration in life? why?
bluebell; do you wear glasses?
nymphea; forest or river?
orchid; do you like exercise?
pansy; do you like poetry?
morning glory; any special talent that you have?
"I was in darkness, but I took three steps and found myself in paradise. The first step was a good thought, the second, a good word; and the third, a good deed."
Friedrich Nietzsche
Watch and Learn!
Learning how to thread your eyebrows.
Learning how to tint your eyebrows. 
Learning how to do at home lash extensions. 
Learning how to do your own gel nails.
Learning how to do your own acrylics.
Learning how to wax your body hair.
Learning how to do a full sew in with closure.
Learning how to install your own braids.
Learning how to install a closure wig.
Learning how to exfoliate your own skin.
Learning how to improve your posture.
Learning how to microneedle your skin.
Learning how to edit your Instagram photos. 
Learning how to build a capsule closet.
Learning how to dress snazzily.
Learning how to walk in high heels.
Learning how to choose a perfume. 
Learning how to choose lingerie. 
Learning to improve and work on your femininity.
Learn about interracial dating. 
Learning how to improve the way you speak. 
Learning another language.
Learning about real estate. 
Learning about investing.
Learning how to get a job as a flight attendant.
Learning how to improve your cursive writing.
Learning how to improve your handwriting.
Learning a new makeup style.
Learning a natural makeup look.
Learning to use a claw clip for hairstyles. 
Learning how to curl your hair.
Learning to do a sleek low bun. 
Learning how to straighten your hair.
Learning how to do a Dominican blowout.
Learning how to apply false eyelashes.
Learning how to apply self tanner.
Learning basic sewing.
Learning how to begin Iyengar Yoga.
Learning how to treadmill productively.
Learning to have toned ballet legs.
Learning how to work towards a toned body.
Learning how to make your bum bigger. 
Learning how to understand ballet.
Learning how to understand operatic film.
Learning how to follow a simple ballet.
Learning daily etiquette.
Learning dining etiquette.
Learning how to walk elegantly.
Learning how to emulate Miss Universe. 
Learning about plastic surgery.
Learning how to bartend.
Learning how to open a bottle of champagne.
Learning how to make a cucumber sandwich.
Learning how to make a fresh mimosa.
Learning how to serve tea.
Learning how to tight line your eyes.
Learning how to microblade (NOT AT HOME).
Learning how to choose a designer handbag. 
Learning how to choose designer jewelry.
Learning how to rush a sorority.
Learning about equestrianism.
Learning the basics of skiing. 
Learning how to sail a sailboat.
Learning how to golf.
Learning how to play tennis.
XOXO,
Renata.