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9 months ago

People often assume I'm a bore just because I'm quiet and take a while to open up. But they don't know that behind this dull exterior, I hide a colorful world. And if you knock on my door and be patient enough, I'd gladly welcome you to this rich inner world I hide within.

9 months ago
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹
I Wish You Roses While You Can Still Smell Them 🌹

i wish you roses while you can still smell them 🌹

9 months ago
Will Forever Be Mentally In 2014, 2015, 2016 🀍🀍
Will Forever Be Mentally In 2014, 2015, 2016 🀍🀍
Will Forever Be Mentally In 2014, 2015, 2016 🀍🀍
Will Forever Be Mentally In 2014, 2015, 2016 🀍🀍

Will forever be mentally in 2014, 2015, 2016 🀍🀍

9 months ago
Let’s Just Start Posting Our Pics Like This Again I Miss This Sm
Let’s Just Start Posting Our Pics Like This Again I Miss This Sm
Let’s Just Start Posting Our Pics Like This Again I Miss This Sm
Let’s Just Start Posting Our Pics Like This Again I Miss This Sm
Let’s Just Start Posting Our Pics Like This Again I Miss This Sm
Let’s Just Start Posting Our Pics Like This Again I Miss This Sm
Let’s Just Start Posting Our Pics Like This Again I Miss This Sm
Let’s Just Start Posting Our Pics Like This Again I Miss This Sm

Let’s just start posting our pics like this again i miss this sm

9 months ago

born to marry him, forced to read fanfics about him

10 months ago
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯

I’m movie lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯

11 months ago
..Dr. Jekill And Mr. Hyde (1953)…

..Dr. Jekill and Mr. Hyde (1953)…

11 months ago
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯
I’m Movie Lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯

I’m movie lovers🎬🎞️πŸŽ₯

11 months ago
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ChloΓ© - Fall 1992 RTW

11 months ago
Gif Request Meme: Dc + Most Attractive Male Character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested By @clarkskenting)
Gif Request Meme: Dc + Most Attractive Male Character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested By @clarkskenting)
Gif Request Meme: Dc + Most Attractive Male Character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested By @clarkskenting)
Gif Request Meme: Dc + Most Attractive Male Character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested By @clarkskenting)
Gif Request Meme: Dc + Most Attractive Male Character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested By @clarkskenting)
Gif Request Meme: Dc + Most Attractive Male Character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested By @clarkskenting)
Gif Request Meme: Dc + Most Attractive Male Character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested By @clarkskenting)
Gif Request Meme: Dc + Most Attractive Male Character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested By @clarkskenting)

gif request meme: dc + most attractive male character β†’ Bruce WayneΒ (suggested by @clarkskenting)

1 year ago
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest
Acts As If She’s The Baddest

Acts as if she’s the baddest

1 year ago

What a slut, I love him.

What A Slut, I Love Him.
1 year ago
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Emporio Armani - Spring 1997 RTW

1 year ago

A violent man calling me a good girl would fix me

1 year ago
What I Need Rn

What I need rn

1 year ago

Conflict between an ENTJ father & a INFP daughter?

[see this post for relationship tips]

This relationship would be fraught with landmines. A father/daughter relationship is already unequal due to age and gender. On top of that, ENTJs can be very domineering, which could easily intrude upon an INFP’s sense of privacy and personal boundaries. Both would have to work hard to find some middle ground.

ENTJ (Te-Ni-Se-Fi) + INFP (Fi-Ne-Si-Te)

Potential for Conflict:

Te: ENTJs need structure and INFPs tend to resist it. Thus, ENTJs may see INFPs as ineffectual, disorganized, or undisciplined, and INFPs might see ENTJs as controlling, overbearing, or inflexible.

Ni v. Ne: ENTJs tend to look for one direction/path to take, whereas INFPs enjoy exploring ideas and possibilities. Thus, ENTJs might see INFPs as impractical, unfocused, or unreliable, and INFPs might see ENTJs as stubborn, closed-minded, or single-minded.

Se v. Si: ENTJs can use Se defensively to overemphasize achievement or recognition, which may strike INFPs as vain or misguided. INFPs can use Si defensively to obsess about (past) details, which may strike ENTJs as fussy, irrational, or stubborn.

Fi: ENTJs tend to have difficulty processing and expressing emotion, whereas INFPs value and stay in touch with emotions. Thus, ENTJs might see INFPs as oversensitive, withdrawn, or too passive, and INFPs might see ENTJs as repressed, unreflective, or judgmental.

ENTJs tend to be more assertive and outgoing than INFPs.

Opportunities for Growth and Balance:

This pair could complement each other well if they were mature enough to learn from each other’s strengths. ENTJs could learn from INFPs to be more reflective and treat people more sensitively. INFPs could learn from ENTJs to be more organized and goal-oriented.

Be more open to each other’s advice or suggestions. ENTJs should realize that INFPs tend to be more spontaneous and individualistic, so be more flexible in your expectations and do not try to place undue restrictions upon them. INFPs should realize that ENTJs tend to need more structure/routine, so help them maintain order and fulfill your responsibilities on time.

ENTJs should realize that INFPs are creative people who like to explore new ideas, so be more open-minded in exploring things with them. INFPs should realize that ENTJs are pragmatic people, so do not distract them with things they would consider a waste of time.

ENTJs should realize that INFPs have their own standards for success, so do not try to change them into something you want them to be. INFPs should realize that ENTJs tend to be driven and ambitious, so try to be more supportive and accepting of their efforts.

ENTJs should realize that INFPs tend to be empathetic people who are in touch with emotional life, so do not judge them as oversensitive. Be more open to exploring your feelings with them instead of dismissing or brushing them aside. INFPs should realize that ENTJ are not always good with exploring emotional life, so try to approach them more calmly and objectively.

In terms of conflict, it would be important that both learn to express dissatisfaction or negative emotion in a constructive way in order to resolve relationship issues properly. Never assume that you know what the other person is thinking, feeling, or intending without getting all the facts first. Both types tend to judge others too quickly and this could easily lead to frequent misunderstandings. ENTJs should remember that INFPs do not respond well to harsh criticism, and INFPs should remember to express needs/requests clearly and matter-of-factly instead of bottling up emotions or resentments.

Find an activity or project that you can work on together in order to build closeness through teamwork. Come to an acceptable compromise in terms of maintaining good E/I balance in shared activities.

1 year ago

Reasons to don't give up on your diet!

TW: ED

πŸ™. 𝕐𝕠𝕦 π•¨π•šπ•π• 𝕗𝕖𝕖𝕝 𝕝𝕖𝕀𝕀 π••π•šπ•€π•˜π•¦π•€π•₯π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜!

𝟚. ℙ𝕖𝕠𝕑𝕝𝕖 π•¨π• π•Ÿ'π•₯ π•₯π•™π•šπ•Ÿπ•œ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 π•π• π• π•œ π••π•šπ•€π•˜π•¦π•€π•₯π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜!

πŸ›. 𝕐𝕠𝕦 π•¨π•šπ•π• π•—π•šπ•₯ π•šπ•Ÿπ•₯𝕠 𝕀/𝕩𝕀/𝕩𝕩𝕀 𝕔𝕝𝕠π•₯π•™π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜!

𝟜. 𝕐𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 π•™π•šπ•˜π•™π•–π•£ π•”π•™π•’π•Ÿπ•”π•– 𝕠𝕗 π•˜π•–π•₯π•₯π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ 𝕒 𝕑𝕒𝕣π•₯π•Ÿπ•–π•£!

𝟝. ℙ𝕖𝕠𝕑𝕝𝕖 𝕒𝕣𝕖 π•˜π• π•Ÿπ•Ÿπ•’ 𝕓𝕖 𝕀𝕠 𝕛𝕖𝕒𝕝𝕠𝕦𝕀 𝕠𝕗 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦~!

𝟞. 𝕐𝕠𝕦 π•¨π• π•Ÿ'π•₯ 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 π•₯𝕠 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕣π•ͺ π•šπ•— π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕀π•₯𝕠𝕣𝕖𝕀 π••π• π•Ÿ'π•₯ 𝕔𝕒𝕣𝕣π•ͺ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦𝕣 π•€π•šπ•«π•–!

𝟟. ℕ𝕠 π•žπ•’π•₯π•₯𝕖𝕣 𝕨𝕙𝕒π•₯ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 𝕨𝕖𝕒𝕣 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 π•¨π•šπ•π• π•π• π• π•œ π•˜π• π• π••.

𝟠.𝕐𝕠𝕦 π•¨π• π•Ÿ'π•₯ 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 π•₯𝕠 𝕓𝕖 π•’π•€π•™π•’π•žπ•–π•• 𝕠𝕗 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕀𝕖𝕝𝕗!

𝟑. 𝕐𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 π•˜π•’π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕑𝕣𝕖π•₯π•₯π•ͺ π•‘π•£π•šπ•§π•šπ•π•–π•˜π•–<πŸ›

πŸ™πŸ˜. 𝕐𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 π•₯π•’π•œπ•– 𝕦𝕑 𝕝𝕖𝕀𝕀 𝕀𝕑𝕒𝕔𝕖!

πŸ™πŸ™. ℙ𝕖𝕠𝕑𝕝𝕖 π•¨π• π•Ÿ'π•₯ 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 π•‘π•£π• π•“π•π•–π•ž π•¨π•šπ•₯𝕙 π•‘π•šπ•”π•œπ•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 𝕦𝕑!

πŸ™πŸš. 𝕐𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 𝕗𝕖𝕖𝕝 π•žπ• π•£π•– π•”π• π•Ÿπ•—π•šπ••π•–π•Ÿπ•₯!

πŸ™πŸ›. ℕ𝕠 π• π•Ÿπ•– π•šπ•€ π•˜π• π•Ÿπ•Ÿπ•’ π•₯𝕖𝕝𝕝 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 π•₯𝕙𝕒π•₯ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦'𝕣𝕖 π•₯𝕠𝕠 𝕙𝕖𝕒𝕧π•ͺ.

πŸ™πŸœ. ℙ𝕖𝕠𝕑𝕝𝕖 π•¨π•šπ•π• 𝕔𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕓𝕠𝕦π•₯ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 π•žπ• π•£π•–

πŸ™πŸ. 𝕐𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 π•˜π•–π•₯ 𝕝𝕠π•₯𝕀 𝕠𝕗 π•”π• π•žπ•‘π•π•šπ•žπ•–π•Ÿπ•₯𝕀~<πŸ›!!!

πŸ™πŸž. 𝕐𝕠𝕦 π•¨π• π•Ÿ'π•₯ 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 π•₯𝕠 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕣π•ͺ π•¨π•™π•–π•Ÿ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦'𝕣𝕖 π•™π•¦π•˜π•˜π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ 𝕑𝕖𝕠𝕑𝕝𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕒π•₯ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦'𝕣𝕖 π•₯𝕠𝕠 𝕗𝕒π•₯!

πŸ™πŸŸ. 𝕐𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 𝕓𝕖 π•™π•’π•‘π•‘π•šπ•–π•£.

πŸ™πŸ . 𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕣π•ͺπ•₯π•šπ•žπ•– π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 𝕖𝕒π•₯ π•€π• π•žπ•–π•₯π•™π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•π•šπ•₯π•₯𝕝𝕖 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 𝕗𝕖𝕖𝕝 𝕗𝕦𝕝𝕝.

πŸ™πŸ‘. 𝕐𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕠𝕦π•₯π•—π•šπ•₯𝕀 𝕒𝕣𝕖 π•˜π• π•Ÿπ•Ÿπ•’ 𝕓𝕖 π•–π•§π•–π•Ÿ 𝕓𝕖π•₯π•₯𝕖𝕣 π•₯π•™π•’π•Ÿ 𝕓𝕖𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕖.

𝟚𝟘. 𝕐𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 π•—π•šπ•₯ π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕓𝕖𝕒𝕦π•₯π•ͺ 𝕀π•₯π•’π•Ÿπ••π•’π•£π••π•€ π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕀𝕠 π•žπ•’π•Ÿπ•ͺ π•”π• π•¦π•Ÿπ•₯π•£π•šπ•–π•€.

πŸšπŸ™. ℙ𝕖𝕠𝕑𝕝𝕖 π•₯π•–π•Ÿπ•• π•₯𝕠 π•π•šπ•œπ•– π•€π•œπ•šπ•Ÿπ•Ÿπ•ͺ 𝕑𝕖𝕠𝕑𝕝𝕖 π•žπ• π•£π•–

π”Έπ•Ÿπ•ͺ𝕨𝕒π•ͺ π•₯𝕙𝕒π•₯'𝕀 π•Ÿπ• π•₯ 𝕒π•₯ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•–π•Ÿπ•• 𝕠𝕗 π•žπ•ͺ π•₯π•™π• π•¦π•˜π•™π•₯𝕀 π•₯𝕙𝕒π•₯ π•œπ•–π•–π•‘ π•žπ•– π•—π•šπ•₯, 𝕓𝕦π•₯ π•š'𝕝𝕝 𝕑𝕣𝕠𝕑𝕒𝕓𝕝π•ͺ 𝕕𝕠 𝕒 π•€π•–π•”π• π•Ÿπ•• 𝕑𝕒𝕣π•₯~!<πŸ›

Good luck on your weight loss journey babes!

1 year ago

I feel so happy when my stomach growls

1 year ago

Seeing skinny people irl is so much more motivating bc that cannot be photoshopped.

If they can be skinny, I can be too

1 year ago
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party
β€œWhen We Catch Eyes At That Stupid Party

β€œWhen we catch eyes at that stupid party

I know exactly what to do

I'll take your hand, and we will leave

French exits from me & you”

Don’t Delete The Kisses - Wolf Alice / Frances Ha / Normal People / Daisy Jones & The Six (x) / Me and My Husband - Mitski

1 year ago

If I'm not supposed to have crushes on middle aged men then why are they so hot? Explain that political party of your choosing

1 year ago

π•€π•–π•–π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕔𝕝𝕠π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕀 π•˜π•–π•₯π•₯π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•“π•šπ•˜π•˜π•–π•£ >>>

1 year ago

inside every girl in her 20s there is a 60 year old bruce springsteen fan

1 year ago
What I learned and still learn within Bruce's writing is that our license to dream doesn't entitle us to the fruits of that dreaming. Sometimes, the life you want isn't the life you're going to get, but it's still a life. You might still have to find a way to love someone who has chosen a life alongside you, even though their own dreams haven't bloomed to their liking. Sometimes a city is crumbling and you actually can't fight your way out, and so you become witness to its crumbling and then participant to its crumbling. Sometimes you stop loving someone before they stop loving you, you leave or you're the one who is left. There's no value judgements placed on these realities in much of his writing, and there's also no satisfying closure. Atlantic City ends, and the circumstances are just as bad (if not worse,) than they were when the song began, because that's what happens sometimes. I find him to be an incredible romantic, a romantic who balances the realities of ache, the terrors of love and its potential damages. He says that to be able to dream is a blessing, and to wake from a beautiful, limitless dream is a type of immediate horror, and somewhere, at some point, a decision gets made about how long, and how eagerly someone can chase their dreams, and at what cost. I'm thankful I’ve learned how to write flawed but whimsical people. And I am thankful that I learned to write about what it is to be let down by a world that seemed like it might open up for you in the ways you need, or simply want. And how to write about what it is to try and be better, just just in case your number gets called. In case the person you have loved and longed for shows up on your doorstep and asks what now, what's next, what's possible.

Hanif Abdurraqib, on Bruce Springsteen

1 year ago

i love wearing jeans. i feel so beautiful. like bruce springsteen

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