“That Is Love. When You’re Smiling Because They’re Happy. When You Feel Better Because They’re

I’m honestly thinking about you right now. Yes, you. I hope that you’re doing alright, that you’re enjoying those simple gifts present in your life, and that you realize how magnificent you truly are and will always be. Please, please take care of yourself today, friend. -nicole addison

“The funny thing about stop signs is that they’re also start signs.”

— Unknown

Things I wish to tell you~

There are some days in your life when you want someone to share your emotions and opinions without judgement.

That soul is so close to your heart that you can share anything from crazy to important things, this is what we call it and it is made by spending time and years together with hundreds of memories where you laugh, cry and love each other.

The bond is so unique that you feel fortunate for their presence in your life.

You tell them each thing from your "first kiss which you gave her on the cheeks" to the "first date where you borrowed money" from your friends.

This bond is so outstanding that you feel that this is what you were searching for years, now nothing you want from your life more than their existence, and you are ready to do anything for them.

Their presence gives you energy and beliefs which you have lost years ago by questioning yourself.

you want that this bond keeps increasing over time, with more love and respect for each other.

some moment you thought what's wrong to have a life partner like them with whom you are close and connected with heart and mind.

You both have full faith and understanding with each other that no one can break that chain, you feel strong and happy with them even if t's a conversation of minutes you feel delighted.

But in life, things don't go the way we wanted to

One day things got messed up between you and her and that bridge which was made up of beautiful memories broke into pieces with left only regrets and mistakes.

You go far from each other but still, there are some days when you wish to tell them that you are surviving with their memories.

There are days when you wish to listen to their voice which still echoes in your head for which you used an Std Booth to listen to that voice.

There are still some days when you close your eyes and see them in your dreams holding hands together over the same bridge and kissing each other.

There are days when you wish to tell them how much you love them.

Written by

Ankit~

“And even if we never talk again, please remember that I’m forever changed by who you are and what you meant to me.”

— Chasing Amy

Loving

Love such a beautiful dream,

We all want a kind of love,

That seems out of this world,

The one which everyone craves,

And keeps looking for everywhere.

But no one ever taught us,

The most loving is self love,

You'll never ever feel complete,

Without loving yourself first.

Oh how euphoric it feels,

I can't even explain,

It's like sugar in my veins,

Like cotton candy in my brain,

Like fireworks in my heart,

Like gazing at the stars,

Like a dreamingly sighing,

Feels like the breeze cutting through your hair,

Like the amazing smell of your favorite flower,

Or reading something you like,

There are so many things which can describe,

The feeling of loving yourself,

It's seems so funny to explain,

I can't even comprehend.

Hearing yourself giggling alone,

And falling in love with the sound,

Peaking inside your heart,

And loving the person who you are.

Stop looking for love outside,

Just give yourself a part of love,

That you seem to be giving everyone else,

And I give you my word,

You'll never feel so loving,

Except for this,

I've always craved unconditional love,

But now I understand,

No one is going to give that to you,

More better than yourself.

So be a little more loving,

To yourself than everyone else.

-s.b.

8 Uncomfortable Truths that We All Need to Accept

Happiness is where you are now, or nowhere at all.

It’s not a new relationship, it’s not a new job. It’s not a completed goal, and it’s not a new car.

Until you give up on the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.

2. Quitting is for winners.

Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is for winners. Knowing when to quit, change direction, leave a toxic situation, demand more from life, give up on something that isn’t working and move on, is a very important skill that people who win at life all seem to have.

But don’t quit because it’s hard.

Quit because it sucks.

3. If they really wanted to, they would.

If you apply pressure, they’ll do what you want them to.

If you take the pressure off, you’ll see what they’d rather do.

Never waste your life fighting what someone would rather do.

Let them go. Move on. Do better.

4. Taking no risk is the biggest risk.

You have to risk failure to succeed.

You have to risk rejection to be accepted.

You have to risk heartbreak to love.

If you’re always avoiding risk, you’re risking missing out on life.

5. Call yourself out.

The most common reason why people keep making the same mistakes is because their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their ‍

own bullshit, their own toxic traits and their own mistakes.

6. Closure is your choice.

Closure isn’t an apology, or justice, or answers.

That’s insecurity.

If the situation made you feel awful, seeking closure by reopening it is insanity.

Closure isn’t something htye can give you.

Closure is moving on. Closure is your choice.

‍7. If you’re happy alone, you’ll be happier together.

There is no type of affection that can fill the void of a person who doesn’t love themselves already.

There is no independence  in dependency.

There is no personal security in attaching yourself to a secure person.

Until you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won’t make healthy decisions about someone else

8. It’s not your job to fix damaged people.

Your responsibility to hep someone will never outweigh their responsibility to help themselves.

But, it’s worth asking yourself why you resonated so strongly with someone that so desperately needed “fixing” in the first place.

Often, our own toxic romantic and non-romantic attachments tell a story about an issue we have within ourselves.

Sometimes we feel pain,sometimes we are in pain❤..

“I understood myself only after I destroyed myself. And only in the process of fixing myself did I know who I really was.”

— Unknown

“Perhaps many things inside you have been transformed; perhaps somewhere, someplace deep inside your being, you have undergone important changes while you were sad.”

— Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet