All men cheat so marry the richest one
Identity is a prison and I refuse to be locked up
How do you follow with the "no excuses no days off" mood and rhythm ? what are your advice on self motivation vs laziness ?
Laziness doesn’t get you abs or paid
keep your eyes on the prize 💸💸
Don’t be ashamed of walking around with an ugly old man. be ashamed of walking around with a young handsome one that wants to fuck you, but not pay your bills
Tell us more on how to manipulate guys 👀
Yesss so as promised here’s a few things to do
1.When you get to know someone, don’t reveal about yourself and ask them a lot about them. They will like the attention and at the end, realize they don’t know much about you, which will give an air of mysteriousness. Meanwhile, you’re collecting as much info about them to figure out what they like, what they dislike and what they seek. Then as the relationship progress, give hints and pretend to be their ideal person from the information you collected. That’s exactly what guys that want to get in your pants do. They sell a dream and once they know you caught the bait, they switch their personalities and stop pretending. Most likely will blame that change on something you did and you’ll go on a mission to change him back to how sweet and perfect he was before, but it was in fact a personality that was forged to fool you.
2.The silent treatment : most people hold to their pride a lot, give hints here and there that 1, you don’t text a lot so when you get distant and cold over text they’ll grasp on to that hope to explain any sudden disappearance, and 2, that you have pride and never go back to people that have wronged you (so when they upset you over something minor, give them the silent treatment and get them used to be the one to come back to talk and make things right and apologize), so you weaken their pride and ego and condition them to coming back to you always.
3.Lie lie lieeee, but be smart about it and don’t mix your stories up and make them believable. I always tell guys they are my firsts or 2nd, so they feel special. You have to sell yourself as someone untouchable and unattainable. But don’t go tell a guy he’s your first when you’ve fucked his cousin and PLEASE wait a decent amount of time before getting intimate. The Madonna/Whore complex really is a thing, I believe the best way to make a guy obsess over you is to project both/so he can’t fit you in a particular box : you’re out of his range, you’re untouchable, you’re divine yet so humane, sexy and carnal, so bullshit the hell out of him. Also you cheated? You lied? He caught you ? DENY! Never admit when you fucked up, even if you want to do it out of spite and hurt him. I’ll bury my secrets and all my lies with me when I die! If you have friends that can back your lies up for you and bullshit him to sell an image of you to him, it’s even better ‘’omg X is typically so cold with guys, I’ve never seen her like that with anyone but you’’.
4.Love bombing is great but you have to assert your superiority and how good, wonderful you are. For exemple, comments here and there about what your usual ideal type is to make him feel insecure and eager to compete and be the best not to lose you. The mistake I believe a lot of girl make is to be a man best source of support and let them get too comfortable, like yes he has to feel good when he is with you, but the point is that what you tell him when you love bomb him is to make him feel good only when he’s with you and insecure when he’s not with you, not feed him to make him delusional and overconfident. Play with his insecurity, redirect it so he feels lucky to be with you, don’t cure it. He has to constantly be under the impression that since you’re better than him, you can leave at any given moment and he’ll never find someone like that ever again.
5.Reinforce good behavior with love bombing and attentions targeting their specific love languages (ex: act overly excited and bubbly after he gives you a gift, if you’re typically colder be more tender and engage in more physical contacts, hug him, rub his arm scratch his hair, etc), and punish behavior you don’t like with silent treatment and ghosting (and really ghost don’t tell him anything just disappear without a word). They are your Pavlov’s experiments. :)
“you´re just skinny and under 25″ lmao
Sugar Baby Advice™ Debunked: This whole “act and look like you have your own money, act like you don’t need him” is meaningless. You don’t look rich, you’re just skinny and under 25 lol. These wealthy men still know you’re broke and desperate, that’s why they approach you. A lot of wealthy men won’t randomly approach women who are spending thousands of dollars on themselves or enjoying themselves at top restaurants bc the men know they are useless to such women. The men who do make a move are usually cheap and very short term. This is perfect for escorts who want to add new clients to their roster but not for “elite spoiled girlfriends”. If you want to go the elite spoiled route (NOT sugar baby and dating ONE man over 500k) then you need to find wealthy girlfriends and work their circles. One of my closest friends is a whale finance guy who was a client of mine many, many years ago who tells me about all the “overly excited and impressed” 21 year olds he dates, who think they’ve secured their whale (which is half true bc he’s very wealthy) but he joked one night about all the “telltale” signs young women give off and it was literally every single piece of advice you’d find on tumblr. Please learn how to improv and switch it up and stop the sugar daddy bullshit !!! These men know!
You really just gotta be obsessed with yourselves ladies, thats the only secret
thinking about the confidence I gave men by faking orgasms...
Honestly fuck this millennial pink pseudo wellness bullshit about being gentle to yourself and always practicing mindfulness and committing acts of self care by consuming Product™️, I’m gonna continue being that bitch faced waif in all black running around the city at ungodly hours with wads of cash and ritalin in a designer bag and a peppermint vape hanging out the side of my mouth, texting on two phones simultaneously.
this is basically a summary of everything you need to do to level up
Essential Steps followed by the most successful courtesans:
She drastically improves her appearance.
She upgrades her knowledge of etiquette and manners and improves her social skills.
She changes her environment in order to increase the chances of meeting men with money.
She makes a conscious decision to stop associating herself with men of lesser means and inferior position.
She continues climbing no matter what, because settling is never an option.
From ‘How to Date Like a Courtesan’ by Celeste Mgboli
my current struggle
Do you know how hard it is to concentrate on school work when you know you’re barely going to use the degree and your future most likely entails you on a yacht in Greece with an old man