Nobody Talks About How Damaging Being A Reader AND A Writer Is. Like I Can't Read A Book Normally Without

Readers aren’t stupid. If a character is crying, you don’t need to add “because she was sad.” They’ll get it.

Writing Tips: Character Interactions (First)

Not all characters are going to get along and some are going to get along really well. What’s important is working out their interactions.

Things to think about

1. Where do they first initially meet?

Depending on how they meet it can really alter the characters perception of the other. Between a bar, school, workplace, battlefield, or traveling someplace together. It will impact how they interact. If it’s a casual party then there is a more friendly vibe. If it’s a battlefield, friendliness isn’t exactly the thing to think about.

2. What do the characters first notice about another person?

Do they look at clothes first? Hair? Eyes? And do they acknowledge what they like or dislike in there head? Do they compliment the person on what they find attractive or unique?

3. How do they perceive the other person initially?

Depending on how they interact it can lead someone to have a bad impression or good impression. This is where it can be fun. If character A is pretending to be amiable and kind, does character B fall for it or are they able to see through it. Further more, if character a says something off putting does character b think they’re weird or just awkward.

4. Use internal thoughts or description to show the perceptions they have

Use the description or thoughts to make the first interaction more memorable. If character a is more of a scrutinizing or judgmental type then have them often being far too harsh or vivid in how they describe someone. Juxtapose that different description types too. Imagine if character b then describes the same person in much kinder light. It creates an array of perceptions about a singular person.

5. Attraction

Think about how your character acts when they are attracted to another person. Are they very upfront and honest? Flirtatious? Or are they shy and freeze up when in the face of someone their attracted to? Do they pick on them?

6. What have they heard about the other character before they interact?

Think about what have they heard about them before. If character a is known to be a chauvinist and character b meets them how would that skew their interactions. Would they be more on guard with them or more annoyed with them when they possibly solidify the rumors. Or if character a goes against that thought would character b feel guilty for thinking of them that way.

7. Biases

Everyone has biases whether we want to admit it or not and your characters should have biases as well. This can push your characters to deepen their relationships and also have them grow as characters as well.

8. Have they met prior?

If they’ve met prior how did that go. What all history do they share. This is more for the first on screen interaction. If they are meeting again has the other person changed? Personality wise and physically wise. What was their relationship like before this meeting. If so try to show the distance in time and then trying to re familiarize themselves with each other.

9. What is the purpose of their meeting?

Are they being introduced through a mutual friend or is this a fight? Are they in a bar and they just were dancing with each other. Whatever the context is let that shape how the characters act with each other. The environment and purpose of the meeting is going to greatly alter how they act.

10. Have fun

Just have fun with it. The characters should be written in how they would interact with the person. I’m how they would present themselves and in how they would go about it. They should do it uniquely to. Have their nervous ticks shown.

There are plenty more tips to give but these are things I think about when writing first meetings in stories.

It will never not be frustrating to me that amputees appear in fiction ALL. THE. TIME. and yet they're almost never acknowledged as such. The Cyberpunk genre is especially guilty of this: amputees and prosthetics becoming a normalised part of life are a defining part of the genre/aesthetic and yet no one even consults with any amputees about how we get represented there. Most writers in those genres don't even consider that giving your characters cybernetic arms and legs means they're an amputee.

CW: Ableism, dehumanisation

This makes it REALLY uncomfortable to engage with stories in the genre because another common aspect of cyberpunk is the idea of losing yourself and becoming something distinctly not-human anymore because you have too many cybernetic augmentations/implants. Shadowrun even has mechanics for this, which state if you get too many prosthetics, which is what cybernetics are 9 times out of 10, your character becomes a monster. These mechanics and discussions surrounding "how many robot bits make you not human anymore" are really, really uncomfortable when you remember this isn't something that's unique to a far-off future setting. Those people you're discussing the humanity of already exist. They're called amputees. If you reframe the question as "how many amputations can you have before you stop being a person" I hope you can see why an amputee like myself is not going to feel safe around you or in your fandoms.

And it's a shame, because I REALLY want to like Cyberpunk. I really, honestly do. I love the aesthetics, I love the idea of big corporations being the villains and the anti-capitalism at the heart of the genre, and I love the idea of prosthetics being not only destigmatised, but desirable. When written from a disability-inclusive lense, it honestly has the potential to be an incredibly uplifting and empowering genre. but as the genre stands right now, it's actively hostile to the very folks who are usually the stars of its stories: amputees, all because people just refuse to acknowledge us.

Cyberpunk isn't the only genre guilty of this, it's common all throughout sci-fi as a whole, but Cyberpunk is the only one where it starts becoming a serious issue due to its rampant dehumanisation of a real group of people. In other sci-fi settings, it's just kind of annoying and while it can be a form of erasure, it's not usually harmful, just...frustrating. Fantasy does it on occasion too, think pirates with a hook and a peg leg, but nowhere near as much.

If you, as an author or creator, use any of these words to describe a character or their tech in a sci-fi setting:

cybernetics/cybernetic enhancements

bionics

robot limbs

cyborgs

augmentations

You are probably writing an amputee. Please, at the very least, acknowledge it, and be mindful that those are real people who actually exist, not just a fantasy group you can speculate about.

When you’re ablaze with inspiration and can’t pick a creative hobby to focus on.

see the THING IS I don't feel like I ever worked hard enough to have "earned" the burnout, which is. probably how we got here.

I hate that people are using ai to write. If you don’t wanna write, then don’t. Like it’s not even just a money thing because there are ai generated fanfics now. I hate it so much.

I live this craft with my whole heart, even when it’s hard. I value my words and the work of every other writer out there. I don’t understand why people think using ai is okay. You’re stealing other people’s work and devaluing the craft. Plus, it’s bad for the environment to use ai.

it may take me a month to put out a chapter but at least im not using ai to write it.

it may take me a month to put out a chapter but at least im not using ai to write it.

it may take me a month to put out a chapter but at least im not using ai to write it.

it may take me a month to put out a chapter but at least im not using ai to write it.

it may take me a month to put out a chapter but at least im not using ai to write it.

IT MAY TAKE ME A MONTH TO PUT OUT A CHAPTER BUT AT LEAST IM NOT USING AI TO WRITE IT

if it's good enough for you, then it deserves to be made. don't let anyone else decide if your story is worth it or not.

Have I written in the past couple days? No. Are my daydreams going stupid? Hell yeah. When I have time to actually write it down will I still remember any of this lore? TBD

me rereading a scene: omg why is she acting like that who wrote this? i wrote this.

Nothing like spending the night somewhere because of the snow, only I can’t sleep and my laptop’s at home so now I’m writing on my phone while my friends cat claws my shoulder