Y'know I see the second part of this scene posted alot- I mean it's high-key iconic and so funny lmao but the context makes it an surprisingly sweet scene actually. The team is checking an planecrash up so that obviously triggers Kate, and because Spencer sees her she is pretty much put on a spot where she has to share WHY this affects her so much (remember what this job is.) and because of that, she doesn't wants Spencer or anyone else to act as she is made of glass because of it.
So Spencer's line isn't "I had it harder than you I dunno sis 🤷🏽♀️" it's his way of making her know nothing would change between her and the rest of the team, just like it didn't change with him. She was put on a position where she had to sharee what she DIDN'T want to mere days (weeks?) after meeting these people, so he decided to share as well so she wouldn't feel alone and uncomfortable.
Also notice how he didn't mention that his dad left him, that is because they are talking about losing people they love-
Anyways Spencer the only man ever.
and just like that she became my favorite character and all i could think about was HOW no one gave her a hug after this?????? LIKE this was a big ass scream for help
THE VAMPIRE DIARIES 1.01 Pilot
beca: you know that voice of morality and reason in your head?
chloe and fat amy simultaneously: you mean the one that sounds like aubrey?
alex silly laughing: ohhh, spence you had a crush on me? that's embarrassing
spencer:
spencer: we’re married
alex: still
morcia is my EVERYTHING
MORCIA + HUGGING
Seeing a post that you know a mutual will like and reblogging it to add enrichment to their dash like giving a tiger in a zoo a cardboard box
coulson: so explain to me how you two got into a car accident
yoyo: well, we were driving and there was a deer on the road and daisy didn’t notice it, so i said “margarida, deer!”
may: and???
yoyo: tell them what you said daisy
daisy: “yes, dear?”
“and in this moment, I swear, we are infinite”
she was trying so hard not to laugh
Alex's little smile at this omg
hotch: “7 tickets to 𝓑𝓪𝓻𝓫𝓲𝓮, please”