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Dear Supporter,
I hope this message finds you and your family in good health and high spirits. My name is Rakan Zaqout from Gaza.🍉 I am reaching out to seek your urgent help in spreading the word about our fundraising campaign. I lost both my home and my school, my parents lost their jobs too, due to the ongoing genocide in Gaza and we are now facing catastrophic living conditions.💔
I kindly ask you to visit our campaign. Your support, whether through donating or sharing, will help us reach more people who can make a difference. Thank you for your continued support for the Palestinian cause. Your dedication brings us closer to freedom.🕊
Please note, our campaign has been verified by @90-ghost and @aces-and-angels.☑
Hello my friend, I am so sorry for not being able to see this sooner. I sincerely pray for the safety of yourself and your family, and I hope at least one person sees this and donates. But always remember to keep on praying and anoint your mind with positive thoughts plus don't forget to rebuke all evil spirits that wish to harm you and your family from dangers seen and unseen. In the name of the Lord; please heal, protect, and restore your family's health plus the spirit of love and peace!😊❤️💗🤗
“I’m reaching out to ask for your help supporting a family who has been devastated by the ongoing genocide in Gaza. They have lost their home and their school, and their parents have lost their jobs. Now, they are facing catastrophic living conditions and desperately need our support. Please consider sharing their fundraising campaign and contributing whatever you can to help them rebuild their lives.”🥺🤗
This is me Aya.. 🇵🇸
Imagine you wake up with nothing left.That's exactly what happened with us .we moved from having everything to having nothing.In a blink of an eye ,we lost everything, our house ,dreams, memories belongings and our works. We are starting from zero and need your help to climb the leader step by step from scratch.
All the positive words cannot express how generous you are, especially in sharing my posts to inform other donors about the people of Gaza who are still suffering from the terrible conditions caused by the unjust war on Gaza!
Please continue to support us by donating directly or by sharing the link to let others know. Don't hesitate to help people in difficult and miserable times until the dark days are over. 🙏🏻🍉
https://gofund.me/c4c2cf82
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This will probably cause some hate, but:
You aren't always the victim just because you are mentally ill.
You try to get better? I am proud of you, keep going, i don't adress you here because people who actively try to get better for the people around them are trying, and you can be proud at yourself for that.
But people who just say "i'm sorry its the mental illness!" and expect their friends/partners/familymembers to forgive them aren't.
It is okay to say "Hey, i'm really sorry, i didn't meant to at all. I wasn't myself." Because it often actually is the reason for our behaviour. But to say that, you HAVE to actually try and get better in my eyes.
I do NOT demonise mental illnesses.
But I am aware of what damage it can cause, and that there is no way around but pointing things out.
I did mistakes before, and I also needed time to realise that it was quite often actually my fault, that i need to work on myself to get better and i just know some of you are triggered at this point.
But sometimes that is needed to understand yourself. To understand your mistakes.
It is not okay to say "it's not my fault! I'm mentally ill! I can't help it!"
I know its easier to say that, but, if you continue to do that you are not only (accidently) hurting others but also yourself.
Also, it is not fair that there are healthy people saying "they all are the same." Because we're not.
Every one of us, no matter wich mental illness, is different.
Every one of us deserve a chance just like every other human.
Let me point out again: Its not your fault for being mentally ill and/or traumatised, but it is indeed your responsibility.
A little reminder: there are many healthy people who also hurt their partners, sometimes fully aware of their actions.
You are not your diagnose. (Greetings to my therapist.)
LASTLY: a mental illness doesn't mean your love is bad! You can love, you deserve love, you are still a good person.
That's it, take care of yourself <3
I felt the need to write this down since i am sick of people judging others because of their disorder, also I am sick of people who use their disorder as a sort of excuse.
Romantisized Daddy issues/father complex.
No, daddy issues isn't liking to call someone 'daddy' in Bed, thats a kink and not a issue.
The father complex is a trauma response, so please stop romantisizing it out of respect.
Its much more than the liking in older men.
There are 3 Types:
Fearful - avoidant means that affected people avoid getting close to anyone. If they are in a relationship, they tend to run away from challenges. They struggle with intimacy.
Anxious - preoccupied means that affected ones are scared to be left, ofting causing relationship anxiety. Its common that they are really clingy and feel unsettled if they aren't with their partner.
Dismissive - avoidant means that affected ones have heavy trust issues, avoiding conservations and being scared of getting hurt again or to depend on anyone else than themselve.
Lets go over to common symptoms, the type of a father complex clearly depends on the symptoms.
Possessiveness & clingy behaviour.
Overabundance of love & assurance.
Using Sex to feel loved.
Dating (older) men that make you feel protected.
Being afraid to be alone. > jumping from one relationship into another.
Choosing repetitively abusive men.
Attachment issues.
Being afraid to be vulnerable.
Trust issues.
Not setting boundaries because you're scared they will leave if you say "no."
Idealizing your partner.
the father complex often comes with..
Depression
Persistent anger issues
Low self-esteem
Stress
Worry
Anxiety
The father complex is treatable, search for a therapist and analyse your struggles. If your partner is okay with that, maybe even consider couple therapy.
So am i the only one that gets more and more (silent) panic attacks when i get emotionally extremely tired like tired to the point it physically affects my body.
Feeling weak, nimbs going numb, dizziness and headaches, stomach pain, things like that I mean.
Probably also a thing that more people should talk about mental illnesses since just because you can't see something there isn't nothing. Most illnesses begin without a visible characteristic.
But at the same time, if we try and talk about this were just lazy or imagining things.
But why? Like (normally) nobody is questioning if you really have a headache or stomachpain or things like that but if you say "its because my mental health." You can't be sick just because they can't relate/understand.
Something that definitely isn't talked enough about as a symptom from many borderliners are Hallucinations.
I myself have auditory hallucinations. Its really weird but luckily not scaring me yet.
Episodes
First of all, English isn´t my first language. Secondly, please be aware that every Borderline Personality Feels different. Lastly, Triggerwarning! i am not sure how this affects others.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------ "I can handle your Episodes!" They say,
Until they experience the first Depression episode, realising that i may accept their hugs but won´t feel better. Perhaps trying to say nice words, unfortunately triggering a Rage Episode.
They realise, that they actually can´t really help and that (surprise surprise) Episodes do change the Personality. Until they experience the first splitting episode, realising that i won´t insult them or hurt them physically. They will feel like i hate them, because with this episode having the upperhand, i do.
until they realise that i am not the girl they started to like anymore, perhaps i don´t even know myself who i am at some points. And if i get back to the person they got to know first, back in the infinite emptyness i found comfort in and have my own mind back, feeling guilty and sorry. Are they able to handle it? every single day?
because i can´t. i am trying to help myself, get therapy, taking meds. i don´t want them to suffer because of me, i am scared of getting emotionally attached again. scared to loose them before i even got them.
But i don´t judge them for leaving again neither, because i am aware of how rough it can get. Yet i can´t change it, everything getting numb with a new episode. My own head yelling at me, insulting me on the worst way possible.
How could they understand without having it themselves? the feeling of fire inside of you, the pressure, the pain, the helplessness, the anxiety, the overwhelming emotion rolling over your body, daring to crush you.
so much the touch of others scares you to death, scared they would let you explode, their voices blurred and seemingly only there to judge even if they aren´t.
Its just to much.
Do they still think they can handle my episodes? even if, do they truly want to?
------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Maybe, just maybe we all can figure our way out of hell alive some day. Find a person who can handle any of our personalitys, without letting it crush themselve. Don´t give up. Thanks for reading, have a nice day <;3
Hello dear friends!
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All the positive words cannot express how generous you are, in donating and sharing my posts to inform other donors about our difficult and terrible circumstances caused by the war of extermination on Gaza!
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Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the support you are giving me and my family ✌✌
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Please continue to support me until I achieve my short-term goal of reaching 28k€. There are less than 960€ left to reach it.
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❤️🤍💚🖤 spreading this once again, best of luck and free palestine ❤️🤍💚🖤
Hello sorry for tagging. I am very sick, my asthma is at its maximum level, my nose freezes, I have no medicine or food. I am in bad shape financially, I am a black disabled, who uses multiple medications, I pay for my food and lodging
Unfortunately I do not have all the resources to keep me safe, that is why I need your help, whatever you can contribute to me will be of great help.
I'm very sorry about that. I truly wish I could help, but I'm a minor without a job but I'll pray for you.
please take your time into reading what's been happening in my country. the government imposed a broadcast ban on the cases, and we're trying to spread the news through tags internationally to amplify our voices
protests are being held and there's a hashtag campaign on tw1tter planned for oct 8. here's what you can do
original thread. you can also read on the istanbul convention there
thread on the case and why turkish women are in danger
PLEASE DON’T SCROLL!!!
Times are very hard for people in 2025 right now and it’s just the beginning.
We especially need to help women wherever we can. A lot of the women in this country are experiencing absolute horrors right now.
This woman has been experiencing time after time of misfortune and due to loss and a lot of the inflated prices of 2025, she cannot even afford food for her family.
She does not have access to her widow’s benefits.
She has fallen into debt by over $2,000 USD.
Her spouse died in December 2024 of Parkinson’s Disease.
So, guys, gals, enby pals, I please ask you to help this woman. We need to help and support as many people as we possibly can this year.
We need to stick together as we get through these hard years with this tangerine terror we can a president.
So, PLEASE, I beg of all of you, repost and help this woman reach her $5,000 goal to pay off her debt and get food for her family!!
PLEASE REPOST!!! REPOSTING CAN SAVE A LIFE!!!
PLEASE DONATE, LIKE, AND REBLOG!!!
IMPORTANT!!! DON'T SCROLL PLEASE HELP MY FRIEND!!
My dear friend, Sally Frisbey, lost her husband of 40 years in December 2024 of Parkinson's Disease. Since his passing, she and her family are struggling with everyday life and trying to meet basic needs, i.e., food insecurity: due to her debt after her husband's passing, she has been unable to bring food into her home for her family. She & her late spouse were both retired and after his passing so went more than half of their finances. She has not been able to receive her widow benefits. She has been unable to afford to pay for her monthly expenses: she's $2,000 behind in electric bills and she's been unable to seek assistance. Currently, she's just trying to navigate life as a widow. She is a hardworking, loving woman of faith who loves her God and loves people, a person who, when a need arises, seeks to meet that need however possible. Now she needs a helping hand to get her through the days ahead.
DO NOT SKIP!!! PLEASE REPOST!!!
Please donate to help me reach our $5,000 goal to help her with her overpriced light bills, bring food into her house, etc.
Prayers, manifestations, Invocations, evocations, and well wishes if you're non-religious are welcome!
