Self Growth - Blog Posts
☑️Change your mindset (so whatever you set your mind and focus on is what your life and emotions will follow)
☑️Cut off some negative friends (For you to occupy your focus with positivity, negative friends have to go.
☑️Set goals for yourself (One of the most important ways you can forget about the negative things that had happened in the past is by setting goals for your future)
☑️Learn to forgive (if you forgive that person, then you're releasing yourself in from a cage you have locked yourself in)
☑️Stop trying to impress others (For example, if your friend can't understand you in that situation, don't get emotional about it)
❤️Stop caring /listening to rumors❗️
❤️Your hater are your fans ✌🏾
❤️Let them talk, they not doing nothing for you
❤️Do you, and what makes you happy
❤️Keep your moves silent
❤️The best revenge is success, and glowing up
❤️Stay focused on you
💙Always think about number 1: you!
💙Be kind to people. To be a bad bitch don't use that nasty attitude on random people.
💙Use your voice and get your opinions out there
💙Confidence is key!
💙Keep your priorities straight
💙Always keep up with your hygiene
💙Boys shouldn't be your top priority
💙Wear what you feel confident in
💙Keep your grades up
💙One or two main friends are all you need
💙Don't listen to anyone's opinion about you
💙Have a goal in life! but remember it's normal and completely okay to change your goal in life
💕Having a bad attitude doesn't make you a baddie, it's ugly.
💕Being a baddie is a mentality then in becomes a lifestyle.
💕Real baddies are supportive and nice.
💕Don't only take care of yourself externally, but also internally.
💕Build your confidence & self love <3
💕Don't let stereotypes or expectations define you
💕You don't need to follow trends, make your own.
💕Don't put yourself or others down.
💕Always try to look your best!
💕Improve your confidence
💕Keep your vibrations high ✨
💜 Never talk down on yourself, and dont allow people to talk down on you. Negativity does nothing but tear you self-esteem down. Instead, say positive things about yourself.
💜 Invest in yourself. Self care is so important I'm feeling confident: Feeling down? Put on a face mask and feel like a baddie when you're glowing
💜 Step outside your comort zone sometimes. When you do something you've never thought of doing, you feel good about it (only if it's something positive)
💜 Show confidence in your actions. Speak up, walk with your head held high, look good, everything. Your actions should speak for you
💜 STOP COMPARING YOURSELF. Drowning yourself to uplift someone is a terrible thing for your self-esteem
💖DON'T FIGHT OVER BOYS!
💖ALWAYS LOOK OUT FOR EACH OTHER!
💖DON'T LINK THEIR SECRETS.
💖DON’T DATE THEIR EX UNLESS SHE'S OKAY WITH IT.
💖YOUR GIRLS ALWAYS COME BEFORE YOUR BOYS.
💖BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER.
💖SUPPORT EACH OTHER ALWAYS.
💖DON'T TALK SHIT ABOUT A PERSON AND THEN GO AND BESTIES WITH THEM.
💖NEVER LIE TO EACH OTHER.
💖DON'T LEAVE ANYBODY BEHIND.
💖ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH YOUR OPINION.
💖DON'T LEAVE ANYONE OUT.
💖NEVER SEE YOUR GIRLS AS A COMPETITION / THREAT.
💚Get rid of toxic people
💚Throw things away you dont need
💚Clean your room
💚Delete people you dont talk to anymore
💚Buy new things
💚Start a writing journal and write about your mood and how u feel
💚Meditate
💚Change your diet
💚Start drinking water
💚Exercise 3x a day /week
💚If u gotta take time of from everyone do it and dont hesitate
💚Learn to love yourself
💚Don’t be negative towards others
💚Find new hobbies
💚Take care of your skin
💚Work on your confidence
💚Remember positivity is key
“And sometimes I have kept my feelings to myself, because I could find no language to describe them in.”
- Jane Austen
"We grow through hard times. Growth is change. And when everything is easy, we have no reason to change. The most painful moments in life expand us. And when the pain leaves, space remains. Space we can fill with life itself."
"When I was young, I used to admire intelligent people; as I grow older, I admire kind people."
- Abraham Joshua Heschel
Preach🙌
- Embeccy
You might feel insecure about yourself and doubt your abilities but just know that there is one person who is soulfully rooting for you. Don't doubt yourself, you are special and important for someone. you are worthy of being loved. you are worthy of being heard.
just look how rare and beautiful you are !!
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Breaking Free: How Societal Stereotypes Limit Young Women and How to Reframe Those Beliefs
Let's talk about something real: societal stereotypes. From a young age, women are constantly told throughout our lives about who we're supposed to be. We're supposed to be quiet, agreeable, nurturing, and perfect. These stereotypes not only shape how others see us, but they also shape how we see ourselves. These stereotypes can create fixed mindset beliefs that limit our sense of identity and potential.
Think about it:
“I’m not good at math or science.”
“I shouldn’t be too ambitious or assertive.”
“I need to prioritize being liked over being heard.”
Sound familiar? These beliefs aren’t just harmless thoughts. They’re barriers. They tell us what we can’t do, who we shouldn’t be, and where we don’t belong. But here’s the truth: you are not defined by stereotypes.
How Stereotypes Create Limiting Beliefs
Internalization: We absorb societal expectations and start believing they’re true.
Fear of Failure: Stereotypes make us afraid to step outside the box, so we avoid risks.
Imposter Syndrome: We doubt our abilities, feeling like we don’t deserve success.
How to Break Free and Reframe Those Beliefs
Challenge the Narrative
Ask yourself: Who told me I can’t? Why do I believe that?
Replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones: “I am capable of learning and growing in any field I choose.”
Embrace a Growth Mindset
Believe that your abilities aren’t fixed. You can develop skills, overcome challenges, and redefine your identity.
Celebrate effort, not just results. Progress is progress, no matter how small. Even if it's 1%, it still counts towards the 100%.
Surround Yourself with Support
Find mentors, friends, and communities that uplift and inspire you. You can join communities on Tumblr or search for Discord servers you align with.
Share your goals and struggles with people who believe in your potential.
Redefine Success on Your Terms
Success doesn’t have to look like what society says it should. What matters is what you value. This is your life after all.
Do not be scared to take up space. Be bold. Be unapologetically yourself. Live in your authenticity. It is what makes you you.
Take Action, Even When It’s Scary
Start small. Apply for that opportunity, speak up in that meeting, or try something new.
Remember: Courage isn’t the absence of fear. It’s acting despite it.
You Are More Than a Stereotype
Your potential is limitless, but it’s up to you to claim it. Reframe those beliefs, challenge the status quo, and step into the person you’re meant to be. The world needs your voice, your ideas, and your brilliance. Don’t let anyone (including yourself) tell you otherwise.
Homework time!📝
What’s one limiting belief you’re ready to let go of? Let’s cheer each other on in the comments! ✨
I think it’s very important to emphasise that there can be so many versions of you existing within the same existential reality, side by side. You don’t have to abandon your core to succumb to any socially engineered version of you that only brings about peace in the latter and not within you :( it’s okau to admit that different people placed contextually in different settings will inevitably bring out different sides of you! That doesn’t necessarily imply that you’re forgetting your ground :) to each their own. It’ll always be upto you to show any or every side of you to a person <3
sometimes it’s easier said than done than to not want to change, but change does happen, be it within or beyond our will, but change does happen and it hits you like a bullet before you even have the time to prepare yourself for the run. So I’m just here to tell you that it’s okau to admit that you’re hurt and that this pain won’t subside just that easily, that it’s gonna show every morning you wake up and it’s gonna burn every few times you take a shower. That’s what it means to acknowledge it. That’s what it means to accept the very state of your being, and that’s what it requires to patch yourself up, to heal :) so the next time somebody asks you “are you going to change?” breathe in and say “am I going to change? I can’t tell, but I’m going to accept myself”
For all that your heart has seeped in through , for all that you have continued to give, for all that your being has continued to hold, for all that your skin has embraced, for every promise that you’ve thread onto for yourself, to see you on the other side, you made it :) I see you now and you still remain, every bit of you still remains, you made it to 2023. Happy new year <3
