OTHER - Blog Posts
okay but here’s a concept: allowing two female leads to fall in love with each other instead of having the same cliche heteronormative storyline for a ship that has no real chemistry
a lot of people (cowards) don’t like mint ice cream. i’m not one of them
i wish this website wasn’t such an unsafe environment to discuss abuse in the case of women who date other women. don’t get me wrong, i’m the first to criticize the mainstream stereotype that our relationships are inherently toxic and you’ll catch me fighting against the unjust demonization of sga women for the rest of my life. but as a lesbian who’s been in an emotionally abusive relationship, it can feel really alienating to be constantly bombarded the rhetoric that our relationships are these soft, loving things by the very nature of not having men involved.
when real life abuse victims and survivors are afraid to talk about their experience because they might be silenced for “perpetuating the stereotype that lesbian/bi women are abusive and predatory”, there is a problem.
we need to make space for a conversation on how gay women can feel trapped in an abusive relationship because they’re genuinely terrified that they won’t ever meet anyone else.
we need to acknowledge that it takes work to be a good partner to someone, that you’re not guaranteed to be good for someone just because you aren’t a man.
we need to allow survivors to open up about their experience with abuse no matter how that abuse manifested, without making them feel guilty for coming forward.
our love is beautiful, yes. but people are people and any relationship has the capacity to be damaging to those in it.
How do I make my girl wet?
throw a cup of water at her
Should I do something other than completely and utterly worship my ships every second of the day? Yes.
Am I going to? No.
we’re literally floating on a tiny planet in fucking space why are we surrounded by hatred and misery. why can’t everyone just calm the fuck down and lay on some grass. the sun is a GIANT BURNING ORB why does money exist. fuck everything
What is HAPPENING
people who leave detailed reviews on fanfiction are a gift to the world
all fanfic writers, ever, awake at ungodly hours doubting everything they’ve ever written or thought of writing until they see that one (or more, hopefully!) magical, long-ass comment that makes every bit of struggle totally and completely worth it (via rudderless-in-an-ocean-of-stars)
What even is a gay cafe like what you go in, order a sandwich, sit down, eat your sandwich and leave but like, Paris is Burning is playing on the TV or something?
do u ever finish an episode of a tv show online and think “man that wouldve been a bad cliffhanger to wait a week for!” as you click the next episode
me: *turns lights off*
me: *goes to bed*
me: It's time to reading bed stories.
me: *starts reading fan-fic*
