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i am sorry for that gross anon you got it made me sick.

They are so entitled. i Hope you are safe,

Remember, sending someone r//ape threat is sexual harrasment. Anon could face charges for that.

Hope you are okay don't be ashamed this was not your fault.

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I'm sorry it made you feel sick anon <3 Hope you're doing alright, thank you for such a sweet ask. And you are right, harassing and threatening a real person is in fact a crime, I'm not sure why antis insist fictional ships and ideas are illegal but go on to do something that is legitimately illegal and harmful. But it's been like this for a long time now unfortunately. Take care of yourself anon, thank you again! <3

Hope yuo get raped and find yourself wiht a man who will beat you everyday you romanticize peopls trauma fucking weirdo i hate you

First of all, for those of you who didn't know, I don't ship anything besides mine and others selfships, I am just absolutely for every ship existing and being supported. Second of all any dark fictional concepts I enjoy is a reflection of my OWN trauma in some way or another and it helps me process and cope, though darkshipping is still valid even if it isn't for the sake of coping. Third of all I'm not attracted to real people like at all so getting with a man or anyone IRL is highly unlikely. Fourth of all trauma can't be gatekept, when people enjoy fictional darkships or dark scenarios I can assure you they more than likely are not sitting here like 'oh yeah this is this one persons trauma, I will incorporate it into a ship for the sole purpose of romanticizing this said persons trauma' like that just doesn't happen. Either they're coping with their OWN trauma or just find it interesting to explore in fiction. Fifth of all it's absolutely okay to hate or dislike me but interacting with me at all is breaking your own boundaries, boundaries have to be fulfilled by both parties and if you break your own boundary that isn't my fault. Sixth of all this sounds quite personal and emotional so I hope you have a good day and learn to respect your own boundaries so you don't cause yourself and anyone else any unnecessary distress. Bye now.

istg antis LOVE selfshipping but still need to put their anti stamps on it, like, bbg, what do you THINK proshipping is?

"WHY DO YOU SHIP YOURSELF WITH A MINOR, YOU CREEP!?"

now, this may be hard to get, but teens have been selfshipping since the birth of fandom and probably longer.

like idk he broke into my house and told me "hi sorry youre hopelessly in love with me now." and proceeded to burrow into my skull, he lives in my brain now. surely theres worse things out there than some teenager having a crush on a flower.

There's a lot of things i noticed on the anti side of selfshipping, where they find it disgusting for a minor to selfship with another minor character but they find it completely acceptable when said minor selfships with an adult character, and there have been plenty of instances of an adult calling a minor a pedo for selfshipping with a character that is, in fact, their age 😭 People of all age groups take up fandom and selfship spaces, I'm not sure where people got the idea that these spaces were only ever filled with adults anyways. Selfshipping itself has been a thing before fandoms and discourse and labels and whatever else, but it did used to be frowned upon for being considered 'weird and unconventional', proshippers are the ones who went 'hey, this is harmless, let people have their fun.' (naturally, as this is the proship mindset). Anyways anon you have your fun and enjoy your selfships and f/os however you want, you are supported and accepted!

For the pro-ship self-shippers who equally enjoy darkships and self-shipping, imagine your f/o making content of your favorite darkships with you as a way to show their support! Whether or not they're the artistically creative type, imagine your f/o still putting in the effort to try. Fics, art, blurbs, edits, roleplay, etc, they'd love to indulge in your interests with you, as a way to get closer with you and as a way to show that they're more than content with the fact that you find entertainment and/or comfort in these fictional scenarios. They think you are SO creative and feel so lucky to be with someone who has such an interesting and creative mind! Oh and yes, this also pertains to if those dark scenarios include them directly!

When I feel better, I was thinking about starting some more self-ship centered posts like imagines and maybe reblog games if anyone is interested. All for proselfshippers of course! And still post general proship positivity and encouragement while I'm at it. I also draw and have improved a lot over the years so, BUT if this doesn't interest you guys on this blog I'll make a separate blog instead :) !

I got hit with the flu </3 I will be back soon ! Once this flu goes away ahh. Always remember you are accepted and valued here, keep being awesome and creative !

Thank you for following my blog 👉🏻👈🏻 knowing someone as kind as you accepts me gives me hope and love

~ @shyproselfie

I can't tag myself due to how I have my blog settings on purpose

You're so sweet awh 🥹 Ofcourse I accept you! You are 100% valid and accepted here and i'm glad to offer a space where you feel as such. Take care of yourself!

Hi sweets! Just here to remind you that all of your ships are 100% awesome and valid and super cool no matter what the dynamic is! I love seeing the dynamics dark/comshippers come up with, the scenarios that can come to play and the creativity of it all, I think your mind is absolutely brilliant, don't ever let anyone take your creativity away!

Does anyone even read killing stalking anymore </3

Hi yandere enjoyers, specifically yandere otome enjoyers, do you have any recs for yandere otome games? Or games that have a yandere character/characters? I've heard itch has alottt but I dunno which ones are worth trying! 😭

> Ily proship self-shippers who are in fandoms that are practically overrun by antis, so you struggle to enjoy content of your f/os because of it.

> Ily proship self-shippers who don't feel comfortable or safe enough to post about your self-ships because of how the fandom is, your self-ship is just as valid as anyone else's and the fact you're private about it doesn't take that away!

> Ily proship self-shippers who enjoy making your self-ships dark, toxic, incestuous, etcetc. I also love you if you prefer keeping your self-ships healthy and light.

> Ily proship self-shippers who have hundreds of f/os, and ily proship self-shippers who have only one or very few f/os.

> Ily proship self-shippers who both self-ship with a character and also ship them with other characters. And ily proship self-shippers who are too jealous to do that.

> Ily proship self-shippers who have poly self-ships, and ily if you keep all your self-ships monogamous too!

> Ily proship self-shippers who self-ship for comfort and trauma processing. And ily proship self-shippers who simply do it for fun and entertainment!

> Basically, i just love you proship self-shippers, you are all awesome and deserve as much support as anyone else. If you are a proship self-shipper i'm all open for moots and i'll listen to all your gushes and info-dumps about your self-ships! 🫶🏻

I hope ur having a wonderful day OP <3 don't forget to also take care of yourself! (o´・∀・)o

Awhh how sweet! Thank you! Same goes for you anon. Take it easy, you've done great today!

Kill yourself

Did you know i'm a real person that you're saying this to, how does this make you any better than me when all I do is support peoples freedom in expressing their fictional creativity lol

Here it is :))

It's boring and messy be warned lolol, i'll add it to my pinned rq

i just want to say I love my f/o and even if being non-sharing can be hell idc cuz i still love her so much!!!!

Hey sweets! I completely understand how difficult it can be being non-sharing, i'm sorry its been hell for you. Your f/o loves you SO much too y'know! She is beyond happy and content being with you and she can't ever imagine living a life where you aren't in it. Don't worry too much, you got this!

Hello proshippers <3 What are your favorite dynamics in your fictional ships? Be it darker themes or light ones, i'd love to know! Or if you also self-ship you can me your favorite dynamic with your self-ships too!

Well now that i'm back, hello proship community, i've missed you <3

Proship has always been and will always be valid! Proshipping existed well before the discourse became a thing! Back when people shipped sebaciel without batting an eye and read whatever the hell they wanted without the fear of being a 'bad person'. When everyone knew that finding these topics interesting in fiction didn't correlate to their views irl. When people knew to block what they didn't like, and didn't threaten real people over their own dislikes. These things have always existed in fandom spaces, and though it's valid to hate certain dynamics and topics in fiction it doesn't mean anyone deserves to be threatened and harassed if they do like those fictional ideas! I love you proshippers and you are always welcome here!

Goodness me has it been a long time! I lost the email to this account when I switched phones and only recently remembered what it was because of a conversation I had with a friend! 😭 I see a lot of hate in my inbox but I don't really care, I've had a lot of time outside of here doing what I need to do and my mind still hasn't changed. Surely you all have forgotten about this blog by now, but it's lovely seeing our community still thriving! If any of you are still around, hello!

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Some of my f/os are on my straw.page!

Hello sweets! My name is whatever you'd like it to be. Demigirl {they/them, fem presenting}, ficto-rom/sexual. Over 18! I'm a proshipper, darkshipper, and selfshipper. my blog is here to support these same folk of any race; any gender; any sexuality; etc. I'm an inclusionist of any mental disorders; chronic illnesses; disabilities; etc.

On my blog, I will post proship, selfship, etc, positivity. You may feel free to send me any requests that you're wanting as long as it still has a relationship to these things!

Reminder: proship/darkshipping does not and SHOULD NOT correlate to your views in real life.

DNI: DNIs don't do much but I'll say I will block if you're pro-contact, radical anything (to the point of being violent/aggressive/harassing), exclusionary towards race; gender; sexuality; etc. also if you consider yourself an 'irl loli/shota'. Probably more that I can't think of but basically I will just silently block you if I know I wouldn't get along with you!

DMs are always open ♡

Darkship blog (MDNI) -> @bl4ck0utg1rl

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ex anti culture is stressing about whether I should see my f/o as my father or my husband a few months ago and now just realizing that,,, I can see him as BOTH,,,

had this looooooong ass discussion with an anti (like an hour long) and they told me that they wouldn't be surprised if I wanted to abuse my younger brothers??? whahuhhhhh????

"[favorite character] would actually hate you for doing that!!"

my brother in christ I am proship. why the fuck do you think I would care about what pixels arranged to make a png think about me

"basic dni" do i get inside of the oven if i interact with you or not

milgram and alien stage fans will find every little detail and make the best analyzes i have seen in my life, i love my fandoms

aging your self insert down >>>>>>

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rentry on wip

𐙚 DNF: radqueers, pro-consang, antishippers, pro/complex contact para, any bigots in general

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🩷 OPTION 1: people can openly ship whoever they want to and write RPF about anyone, no matter of shipped ones age, relativeness, relationships or consent

🩷 OPTION 2: people can openly ship whoever they want to and write RPF about anyone with no consent asked, as long as shipped ones are not underaged, relatives or in abusive relationships

🩷 OPTION 3: people can ship whoever they want to and write RPF about anyone, no matter of shipped ones age, relativeness, relationships or consent, as long as this ship has little to no publicity and content is only posted privately

🩷 OPTION 4: people can ship and write RPF only with those who have consented to being shipped before

🩷 OPTION 5: people shouldn't ship real people and write RPF

I personally have really mixed thoughts about this so... Yeah I wanted to ask what do you think

I'd also like to know what exactly you think either in the comments or reblogs if you're okay with sharing this

Let's not blame the victim!! Not their fault.

They should not have been in proshipper areas that young and shouldn't blame proshippers for it.

people are so dumb. especially antis

look at this comment i found on tiktok 😭

or that's your fault... 😭