Nonbinary - Blog Posts
as a pangender, fuck all people that think LGBTQIA+ is invalid
but other than that assume yourself, you wanna be gay, be gay, you wanna be straight, be straight but support each other because everyone deserves rights and liberty.
Speaking about my past self, in a trans sense, I worry about killing her. I worry she has been smothered by the person I have become. I hope she doesn't think I hate her. She was a good kid. And I carry her with me.
I have like 5 followers but all 5 followers deserve to know they’re valid and loved. I fucking love you guys.
Here are some Pride Planets!! There are 28 in total and I will link the posts of the other 18!
1. Pride 2. Lesbian 3. Gay man 4. Bisexual
5. Pansexual 6. Trans 7. Non binary 8. Asexual
9. Aromantic 10. Intersex
Pm me for any flags I missed or any personal combination of flags!
The 2022 Gender Census is now open!
[ Link to survey ]
The ninth annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2022.
After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.
If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, retweet this tweet, boost this Mastodon post, check out this post on Reddit, share this Facebook post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful - it’s what helped us get 44,000 responses last year.
Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com
The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.
Thank you so much!
[ Link to survey ]
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my biggest problem is that queer characters are either only gay to progress the plot/straight relationship or just put in there tokenly for diversity points but just re-enforces shit stereotypes
question for everyone in the alphabet mafia, what are the biggest problems/negative experiences y'all've had with queer media
Gender is just a performance and we're theatre kids.
I need advice!
I am out to people at school and very much in the drama community as trans and with a new name. I am in our fall show and a lot of my family is coming to the performance. I am not out to my family, but I also want my name to be correct on the program. I don't know which I hate more.
Plz send help
Don't you just hate it when you look in the mirror and don't recognize yourself?
......guilty!
personally I don't think if you're a kid you should be using your real name on the internet. very easy for people to find out too much about you. instead you should spend years using a different made-up name that becomes part of your persona to an arguably even greater degree than your actual name and then when you grow up and find out you're trans you have a ready-made name to switch to even if it's probably like Leaf or something
THIS
also its weird to assume that all detrans people are transphobic when in fact most of them support trans people and are grateful that they had the opportunity to explore their identity in the first place.
its stupid transphobes that put words in their mouths like "detrans people regret their transition they dont want anyone else to go through that!!!" when in fact most detrans people do not regret their transition in the way transphobes think they do💀
just saw a post where someone put “detrans dni” and like… hey we should be supporting detransitioned people bc if we don’t terfs will
i fully support this
i propose that instead of pride month, we have queer year (queer people are treated like actual people all year long)
edit: @ilackhumanqualities wins best addition to this post
please get off my blog if you disagree with any of these btw. Also important to note: bi people are not straight people queerbaiting or gay people in denial. THEY'RE BI. they like multiple genders. how is that so hard to understand
Okay, time for some house cleaning. If you disagree with any of these then get off my blog
Trans women are women
Trans men are men
Nonbinary people are nonbinary
Bisexuals, pansexuals, and omnisexuals are valid
Arospec and acespec people are valid
Trans women deserve to be included in women spaces
Trans lesbians deserve to be included in lesbian spaces
Trans men deserve to be included in men’s spaces
Gay trans men deserve to be included in gay spaces
Black lgbtq+ people deserve to be included in our community
Indigenous lgbtq+ people deserve to be included in our community
LGBTQ+ people of all races deserve to be included in our community
You’re never too old to transition or discover your sexuality
Respect is not given but earned
Polyamorous relationships are valid
Monogamous relationships are valid
And lastly, but sure not leastly,
IT IS NEVER OKAY TO DISCRIMINATE AGAINST SOMEONE FOR THINGS OUT OF THEIR CONTROL. RACE, SEXUALITY, GENDER IDENTITY, AGE, DISABILITY, ETC. AND THIS DOES INCLUDE DISCRIMINATION AGAINST PEOPLE SEEN AS THE STANDARDS
I pray this won’t lose me too many followers. Not because I care about followers but because I hope not many people disagree with this
no because the way republicans think some girls transition just to assault other girls in the bathrooms is fucking ridiculous considering the fact that a literal rapist won the presidency over a woman lmao. someone whos actually a predator wouldnt even need to "pretend to be a girl" to assault other women
do conservatives genuinely think that like. when i was 12 years old i decided to sacrifice my relationship with my family and my teenage years and my everyday joy just so i could eventually piss in the girls bathroom.
how fucking delusional are you. how can you think that any human being would put themselves through all this suffering and pain and loss just to like mock women or something. theres no fucking long con its not a bit im not fucking pretending. im not a man.
are you seriously going to hate me so fucking much that you would overthrow shit like human rights and your own economic comfort just to make sure that i cant be happy as myself. does my friend losing at sports but getting to be happy playing bother you so much that the past two months or whatever are worth it.
literally all this is just so i can be happy. im a fucking woman and nothing you can ever do will change that. its so fucking pathetic that my joy is everyones enemy for some reason. it doesnt have to be this way yall. it really doesnt. stop it
if you told young me that she would grow up in a world that didnt get more tolerant ever and hated her this fucking much she would have killed herself immediately. let kids be happy. give them hope. but also fucking
please just let me be happy for one minute of my life as a woman
to piss off bigots
Very important question for my fellow rainbow people!!!
Why do queer people exist?
Wrong answers only, go!
Hetero, feather her thou
It's okay, I love you straight boy
You only love a woman that you love
That was always a woman
Cis woman love
It's okay its okay its okay
I love your distracted gaze
When you look away
I can admire your face
Its okay its okay its okay
Dnd roleplay
Erotic roleplay
Still fair game
With the bois I am though boy i am not
I love teasin the boys
Aint so stone cold frozen
When we play you
See me as I see me
So what if im a hoe then
Its okay its okay its okay
Dreamin about your hand
Caressin my face
Like you dont know I was a boy
Just know me as one of the bois
A gurl you wanna whisk away
Its okay its okay
Love you bae <3
Vimto is carrying here
HE'S GAY. VERY GAY, AND PROBABLY NON-BINARY TOO. WHAT DO YOU EXPECT GWEN
REBLOG TO PISS OFF TRANSPHOBES
additionally, to people with ocd (or people who just don’t wanna reblog) that’s ok!! :]
wanna go down on me in the back seat?
I’m really tired of people treating intersex people like a mistake, deformed, or mutated version of male and female.