Never Judge A Human Being If You Don't Understand Your Own Feelings And Are So Indifferent Of Yourselves - Blog Posts

I just recently had a conversation with my friend about Tony's reaction when he saw the video. She said she couldn't understand his outburst of anger because he had never talked about his parents before or generally showed no feelings towards them. 

I don't talk much about my parents with my friends either but if and God forbid they should die and I get a nervous breakdown and lock myself in my room for weeks and my face is red and wet from my tears, would my friend not understand it either? Would she misunderstand the natural reaction of a human individual to a traumatic loss? Would she seriously question human psychology? And if after weeks/months/years I was asked about my parents' death and I broke into tears again because I loved them so much and the wound was torn open again, would she also not understand this?

My reaction would be absolutely legitimate, why shouldn't it be Tony's?

Her statement was disgusting.

I don't hate any of those three. Not Tony, not Bucky, not Steve. But I say that each of them should have acted differently then it would never have come to that point. They've all made mistakes.

Just a few posts I collected that are nice examples of how Tony Stark is not just some self-centered jerk.

     I’ve said it before, but you can’t take everything the man does at face value. He’s a deep and very human character that you have to pay close attention to and try to understand.