Hyper Feminine - Blog Posts

If I catch any of you hoes shaming/mocking/victim-blaming/bullying/harassing or any other bullshit to hyper feminine women just because of how they dress I will personally rip out your eyes and eat your weak ass stomach.

Hyper feminine women are women.  You know what women are? Feminists, so shut the fuck up with your “you can’t be a real feminist if you’re so willing to embrace the patriarchy’s ideal of a woman” and instead leave them fuck alone and maybe take some time to analyze why you really think it’s so bad for a woman to embrace her femininity in a way that doesn’t fit your “gaslit, gatekeep, girlboss” mindset.

You know what, I’ll do it for you, the only reason you get so pissed off when you see a hyperfeminine woman indulge in her femininity is because your idea of feminism is that in order for women to be equal to men they must in some way be masculine (ex: the girlboss CEO stereotype, or the sporty girl stereotype, etc) and because you have been conditioned by our media and our society to hate hyper femininity because society knows if a woman is hyper feminine or a ‘bimbo’ she isn’t doing it for society and that pisses them the fuck off.

Hyper feminine women are not and never have been doing this to please society, they’ve been doing it because they like feminine things and they want to indulge in them.  Men and society have nothing to do with their happiness and because patriarchy can’t handle the thought of a woman doing something that isn’t made to in someway pander or please a man they flip out and have taught us to hate them (hyper feminine women).

If you don’t believe me think of all the movies you’ve watched where the hyper feminine woman has in someway been demonized, shamed, made to be the villain, looked down upon, or used as a sick joke.  There’s a lot.

You calling hyper feminine women anti-feminist is feeding into TERF ideology, and if you know anything about TERF ideology you know that one of it’s core values is turning women on each other and destroying sisterhood.   Any woman who is; respectful of her sisters, wishes equality between men and women, wishes for equality among her sisters, doesn’t turn a woman away because of something she cannot control (ex: sexual orientation, race, finical situation, etc), and most importantly is in tune with her person and is able to find her liberation (however that liberation may look) IS A FEMINIST.

There is no dress code for feminism aside from wanting equality FOR EVERYONE, now stop shaming our feminine sisters and take down your inner misogynist.

how i need a man to talk to me to fix the years and years of pent up sadness & anger ° ᡣ𐭩 . ° .

giving feminine energy

keep urself clean and keep up with ur basic hygiene (shower every day)

get hungry for knowledge - go to libraries, read in coffee shops, etc.

always be kind and don’t talk crap about people! this is a big one because it really affects ur attitude and the way other people see u

stay organized. an easy way to do this is just to tidy ur room before you go to bed. this way, ur bedroom is more ur sanctuary

do ur hair pretty!! use accessories like scrunchies, headbands, claw clips, etc.

always have your essentials in ur bag (menstrual products, lip gloss, phone, earbuds, whatever makes u feel prepared)

remember that u don’t have to prove anything to others. make urself enough for u personally without worrying what other people think, because chances are they’re focused more on themselves

if u embarrass yourself, laugh it off and stay calm. u are above embarrassment babes, u are divine, so a little slipup won’t matter

have dance parties in ur room to songs that make u feel confident

DONT CHASE ATTRACT

remember that control doesn’t mean controlling other people. control means controlling ur own assumptions

breathe. just breathe. and remember u are beautiful <3