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Things I learned on my healing journey so far🤍

1. Trust your opinion first. It's okay to ask your trusted person for advice but at the end of the day, they're not YOU. Always come back to your heart and your true opinion or decision so you don't have any regrets.

2. Keep things private. I'm not saying, don't tell anyone anything about your life. Keep your goals, your plans and your relationships private. Notice how every time you tell your "friends" about your crush, it all goes south and suddenly he doesn't like you anymore? If you kept it private, that wouldn't have happened. Not everyone needs to know everything about you.

3. Change your mindset. This is the secret of a good life y'all. You can have everything you've ever dreamed of, your job, your partner, anything. But your mindset is so poor that you keep seeking out every wrong thing about your dream life. Always looking for negative, being happy when something falls because "you were right all along". I'm not saying be naive, but be positive. Hope for the best. Expect good things. Replace negative thoughts about yourself with positive ones. Your mindset is your life and your reality. Realize it already.

4. Stop doubting yourself. Stop thinking you can't do it because it's 'hard'. Who said it's hard? We all know you can do it. Like, come on it's not that hard stop having that pathetic victim 'I can't do it' mindset. How old are you, again? Your self doubt is a liar and the only power it has is you believing in it. - Elanora Oxa

5. Things won't come true if you don't put in the work. You are saying affirmations 'my skin is clear' everyday but NOT having a skin care routine. Come on. 'I have my dream body' but not doing a workout here and there? Sorry to break it to you, but you won't get anywhere like that. Actually DO stuff. If you pair exercise with affirmations, it's a game changer.

Hey Angels, this is a unusual kinda post from me. These are all literally life-changing, however small they may seem. Once you implement these into your life and enjoy the process, you will bloom. Hope this helped.

Kisses from your favourite Angel (aka me)💓

Trust your intuition first, and then trust other people's opinions second

- co star

Do you ever see a stranger and wonder like what's their story?

Omfg currently reading agggtm and IT'S SO DAMN GOOD

It just takes an inch of effort for a long period of time. You get used to the effort you put in and it just gradually accelerates. I started by making sure I had earrings in and lipstick on everyday. It made me feel put together and like I could do something about anything. Even if I spent the day in my room. The lipstick and earrings were on. I felt feminine and fairy like and even if people weren’t looking at me I had the confidence that they would. It started like that, just a simple ritual and it snowballed into my life changing for the better. I wanted to get ready in the mornings, so I’d have to wake up earlier, and since I woke up earlier Id get to see the sun rise, I wanted to start watching the sun rise from outside so I started walking, then running. I found a love for movement. I loved the fact I was taking care of my body and I saw positive changes which made me want to care for it even more. So I started nourishing my body well. Cooking steaks, using fresh produce from the farmers market. I felt well enough to go out and hunt for a real job I liked. I got it. I had some extra money so I bought beautiful dresses and invested in my health and had the money to have dinners with friends and buy more books to read and go on trips whenever I wanted. The world was so small. And now it’s larger than anything I could’ve imagined. I really do believe all it takes is a little lipstick and some jewelry. 

Please, just please. Always listen to yourself first. Do what YOU decide to do. Even if it's hard to decide, ask for advice but NEVER decide solely on THEIR opinion. It's the fastest way to ruin things. Your opinion first even if you're not sure what it is.

Can you speak louder im sick of people calling me deaf just because you're mumbling your words you fucking asshole do you know how to speak and how to speak CLEARLY

Little things to become a different person 🧘🏼‍♀️📝💐

Little things make a big difference so here’s some things to become a brand new person!

Delete a social media app

Change your wallpaper

Get a different color of bedding

Change your hair. Doesn’t have to be drastic but maybe instead of your usual ponytail you do a bun

Change your perfume

Move your bed to the other side of the room

Listen to a different playlist

Take an everything shower

Do a different style of makeup

Get rid of old clothes

Start a new hobby

Create a vision board

Look on Pinterest for new aesthetic ideas

Wake up at a different time

Start a new routine

Call me shallow but I can't be with someone I'm not physically attracted to

You know that feeling when you like (a tiny bit) someone you're not supposed to like? Not in a not-allowed hot sexy way but in a i-actually-don't-really-like-him like way?

Just me okay

Do you ever see a candid photo of you and wonder like wow do I really look like that irl?😭

Alive or just breathing hits home

Learned smth today: i don't like taurus men

You know that moment when everything is shitty in your day and you have that one thing that you're looking forward to and that one thing also turns out shitty.

Just imagined him and I'm not feeling anything anymore. I'm healing y'all. It's so peaceful. You'll get here trust me, I thought I'd never get here and that I will be obsessed w him forever but I'm not. I have zero feelings for that person anymore. I'm so thankful. Thank you Universe💓

Currently going insane

Unpopular opinion -> i don't like the wicked king by Holly Black

Please leave the room so i can cry my eyes out

I'm angry and raging at him for no reason. Enemies to lovers?

If loving you is my downfall, consider me already on my knees.

- skyshade

Currently one am watching thewizardliz

If you wanna make me happy , just give me Pinterest ,Tumblr, and my headphones

This is everything.

When a man doesn't do anything I order him <<<<<<<

Men smoking>>>> (i hate smoking)

This is so me

That little voice in your head that tells you deserve better, listen to it.

I wanna get back in the time when summers were hot and winters were cold.

I love myself too much to be with you. I'm not sorry. It's not me, it's you.

Two people choosing to give tiny vulnerable parts of themselves to each other.

~ Caraval, Stephanie Garber