Glow Up - Blog Posts
Dark femininity literally transformed my life. You can call it what you want, it's simply about embracing your darkness, letting go of "being too much" or not being "perfect". It's about setting boundaries. It's giving yourself permission to be authentic, passionate, beautifully imperfect and raw, falling shamelessly in love with yourself, and most important of all, being fiercely protective of yourself (your inner child, your vulnerability, your softness).
Ladies, you need that edge, that boundary. Without it, you're an overflowing ocean that can be easily scattered or exploited. The only way to preserve your softness is learn how to be your own guardian first and foremost; because it's not possible nor healthy to always depend on others to do it for you.
Summer is literally glow up season
I go to the beach every dayy → the salt water helps my oily skin and clears up my acne.
I wear a bunch of sunscreen → my skin is moisturized and protected and I get a cute tan obvii.
I eat a bunch of fruit cuz now it's in season and I walk everywhere → I lose some excess weight.
Watch me go to school in September looking unrecognisable. I love love love summerrrr ⛱️🌞
Can we agree that it is completely feminine to have a glow up while Five Finger Death Punch is playing in background?
All of this and I'm still tired
If you don’t like yourself then start working on becoming someone you’ll be able to love and be proud of. If you’re already at your lowest point, all you have to do is start making decisions that will improve your life little by little, even if it’s just working out once a week or actually listening in class. Change isn’t gonna come on its own. And if you already do love yourself, keep working on becoming your dream girl because the self improvement journey never stops.
giving feminine energy
keep urself clean and keep up with ur basic hygiene (shower every day)
get hungry for knowledge - go to libraries, read in coffee shops, etc.
always be kind and don’t talk crap about people! this is a big one because it really affects ur attitude and the way other people see u
stay organized. an easy way to do this is just to tidy ur room before you go to bed. this way, ur bedroom is more ur sanctuary
do ur hair pretty!! use accessories like scrunchies, headbands, claw clips, etc.
always have your essentials in ur bag (menstrual products, lip gloss, phone, earbuds, whatever makes u feel prepared)
remember that u don’t have to prove anything to others. make urself enough for u personally without worrying what other people think, because chances are they’re focused more on themselves
if u embarrass yourself, laugh it off and stay calm. u are above embarrassment babes, u are divine, so a little slipup won’t matter
have dance parties in ur room to songs that make u feel confident
DONT CHASE ATTRACT
remember that control doesn’t mean controlling other people. control means controlling ur own assumptions
breathe. just breathe. and remember u are beautiful <3