Edging And Denial - Blog Posts
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Edging. It’s been 359 days since I’ve cum and I’m not going to cum this year. I don’t deserve orgasms. I’m best edged out and needy and pathetic.
I’m a dumb edged out cunt. I never deserve to cum.
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"A simple sexy swimsuit picture, the kind that barely was worth noticing suddenly became a call to embrace the patriarchy, to expose her body, to destroy her boring life and be reborn as something else. It was the power of language: it got inside her head more than anything else, because thoughts were built on language itself-- to read was to let some foreign mental being colonize her brain, just for a little while. To read was to surrender and let someone else’s thoughts inside her. It was a profound intimacy, a sort of consensual mind rape. "
-@theprettynosferatu
Love prettynosferato
Edging. It’s been 359 days since I’ve cum and I’m not going to cum this year. I don’t deserve orgasms. I’m best edged out and needy and pathetic.
I invite you to imagine your denial, constant touching and edging are already corrupting your mind just a little. Regularly it seemingly becomes all you can think about it now.. perhaps it is not all you want to do but it feels like it.. what if you remember you could barely sleep last night because you are so horny and cannot wait until morning just so you could open tumblr again, touch, edge yourself dumb and whore yourself out a little more. Consider it is many weeks from now and you think back to this moment and smile because you know it is when your mind began to break.. when you relax now and let yourself jump down the rabbit hole of bliss. Let it consume you and have fun with it. You will never be quite the same.
It’s ok. No one has to know. It’s healthy. You need this. Have a great day.
Hey you complete slut!
Be a good girl and drink some fucking water! Hydrate like a bitch! No, hydrate more!
Listen to me you little cocksleeve. You are valuable and valued. You deserve to be loved, you completely depraved fucktoy!
Hey you pathetic fuckdoll! You got this! You'll do your best and that's more than enough, you cum guzzling whore! Extend some goddamn kindness to your wonderful self, you massive slut!
Edging 101 - Why You Should Edge
This post is in response to a few questions I’ve received on my blog. I’ve taken inspiration from a great post @littlemisssubshine made on orgasm denial, which is well worth reading. As I focus more on edging rather than denial, I think there’s room for both posts. If you’ve ever wondered why you should try edging, read on..
What is Edging?
Edging is where you’re deeply aroused and close to cumming, but you hold back before you orgasm. It can be done physically with fingers/toys/another person, or mentally, with porn/audio/erotic stories. The idea is you overwhelm yourself to the point of near sexual release, without going over the edge and experiencing any refractory period, drop in pleasure or sensitivity, allowing you to build and build your excitement and enjoying your constant arousal and lust. To enjoy an edging session, you’ll have to let your arousal wind down a little after reaching the edge before bringing it back up again. There is no hard and fast rule as to how long you should take between edges. You can wait seconds, minutes, hours (going about your day before continuing), or just maintaining your level of stimulation to keep on the edge, without tipping over and accidentally cumming.
Edging broadly be broken down into:
Soft Edging
Holding back at the first hint, or “Echo” of an orgasm, by removing all stimulation. This is better for those who have tried edging before and struggled to stop themselves from accidentally cumming. Depending on how well you know your body, you might not be able to feel the signals that you’re getting too close, and stopping at the first sign will allow you to build back up after.
This isn’t a bad thing, as this means you’re clearly in touch with your body and know how to give yourself pleasure, which is very important later on. Starting here and learning to edge like this will let you learn to listen to your pussy and allow you to change how you play, knowing when you can play for longer to increase your pleasure, or when you’re too close and risking tipping over. Every woman I’ve taught how to edge who struggled at first, started here, and all have been able to progress to hard edging.
Hard Edging
Letting yourself continue well beyond that first tremor, right up until you feel like the slightest extra rub will send you crashing into an orgasm, and holding back at that point. This is better for those who have edged before as being at “The Edge” can feel like walking a tightrope, where the slightest misstep can send you over. After edging a few times, you have a greater sense of what your body is telling you, and that tightrope becomes a plank, which over time becomes a field, allowing you more room to play, to know precisely how much you can enjoy.
This is the method for how you’re able to fully explore every corner of edging and how much stimulation you can give your body, and how people who REALLY enjoy it, get so much pleasure out of it.
Why do people who like it, enjoy it so much?
This is the question I’ve been asked the most since starting this blog, from people who can see edging/gooning blogs with posts about how “Dumb”, “Blank” and “Edged” the owners are, babbling about how good they feel. 1 - When you edge for a while your body releases dopamine, the feel-good endorphin. While you’re rubbing and squirming away, your brain starts releasing this in anticipation of the orgasm it doesn’t know you’re not-ready-to-give-it yet, and this is where the “Dumb/Blank” feeling comes from. Imagine the feeling when you’re close to cumming and your whole body is in desperation, and you’re about to tip over, but stretched out for as long as you want it.. The longer you spend on the edge, the more dopamine is released, leaving you swimming in this blissed-out feeling. If you’ve ever had mind blowing sex where you’re left unable to think afterwards, just floating there, ready to drift off and sleep, THIS is that same feeling x 1000, as you’re able to control how intense it is and how long you can experience it for.
2 - You’re able to incorporate as many toys and parts of your body as you enjoy playing with. If you enjoy a plug in your arse while getting fucked, but only masturbate with a rabbit vibrator, imagine how good it would feel edging with your plug in at the same time, that fullness bringing a new dimension to how it all feels, increasing the sensitivity of your body. It can also be fun to see how overstimulated you get without tipping over, with a toy in your arse, your pussy, on your clit and even on your nipples. However, just like you wouldn’t masturbate by immediately putting you wand on your clit on the highest setting and need to nurture and build up your pleasure, over-stimulation doesn’t get you as satisfied and deep in that edged headspace as other things can.. As there are simple ways of building up separate orgasms at the same time using different toys on different parts of the body, building to the edge of those different orgasms at the same time and edging them together brings an even GREATER dopamine reward, which feels even better due to stimulating mulitple erogenous zones at the same time. This is what my posts on Stacking Edges cover.
The Biggest Reason you Should Edge at Least Once
3 - It makes your orgasms MUCH more powerful. The biggest misconception with edging is that it’s all about denial, and never cumming again. I disagree. For me, edging is ALL about the orgasm. Edging makes your eventual orgasm feel better with much harder contractions, due to your clit being all swollen and sensitive due to playing so long, your pussy being so wet, and the psychological factors of teasing yourself, all coupled with that dopamine reward. It’s true that edging regularly and not cumming after will let you get even deeper into your edged-out headspace every time, but this isn’t for everyone, and doesn’t mean that those girls who love to cum should be deprived. When you’re ready to cum, the orgasm will be far more intense than a regular orgasm. Even reaching the edge and holding back once before allowing yourself to cum will result in a better orgasm. But, trying all these new ways to edge and letting yourself cum after each one results in bigger and more intense orgasms, so what have you got to lose?
Next time, I’ll give some edging tips.
edging every day makes u easier to brainwash and control and thats why u should edge every day 💖
live your best life
When negative feelings like anxiety, depression, or self doubt begin to present themselves.. edge them away.
Have a fantastic day.
you know you cant stop
Feels too good
Edge Addict
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Never forget that your reality is made up of your mental processes. So feel free to let me manipulate those processes for my amusement.
Be a good girl
Free will is an illusion, your actions and feelings are determined by a cocktail of chemicals, your brain is just a reprogrammable computer of flesh (flirting)
I've used and *abused* enough of these to know... The experience WILL change your life...and is quite impossible to resist for long. 1 minute is fairly easy - assuming you do not have one of the newer, not really for wearing in public versions that sound like a hive of bees under your skirt but which can drop you in mere seconds 2 minutes will make you sweat 3 minutes will have you dancing around in your seat exactly like this 5 minutes and you will honestly stop caring what those around you think, all you can focus on is the pleasure 7 minutes and if the first orgasm has not already hit, your mind is becoming mush and you are becoming a simpering hot mess ready to obey anyone and everything 10 minutes - only a firm and proper hand on the controls will ever allow you to reach this point. A point where you will surrender ANYTHING to Me in order to hold onto the edge and ride the waves of pleasure now coursing through your very soul...
Which type of cunt are you?
A. You look innocent. Somewhat classy, but deep inside, you have sick twisted fantasies and it makes you wet, just knowing how filthy you really are. How no one has a clue about it. You know you are sicker and filthier than most girls. Message me and say “I am sick, daddy” if you belong to this category.
B. You’re a nympho slut. A sex-addict. A cumwhore. Even while you function and do your daily chores, being filled, fucked and used is the only thing on the back of your mind. You pretend to be classy, but secretly you’re a wet mess all fucking day. Sex is the only thing on your mind. You could feel your pussy all day long, if you wouldn’t have to do chores. Just need the right man to use you and keep you on his leash, all day long. Message me and say “Break me, daddy” if you belong to this category.
C. Humiliation. That’s what makes you cum. Being treated like trash. Being called names. Pissed on. Slapped. Treated like a fucking sex object with all dignity and self respect taken away. You feel guilty later on, after you’ve been used. After you cum. Yet within a few hours, you’re craving that degradation again. Caught in the vicious cycle again and you know there’s no escaping now. You’ll never be able to cum to a “nice” guy again. Don’t need them either. Message me and say “I am trash, daddy” if you belong to this category.
D. You have a Husband. A boyfriend. A lover, yet here you are. Cumming to rough, degrading porn. To women being used like shit and half wishing it was you. Your partner has no idea you’re here and nor is he kinky or wild enough to use you like this. Fucking need to cheat on him secretly and be used. You need daddy to use you like you were made to be used and cheating only makes this cunt drip more. Message me and say “make me cheat, daddy” if you belong to this category.
E. No strong father figure in your life? Even when you had one, you were neglected. Making you attracted towards a strong father figure from an early age. You want to call a guy “daddy” before doing everything in your way to please him. That’s how you’ll earn the affection you never got. You’re broken now and you’ve got daddy issues, but you’ve embraced it. Message me and say “You are my daddy” if you belong to this category.
F. You want to be controlled, from what you think about to what you wear. Tasks and rules complete you. You want to be brainwashed. Corrupted. Left an addict by daddy till the point that you can’t say no, even when you want to. You act normal, but deep down inside you just want to be an owned, braindead sextoy. Once a good girl, now reduced to nothing but a vacant look and gaping holes. Message me and say “Brainwash me, daddy” if you belong to this category.
Think I missed out on a category? Let me know and I’ll put that up too. Choose a max of two categories which suit you best and let daddy know.
Is this a bad time to drift into fantasy? Is it bad that you consent to my desire because you notice you daydream about it? Are you mad that you have feelings deep inside that stir crazily when you enjoy being forced to do things? Have you given up on your goal to accept me? Ponder what you have not considered for just a few moments before you tell me what you want. this is how you imagine for a moment yourself a year from now thinking back on how you enjoy this feeling inside. You may notice where that feeling is inside you now. It may feel like a small glowing mass of energy. Notice where you feel it first. I invite you to notice as this feeling moves from one place to another inside you. Where does it go to inside you? Focus on it and use that to know how you feel it grow stronger... Tell me
Have a great day.
I invite you to notice how you imagine yourself again as a submissive. The dark fantasies that consistently make you tingle in ways you know too well. Perhaps you may think you could not be a submissive to me. As you are looking at your screen you might not contemplate your submission since you don’t want to picture it now in your mind. However, the more you consider it the more deeply it wiggles it’s way into your mind. You enjoy a challenge when you push your boundaries though to find this success in your desire. See yourself as successful, and feel the sense of accomplishment that comes with it. This fantasy is something that you want, something that will make you happy and fulfilled in ways you already feel deeply.
As you visualize yourself achieving your goal of submission, notice the positive emotions that come with it. What are the feelings that you experience when you succeed? Is it happiness, pride, joy, or something else?
Think about those positive emotions, and notice how they feel inside your body. Where do you feel them now? Do they make you feel lighter, more energized, or more focused?
Now, imagine that those positive emotions are like a powerful magnet, drawing you towards your sexual submission. Every time you take a step towards your submission, you feel those positive emotions growing stronger and stronger, guiding you towards success.
As you consider taking actions towards your goal, notice any limiting beliefs or negative thoughts that may not serve your goals well or might be holding you back, simply start to fade away.
Take a moment to challenge those limiting beliefs or negative thoughts. Are they really true? Are they helping you achieve your goal, or are they holding you back?"
Replace those limiting beliefs & thoughts with positive affirmations that support your goal of submission. You are a good little one. You crave this. You love being submissive. Submission excites you and fulfills you deeply in satisfying ways. Repeat those affirmations to yourself, and feel the positive emotions growing stronger and stronger.
Finally, think about the next step you need to take towards your goal. What action can you take right now to move closer to success? Notice how it feels good to take positive action towards your goal, and let that feeling you will have of accomplishment and satisfaction motivate you to touch yourself now and enjoy those feelings. Visualizing you being a successful submissive now.
Remember, you want this. You know you chose to make this happen. Trust yourself and your abilities, and take action towards your goal with confidence and purpose.
Whenever you need a boost of motivation, you can return to this visualization and tap into those positive emotions and affirmations. You can do this. You are already on the path to success.
Never give up
You never give up resisting. Don’t let my words stay deep in your mind. Just because I find your struggle so cute should have no bearing on your desire to not touch yourself. You’re trying to be good and avoid the desire to touch yourself now even though it is tempting, but you keep reading my notes like you are addicted and you know you won’t be able to resist no matter how hard you try to be a good girl.
You may notice
You're here again. Is that worry you feel tingling deep inside? Or is it that you feel excitement now.
It seems as though you fantasize about it more. The more you think about it now the more you realize you touch yourself more. Like, a lot more. You better stop no? can you stop? Oh . You can't. You're addicted to the feeling you get now, the rush, the tingling feeling that maybe you shouldn't be enjoying this so damn much.
I invite you to notice it starting to seep into your daily life. How many times have you considered skipping your responsibilities to touch yourself? To let yourself be even more addicted to your fantasies? To go deeper and deeper?
A gentle, kind sex scene doesn't do it for you anymore. Hell, most vanilla porn is looking so... dull to you. No, you need a little darker stuff. Stronger stuff. You need the degradation, the feeling of breaking your own values and mind. Deeper and deeper you go...
Where will it end? Do you want it to end? It feels so good. You’re a good girl, right? You don’t want to touch yourself so much. You know the more you resist the urge the deeper your desire burns inside you. How long will you last before you need to let yourself rub/touch? How long until you decide your purpose is to obey? How long until you fall to your knees and touch yourself now?
Oh. You are actually enjoying the prospect, aren't you? You want to fall. Deeper and deeper. Kinkier and kinkier. More and more broken and perverted.
I won't stop you. I want you to fulfill your desire.. your purpose.. what’s already in your heart.
Inspired by @theprettynosferatu
What leads you to think about touching & edging yourself. Don’t imagine you edging for me. Do you deserve to edge for me now. Are you my good girl. Do you deserve permission to touch yourself now. Try not to think about that tingly feeling when you touch yourself. Don’t worry about where that warm feeling begins deep inside you. Try not to think about it. Don’t close your eyes and imagine it now. Resist the urges you have to start edging. You’re a good girl. Aren’t you. The harder you try to resist the more you want to touch yourself. The more you try not to think about edging the more you want to touch & edge like a submissive good girl.
#cnc #tease #goodgirl
There is something so remarkably delicious about consensually teasing a partner you care deeply for. Sensing how they become incredibly excited. Savouring the paradoxical tension they feel. Knowing their excitement rises when they feel powerful sensual submission brought on when they offer hands to be bound.
Feel the heart racing as they are led to feel increasingly vulnerable when they are blindfolded. The adrenaline courses through them as the sense of sight is restricted. Inspiring deep tingling in places they know well as they feel praise & humiliation desires they weren’t fully aware of yet by telling them what a beautiful little toy you are as spit drips down their chin/body from wearing a cute ball gag. All this while knowing they faithfully touch & edge themselves as instructed prior to seeing you.
You have incredibly deep feelings of warm love and desire when you realize how much trust it takes to submit like this. It’s like the more they fantasize about it the deeper the connection and love. The deeper they connect the more they fantasize about your submission. Feel the rush.
Truly amazing.
He edged and denied me over and over. Broke me down to the point that I couldn’t think straight. No words. Just crying.
He told me to beg.
I usually try to say the nice words that I know he loves. Strained words as I hold back my pleasure. Please, may your whore cum? Can she orgasm for you, Sir?
But this time, I just screamed. Frantically repeating please, please, please, please, PLEASE through my tears.
I couldn’t think of anything more.
I couldn’t think at all.
Are you the kind of person who someday can imagine being outside watching yourself have a fantasy of a vivid scene where you remember you are a play thing for this person you trust completely? Perhaps a fantasy where you touch yourself in just that way you know makes you tingle regularly. You don’t even have to focus on where you feel that excitement begin to come inside you. You don’t have to focus on where you feel it moving to or even where you feel it that you know is the most incredible. It’s as if the more you feel it the more you want to touch yourself for this person you trust. You never quite go over the edge though without permission from this person. Each time you imagine this continues you need it more and more. The more you imagine reflecting on watching yourself have this fantasy, the more you are intrigued by the images in your mind because you realize you are more and more aroused.
use my cunt
Is that how you ask?
If you see this you should be a good girl and edge, responsibilites be damned.
Edge like a good girl
It’s so good and right to be good and leak
Then you should edge again
Be a Good Mindless Girl. Good girlll, you are such a good girl You’ve earned it.
oh to be fingerfucked until I pass out