i've already decided that i want to adopt kids so it might be that but idk why no one ever thinks of adopting in TVD universe like why do you HAVE TO HAVE biological children?? ik there's a lot of special things that go into that but as a person who thinks you're gonna be a vampire forever why not consider that option instead of being like "i always wanted a family now i can't have that" LIKE YOU STILL CAN it just won't be exactly how you imagined it but that's life.