hating on dog parents that don’t let me meet them cuties
Salman khan in "I love you" song is how i act like in front of my gf
One thing about me is if I ever love someone then I love them from the core of my soul and heart, to the extent, whole heartedly, I love them with everything I have and if I don't love someone, then I simply don't. I give no hints, no intentions nothing. I hate how people in this generation flirt with each other without having any feelings, get intimate with each other without knowing the other person's mind.
That thing where his breath is shaking and his hands are fumbling while he kisses you
"Shh, I'm here"
When you can hear the clinking of his belt from the other side of the door as he gets undressed
When he touches you with the back of his hand
When he moves you by your waist UGH
Desi Middle Class ✨Aesthetic✨
Kiraya ka ghar, chai ki tapri, buying new clothes twice or at max thrice a year during festive occasions, steel ka dabba, bigger uniform size to make sure you keep fitting into it for at least two years, feeling proud to own a Trimax pen, dada dadi or nana nani's tel malish, visiting temple towns for vacations, train journeys with lots of chips packed to munch on and mummy ke parathe or puri bhaji, having to wait patiently for your turn to use the bathroom unless and until you have two bathrooms and both of them are equally functional, never been on a flight or have been only once by luck, noticing that your dad rarely buys new shirts for himself, lingering looks on that beautiful but expensive dress, your mother touches that one lovely saree for the last time and you promise to yourself that when you start earning, you will gift her every saree she will land her gaze upon, covering rough notebooks with newspapers, start studying maths for the new school year during summer vacation, sharing a room and sometimes the same study table with your siblings, beaming at your bade bhaiya or didi when they show you how to make a paper boat/paper airplane, you are growing up and for the first time you see your older sibling break down in their room all by themselves and realization dawns that even they need a comforting hug, Tu kab badi huyi?, Wanting to gift a good car to your father with your own salary, the entire family dreams to own their own house someday, the first time you realize what a middle class family really is, fights and quarrels that always end with silent apologies over the dining table, beta doctor ya engineer? Kya matlab arts lena hai? Humare family se just pass hone vale bhi science liye? You wipe your own tears and strengthen your resolve to fight for your own dreams, parents are proud that you proved them wrong with your career and subject choice, sadly dropping out of dance, music, arts and sports classes as soon as you begin 10th grade -- lucky ones still continue them, watching Indian tv serials with mummy during afternoons after coming back from school, thoda toh pocket money badha do?? Storing money everywhere in the house, counting coins as a child and thinking yourself to be very rich, chota ghar magar sapne bade yeh hai middle class parivar ki kahani
I was watching Wagle ki duniya and later mummy and I were talking about our lifestyle after which she played a Sudha Murthy video where she was talking about the middle class lifestyle, and then I made this post by reflecting on some of my own experiences. I know that the above post doesn't still complete the middle class life there are so many things remaining but I tried my best to summarise from my own observation and experiences.
I have lived a small part of my life with the more economically advantaged groups too (samridhi just say rich) and I am seeing and have also seen the other side too that isn't as gleaming as I used to think but nevertheless it's colourful, so I wanted to write something on it as a lesson I learnt in these 3 years and for the lesson which will live with me for my future endeavours. Probably this post will also be a sahara sort of thing when I again spiral down some crying lane over my exams.
I have so many stories from my 11th 12th and drop year timeline that I will soon share because as I always believe in the end being good no matter what, be it whatever college I get in or whatever I do, this experience taught me things that no school classroom could do. I may sound like a dadi now but yes maybe in the upcoming time if some of you younger lot do stumble on this in times that seem dark and full of certainty, I hope those stories will bring hope in your hearts
Bas bhai yeh dadimaa kirdar ab kuch samay paschat
just wanna cuddle and watch movies/tv with someone :(
Nobody can match my freak i be collecting random trivia facts like hellaa
Relationship should be 50-50 right? So:
Tum ruth lena, me mana lunga.
Tum bolti rehna, me sun lunga.
Tum hasti rehna, me hasata rahunga.
Tum nazare churati rehna, me nazare milata rahunga.
Tum sazti-savarti rehna, me tasweere le lunga.
Tum sun lena, me bol lunga.
Tum gussa kar lena, me pyar kar lunga
Tum nakhre karna, me utha lunga.
Tum muh banana, me pareshaan kar lunga.
Tum mehndi me mera naam chhupa dena, me dhundh lunga.
Tum payal ki zid karna, me tohfe me pehna dunga.
Tum chhupke se mujhe dekhna, me nazarandaz karne ki koshish kar lunga.
Tum zulfein khuli rakhna, me unse khel lunga.
Tum apni gaud de dena, me usme apna sar rakh lunga.
Tum loriyan ga dena, ne kahaniya suna dunga.
Tum apni shikayatein batana, me apna kandha de dunga.
Tum gajrey ki khawaish karna, me la kar tumhare baalon me laga dunga.
Tum phoolo ko pasand kar lena, me tumhe pasand kar lunga.
Tum chai bana dena, me khana bana dunga.
Tum kitaben padh lena, me tumhe padh lunga.
Tum geet gungunana, me tumhe dekh "haaye" kar lunga.
Tum pyari lagti rehna, baaki sab me kar lunga.
-Om
جو تمہیں اپنی بہار نہ سمجھے ،اس کیلئے اپنی زندگی کے پھول مت توڑو
Don't break the flowers of your life for those who don't consider you as their spring