lets just say, this is not the end, not yet.
Jy
GUYS. HAYATO IS SO ADORABLE OMG. He was such a cute and nice kid.
He doesn’t eat the shave ice, he likes to make them xD Even asking his dad for more ice just so he could make more.
she had the face of an angel, a snow angel though
Sometimes I say self loathing things to my therapist and he looks at me dead in the eyes before saying “You fucking moron.” and tbh same
Chuuya: What if I knocked you unconscious right now?
Dazai: It won't change the past.
Chuuya: But it'd make the present so much nicer.
“When we set children against one another in contests - from spelling bees to awards assemblies to science “fairs” (that are really contests), from dodge ball to honour rolls to prizes for the best painting or the most books read - we teach them to confuse excellence with winning, as if the only way to do something well is to outdo others. We encourage them to measure their own value in terms of how many people they’ve beaten, which is not exactly a path to mental health. We invite them to see their peers not as potential friends or collaborators but as obstacles to their own success… Finally, we lead children to regard whatever they’re doing as a means to an end: The point isn’t to paint or read or design a science experiment, but to win. The act of painting, reading, or designing is thereby devalued in the child’s mind.”
— Alfie Kohn, The Myth Of The Spoiled Child
I bought Sasuke Shinden when taking a trip to Japan. The book is cute lol.
Sarada literally lied to Sasuke that Sakura left a mark on his lip with her lip stick AND Sasuke pretended to be cool and raised his hand to wipe the mark away before Sarada calmly told him that her mom didn’t even have a lip stick lmao. He just confirmed that he kissed Sakura to Sarada. Smart kid lol.
Why are the Uchiha family so cute???
Might fuck around and accept the things I cannot change
*bottles up emotions* this coping shits easy
Don’t have them die of old age after a long, fulfilling life. Many people don’t even think of this as sad (note that this can still work if you have enough of the other factors).
Leave one of their major goals unfinished. The more enthusiastic they are about completing the goal, the sadder.
Give them strong relationships with other characters.
Make them fight against whatever is causing their death. Their ultimate loss is sadder if they struggle.
Kill them in the middle of their character arc.
Don’t describe their funeral in detail. Maybe it’s just me, but I find that long descriptions of funerals kill the sadness.
I’m body positive