Before i started watching 911 i thought Buddie was already 100% canon because my first interaction with the series was a edit on my Tiktok that started with the elf scene from season 2 that made it look like they were together.
I know now that it was probably one of those AU's edits of what if they were raising Chris together, but at the time it looked to me like just a normal edit of the show.
the blake lively case really shows how much women hate other women. and i specify women bcuz lets be real, women are the ones who primarily consume and distribute celebrity gossip. its fun to gossip about them and pay attention to the drama, but it becomes gross when its clear a lot of women who consumes it has such internalized misogyny that they redirect that hate onto random female celebrities. i was not above this thinking as well. i used to parrot the same mindset of, “i can say this about her and its acceptable bcuz she is more privileged than me.” but a lot of women and men use this to avoid getting called out for saying vile things. u could easily go on celebrity gossip threads and see how ppl are shaming actresses for having plastic surgery, the perceived actress being a mean girl based “on vibes,” or ppl immediately accepting an actress being labeled a diva despite it being notoriously used against actresses to blacklist when they were victims to directors/producers.
im overall not saying blake lively is perfect. she and ryan did apologize for their plantation wedding that happened years ago and have actively been trying to be more race conscious (they have a film program for ppl of color from a poorer background to have opportunities to work in the entertainment industry). obviously, just like justin baldoni who has done a lot of good humanitarian things, doesn’t shield them from criticism, but its a double standard. ppl are more forgiving or refused to believe men can do wrong if they have a nice guy image. or they come up with every excuse under the sun on why he should be protected and that blake is an evil white lady trying to destroy a lesser-known actors career.
there is no such thing as a perfect victim. and it’s disappointing seeing other women so eager to jump on the hate bandwagon despite claiming they knew better with amber heard and johnny depp. i feel a lot of ppl who consume celebrity gossip project their insecurities onto them or view some celebrities like the mean girls in school that bullied them and now act as the same bullies with harassing celebrities for everything, and then cry when said celebrity either kills themselves or ironically preach mental health.
the double standard is even more glaring seeing how male celebrities, (tho lets be real WHITE male celebrities) get a fair better treatment and even worshipped simply bcuz they’re hot and any wrongdoing is forgiven while the same ppl are holding onto every mistake a female celebrity has done to demonize her and see her as tainted forever. its like the worst crime for a woman is to be a bitch while a man can do whatever he wants and ppl will forgive him
Girl (gn) pick a lane. You are either "Morally superior" than the rest of the internet or you are using AI "art"
As a Eddie girly I don't know if i should be sad Eddie wasn't in this episode or be happy he is not in mortal danger this week.
But I'm sorry for all the Chimney girls out there. Hang in there babes
I can never and will never understand people who ship actors/actress in real life.
I'm sorry it's weird. Why are you so invested in the personal lives of strangers?
you guys need to stop letting your hatred (or love for that matter) of certain media/celebrities/whatever get in the way of your ability to feel compassion, empathy and sympathy.
sorry but celebrity culture and some of you guy's hatred for it have made some of you get way too comfortable with bullying, encouragement of violence and other unacceptable actions.
Eddie Diaz baby trapped a man so hard the kid actually looks like him😂😭
How mamy times do i have to click "Not interest" for Twitter to stop showing me photos of him in that stupid show?
I already did it like 10 times, when do they start to listen to me?
I made a mistake and shared my opinion on Twitter. I wonder where will i show up first so that the other part of this fandom can have fun bullying me: Tiktok ot Tumblr?
This stratospheric level of egoism is mindblowing and disturing to me.
As someone with diagnosed with PTSD, no, being deceived by an author you never met is not trauma. You can’t call every uncomfortable or painful experience trauma. You’re making the word lose impact and meaning.
"He violated us too" No. How tonedeaf can you be? How tactless? Making someone's else rape about you? No, you haven't been violated. He didn’t put his fucking hands on you. Those two experiences are not even remotely comparable, and the fact that you think they are is seriously worrying. You mentioned talking to your therapist about it— yeah, you really should.
"Time to grieve" no one died. The actual, real victims deserve to grieve the life and peace of mind they lost.
I'm not saying you can’t feel betrayed by an author you loved for a long time, but the least you could do is not make someone's else rape about you.
Do you know who hate women more than men?
Women that ship a (non canon)gay couple and there’s also a girl in the picture(the canon girlfriend/wife/love interest of one of the male characters).
Proshipper, Multishipper, don't give a fuck as long as my fav is being loved-shipper
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