if being hard on yourself worked, it would have worked by now
I see this conundrum all the time, and I just want to say that if they are anything like me, then your sub is likely to be happy, loved, and satisfied by knowing that the DOMME is happy, loved, and satisfied. For me, that’s the ultimate goal: I did something that she wanted, and as a result she is happy.
In a world of meetings, deadlines, often thankless, and stressful work and parenting, it feels amazing to be appreciated for the things I do. To have clear goals and direction, and to be very obviously useful. All day every day I have to make decisions, factor in everyone else’s wants with my own, make judgement calls, and do all sorts of mental work. To be able to come home and just…. Let my Domme take over and tell what I need to be doing? And then tell me how good I did it??? Omg BLISS.
So to me, it’s not a conundrum at all. A continuous loop of happiness and satisfaction indeed. Tell me what YOU want, and let me know if I did it well. It feels to me like I’m the one being selfish, making Mistress do all the mental work and just following directions. Easy shit, AND it makes her cum? Holy fuck, it’s the best.
All of my kinks are superseded by what the domme wants. The biggest turn on about femdon to me is the woman being in control and doing my best to please her. What she wants comes first, and so does she.
So, I might have a whole bunch of kinks but being able to see her in pleasure is my biggest kink.
unfortunately “we shouldn’t be doing this” sounds really hot during sex
this is how I suffocate people, best way to go imo
I need a pretty puppy to play with
I want code words/phrases that we use when we're in polite company that activate the subby part of his brain. I want to see the moment it clicks, the sharp inhale, the wide eyes, the faint blush. I want to catch him adjusting his pants when he refills my glass or brings me my coat.
Holy shit, the absolute BEST view
i need to grind my pussy on someone’s face .. so bad
43 M, I know I’m old for Tumblr, I probably have no intention of talking to you, but you can reach out if you like.
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