ending no contact with multiple people
my amazing, perfect boyfriend 🩷
a new phone for free
the exact headphones I wanted also for free 😌
physical appearance - everyone says I got so much prettier even though I haven't done anything with my appearance
my idol reached out to me on instagram and now we're friends
multiple times i got money and different gifts for "being pretty" - men literally message me and ask me if they can send me money or if I have an amazon wishlist because they want to buy me stuff
free trips to different places, including Disneyland in Tokyo and different beautiful cities in Europe
people in my life love spoiling me - i got so many beautiful gifts and they always insist on paying for my stuff
my boyfriend's dog was really sick and scheduled for euthanasia earlier this year but i kept affirming that she's okay and she's still alive and well today 🩷
I manifested multiple things for my loved ones - them getting better jobs, health improvement, new relationships, passed exams and other great stuff
These are just the things I remember and are worth mentioning! 🩷
everytime you want to check, decide instead
feel like checking the 3d? circumstances don’t align with your assumptions? STOP right there. don’t go check the 3d to see if something is happening, CHECK THE 4D.
go inside instead of outside.
does he like me? “yes he does” that’s it. end of story. no need to check if he liked your story or if he smiled at you. the only validation you need comes from within.
UR ENVIRONMENT ;
provide a safe space for ur femininity to flourish. this not only includes ur environment and what u surround urself with but WHO u surround urself with. its like trying to grow a delicate flower in an arctic tundra.
environments of scarcity and desperation destroy femininity so if u find urself in environments/situations like that then do whatever u need to do to get urself out of environments like that. instead what u should prioritize when creating an environment for ur femininity to thrive is comfort, luxury, beauty, abundance, glamor and PEACE.
DO YOUR HEALING WORK ;
do ur shadow work, journalling, meditation ALL OF THAT. do the necessary steps to heal and start ur healing journey if you haven't already. water urself so that u can grow like the beautiful flower you are. confront ur past and dont let ur past control ur future.
TAKE UR TIME ;
dont constrain urself and dont be in a rush all the time. luxury is the leisure to do what u want at ur own pace. dedicate time for relaxation and remind urself that theres no need to rush! ur in the race but you've already won ✨
CREATIVE OUTLETS ;
i found that my femininity was strengthened when i allowed myself to express and be creative. doing things like dancing, song writing, journalling, keeping a blog etc has just been so good for my girlyness as a whole.
CENSOR UR SOCIAL MEDIA INTAKE ;
dont consume that toxic alpha male content 💀, or content with "pick-me's", stay away especially from those videos where men and women go in front of a camera to be rated. like, thats the most brain rot shit u could do. be careful of what u consume and make sure that u dont over-consume social media.
major inspo! i love her sm
my fav blumarine underwear fall winter 04 lookz ❤︎︎
Britney Spears and Gerard Way “parallels” (not actually tbh) i just am hyperfixated on both of their music and I think it looks kind of cool cuz of the 2 different aesthetics
it girl shit
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messy but these are the vibes <3