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And yet most guys still will never learn.

Why it’s so hard for men to know what the fuck consent is. Girls have kinks sometimes and guys are just the same predator of every day who use the bdsm community to hide themselves. The MAIN rule of bdsm is CONSENT.

Or in the mountains

Another topic that I have been thinking of lately.

I always see the reasoning for why a girl wants an older man, and it always points to daddy issues. But what about someone like me, who wants to take care of a younger girl?

Well, I think I figured it out, at least for what applies to me. And it's really not all that different, just a little harder. The answer? Years of neglect, and not wanting someone else to feel the same pain that I have felt. Having absent parents, one physically was never there because the other left him. And the other was so focused on herself that she neglected her kids. Then onto adulthood. Neglected by partners, tossed to the side, emotionally ignored for no reason at all. So to be able to help save someone from that same trauma, I think that is what has developed me into who I am today.

Sure, it's not the overly aggressive Dom that everyone imagines, but that's not all there is to this lifestyle. It should be more about genuine care for your little, not just about abusing them. All that will do is break them, and they will eventually leave you for someone that actually cares.

Where did I can find those doms? And what should I search for here on trumbl?

7 points and red flags to watch out for any new submissive

I am going to elaborate here as i am hearing horror stories from new, inexperienced submissives...On Tumblr...you are probably looking at just 30% are genuine Doms. So its all about being patient...the one issue is that new or inexperienced subs will be so eager and so excited to feel being dominated that they will just partner up with the first Sign of being wanted. You cannot do that. Remember these points and potential red flags

1, Do not just send pictures when they demand it (Genuine subs do not ask or demand )

2, Ask why they are not revealing who they are, with no signs of any identity you have no idea who you are talking too...how can you respect and trust someone you can't even see?

3, Whatever they want to know about you...you have the right to know about them..so do not be afraid to ask.

4, Are they online only certain times of the day? Any unexplained routine of this can possibly mean they have certain other commitments to others

5, In pre talks of becoming a submissive which can take from several days to several weeks, discussions should involve Aftercare, non sexual domination, safe words, your soft and hard limits with any boundaries...all with your participation and your requirements!

6, Not all Dom styles will be compatible with your submission...for instance..no matter what anyone says...DDLG does not pair up with sadism. So keep this in mind.

7, Always trust your gut instinct...not your head (brains overthink) not your heart (hearts are fragile and break easily) Always your gut instinct...if your gut says something feels wrong? It is!

Please reblog and share this info to make sure to protect submissives.

older father figure bf + silly stupid inexperienced gf <3

Going to be really picky with the next one. It's going to suck finding her, but with any luck, she is out there and waiting for me. But my luck sucks, so who knows.

Sorry just depressed CG moments. Don't mind me too much