Work Life Balance Is Bull*hit
work life balance is bull*hit
Rekan kerja pernah berkata, “Kalo pengen work life balance, ya jadi pi en es aja.”
Belum setuju karena belum merasakan posisi itu.
Namun di dunia ahensi, work life itu sulit digapai atau bahasa halusnya pekerjaan harus diterima sebagai bagian dari hidup kita.
Pernyataan di atas bukanlah sarkas dariku. Dulu ada career coach yang mengatakan hal serupa dan rekan kerjaku dari divisi lain juga sependapat.
Kalo aku mungkin bisa jadi bisa beda kasus. Temanku sedikit, aku tidak punya hobi yang memang harus dijalani setiap hari, sebenarnya valid saja sebagian besar waktu, tenaga, dan pikiranku terletak pada pekerjaan.
Di buku self-help yang kubaca kurang lebih menyatakan ini, “Jangan melabeli dirimu dengan pekerjaanmu, kamu adalah kamu.”
Lalu psikolog daringku mengatakan inti yang mirip, “Vicky adalah Vicky. Vicky memiliki beragam peran di hidupnya. Sebagai pegawai, sebagai anak, sebagai pacar, sebagai sahabat.” Singkatnya, be professional.
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Hari ini badanku pegal
Lemes pengen tidur
Tapi aku harus bikin Click Up
Aku overwhelmed.
Sialan kenapa menu starbucks mahal!
Masa iya aku harus tahan sampe jam 4 sore nanti
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vickyhantari reblogged this · 2 years ago
She/ her; A quiet one with loudest mind. Uttering any thoughts and recounting.
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