Silence Says A Lot

AKA the designated drivers

Anyone else loving season 2 of She Ra??

commission for @pippastrelle

never beating the only capable of doing one task a day allegations

happy girls ♡

BTS - FILM OUT 📽

“Cringe culture is dead” isn’t just about letting 15 year olds cosplay MHA (but is also an issue). It’s about letting 50 year olds dance at clubs even if they’re “bad at it”, it’s about letting 10 year old’s wear random bits of clothes to make an outfit that’s “weird”, it’s about letting adult men experiment with artsy makeup looks even when they’re “messy”, it’s about letting teens scream music even if they “sound bad”.

“Cringe culture is dead” means letting people learn new hobbies at any age, experiment with their identity at any time, expressing themselves in ways outside the norm just as much as it means let 20 year olds play roblox. 

Cringe culture is just social norms being forced on people rebelling against societies value consensus, it’s keeping people in brackets that are easier to market to. 

Let cringe culture be dead in every aspect of life outside online spaces.

CEMETERY BOYS ― Aiden Thomas

No, it wasn’t the end. It was a better beginning.

Hello☺️

Im looking for new moots. My names Vic, I'm 20 years old, my pronouns are she/her and I'm Bi🏳️‍🌈. I'm really into

- BTS

- Dead by daylight

- Marvel

- shera and the princess of power

Honestly I'm all over the place so If you wanna be friends send me a message or follow me and I'll message you :)))

an intense argument

My Latest "Getting housework done" ADHD hack

This isn't anything revolutionary, it's basically just a modified pomodoro technique, but I've never tried it for housework before. I really struggle to motivate myself to do housework tasks - they just feel so unending and tedious and abstracted from immediate gains.

I find I'll often put off jobs until my house is a complete mess, then "waste" my weekend stressing out feeling I need to "catch up" on cleaning, struggling to get started because it's so daunting (executive dysfunction) and then being overwhelmed by pushing myself to clean inefficiently for hours and hours at a time.

My new method:

Begin with a leisure activity I enjoy - play a computer game! Do a craft project! This takes the stress of starting out of the equation.

Set a timer for half an hour. Decide on a single, concrete task which I will go and complete when the time is up. It might be putting on some washing or emptying the dishwasher.

When the timer goes off, do the task. Suddenly it seems less daunting, because it's only one thing, and I'm going to get to go back to the fun activity immediate afterwards. Often I find once I'm up and about, I feel like doing a few more chores - but I don't have to.

Go back to the leisure activity, set the timer again.

And crucially, this isn't a "only do at the weekend when the house is a complete mess" thing, it's a "do every day in little bursts" thing.

And I am FORBIDDEN from feeling guilty about returning to the enjoyable task. That's not allowed!

I just need to talk about Candace’s little thing she does with her arms when she’s nervous. She does it after her play audition:

And then when she asks Tate not to tell anyone about her and Lilly:

And finally when she’s on stage reciting Shakespeare for Lilly and only Lilly:

I just think it’s cute, and I wanted to point it out!