Liberation from self-sabotage requires an understanding of how we co-create the life we experience. We are not innocent victims suffering at the cruel hands of fate. Rather, we participate in the circumstances of our lives by giving consent, consciously or unconsciously, to most of the pleasure or the pain we experience. Self-responsibility enables us to see that our reactions to the inevitable stresses and challenges of life are a result of choices that we are making. It requires the courage to acknowledge that we may have an emotional investment in maintaining our negative emotions and beliefs.
Freedom From Self-Sabotage
Peter Michaelson
Wrought iron key, Germany, 15th-16th century
from The Museum of Applied Arts Budapest
I do believe in an everyday sort of magic - the inexplicable connectedness we sometimes experience with places, people, works of art and the like; the eerie appropriateness of moments of syncronicity; the whispered voice, the hidden presence, when we think we’re alone.”
— Charles de Lint
Spiked dog collar, 17th or 18th century.
Used for hunting dogs to protect the neck from attacks by bears, wolves, or wild boars.
Gemma Gary, The Devil’s Dozen: Thirteen Craft Rites of the Old One