*wakes Up In The Middle Of The Night* That One Time That Wei Wuxian Shot 5 Arrows Into Targets Simultaneously

Singing at the top of your lungs with someone you care about is a love language. Randomly breaking into a dance together is a love language. Being weird together, knowing how the other person likes their coffee, saying “you’re brilliant” or “you’re beautiful” at unexpected moments are all love languages. Text messages that day “I’m thinking of you”, or “this song reminds me of you” or “how is your day going?” are all ways of saying I miss you and therefore a love language. “Let me know when you’re home safe” is a love language. “Do you want a hug” is a love language. Listening, truly listening to a rant and offering comfort is a love language. So is sitting in silence together. Saying “I believe in you” is a love language and encouraging your passions is a love language too. Look, just look at the thousands of ways people say I love you. They don’t have to use the words at all. All you have to do is listen. Just listen.

- Nikita Gill, Love Language

and someone still loves him

girls be like *he is my comfort character* and whamm! it's the most emotionally traumatized fictional man you've ever seen!

jun solo !!! jun solo album !!! on valentine's day !! yes i have very strong romantic feelings for this man

making dumbest decisions 101

i've decided im gonna try and lose the ability to love things good night

-ˋˏ🍁 ° 🍂 S t u d i o  G h i b l i  :  A u t u m n 🍂 ° 🍁ˎˊ-

“Autumn leaves are falling, filling up the streets; golden colors on the lawn, nature’s trick or treat!”

I’m rewatching Joy of Life because binge watching isn’t the best way to notice details, and I’m on ep40 at the part where Yan Bingyun and Fan Xian are arguing about the plan and I have two things:

1. I 💚💚 that Bingyun already believes in Fan Xian enough that he’s completely blasé about demanding that Fan Xian change his plan to kill Shen Zhong, to capturing him instead.  He’s just like “well you can just change it no big”.  And Fan Xian’s “do you think I’m a god???” is perfect lol

2. When Bingyun starts spiraling into “we should be ready to die for our country… the mission is more important than our lives”, I swear Fan Xian wants to burst out with “the emperor told me that if all else fails I have to come home alive”, but instead falls back on pretending to be selfish.  Because how is Fan Xian supposed tell that to Bingyun, who has been a prisoner undergoing torture for months, and only ended being imprisoned because Chen Pingping valued Fan Xian’s life more than his… And that, actually, even though Chen Pingping and the emperor said that they wanted Bingyun back, at baseline they still don’t care either way, as long as Fan Xian comes back.

No wonder Fan Xian would rather be misunderstood.  

she’s so iconic i love her

Mianmian has had it with this patriarchy.

Quiet BPD is like...

.. having a deadly allergic reaction to the entire human race. Everyone you attempt to have some sort of interpersonal relationship with, casual friendship all the way up to romantic partners and everything in-between, will either intentionally or unintentionally trigger big giant feelings that make you wanna die.