My piece for @thezinezone‘s Strange Constellations!
I promise, you are tougher than you think. You got this.
What’s your best self-care advice for someone who just got broken up with after a two year relationship?
1. cry about it. I mean that genuinely. let yourself be heartbroken. ending a relationship? fucking sucks. it’s horrible, it’s painful, you’re gonna be sad, you’re gonna be angry. it’s going to hurt, possibly for a long time. but you have to get that shit out, don’t bottle it up or it’ll poison you. cry it out.
2. talk about it.talk to your friends, talk to your family, talk to your therapist, talk to your bartender. talk to your ex, if you’re still on speaking terms. hash that shit out. talk to yourself, write it down if you have to. you’re allowed to feel like shit about this and you’re allowed to need support and sympathy and to be reminded that people care about you.
3. forget about it.just for a little while, at first. do something you love, that’ll take your mind of things. probably something that you didn’t share with your ex. now is not the time to listen to the band you both loved, or watch films that remind you of how you met. let yourself get away from feeling bad for a while.
4. live with it.remember that you are more than just this relationship, you have worth beyond what that person thinks about or felt for you. you are loved. you are still all the amazing things that person saw in you. don’t lose yourself, just because you’ve lost them. you are better than that. you deserve more than that. you will carry on and you will come out the other side of this wiser and stronger.you’re going to be okay, I promise.
Yes, please
petition to rename the usa ‘south canada’
This:
One thing I love about the Les Mis fandom is that we’re such flexible shippers. Like, most of us have favorite ships that we really love, but I don’t think I’ve seen a single ship-hate post in any of the tags; the ‘worst’ I’ve seen is, “I don’t really ship it but, hey, whatever.” Pictures and headcanons sometimes get reblogged by people who don’t normally ship something, because they acknowledge the cuteness of the post. There’s plenty of multishippers. It’s just been, as far as I’ve seen, a really safe shipping space, and that makes me so happy.
I hate being asked what my goal in life is…. like.. idk…?? I want to have my own kitchen… and I want to know every poem by heart… and uhh.. I want to be kissed in the rain … etc etc .. my heart is very little and I dont want it to break
can you please tell me if you're gay or trans
I’m open to all headcanons and interpretations
just remembered i can actually kinda draw if i try...??? ;;;;;;;;;;;;;-)))))))
anyways here's sam innnn 2x07 im quite sure??
also for a person who's obsessed with fashion i hate drawing clothes lol so pleek don't look at them thank youuu kiss kiss
i actually never posted actual serious art on tumblr in my life so i have no idea what to do!! sorry
here's my drawing with the first sketch lol thought it looks actually kinda cool so im showing it!!
i speak english italian polish spanish and french (kind of) so dont send me any hexes in these languages thank you
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