One Of The Biggest Things I Can Advocate For (in Academia, But Also Just In Life) Is To Build Credibility

one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become

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4 months ago

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3 months ago

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Day 38 - 26/02/25 (wednesday)

I am restarting my life again at 7:55 am. I am a lover girl, you cannot make me not see everything as fun and rainbow.

I have decided to make my life to have a lover/academia aesthetics.

Below images for refn lol -

I want to go to japan - I'll go in december, to play with snow and have fun ❤️

Today's goal -

1. Company work

2. Cmake / Makefile / C program compilation

3. C playlist - 70 videos

4. All different types of color plane in image processing

5. Excersize till you sweat

6. A good bath

7. Your skin/hair care routine - cut your nails girl

8. Physical journaling and updating tumblr

Current Mood -

Argh!! So much body fucking pain!!!! Whom am i proving what?

I did the morning routine, and then i started ubuntu command line , something was pending, but anger!!!! Fuck that bitch

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4 months ago

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2 months ago

Day 48, 49, 50 - 8/3, 9/3, 10/3 ( saturday, sunday, monday )

Eh was babysitting my 16 year old cousin !! Just scrolling and shit and om monday i met with my ex bf told him why he'll be my ex,.we bought some books and stuff. Yeah, oh j wastched you know what , i got a new laptop too

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1 month ago

Day 1 - 14/04/25 (Monday) (6:40 am)

Restarting my life has never been better, I am starting fresh with good people. Life is good, it's worth it.

Today -

I did get good number of things done at work, still some are pending, need to complete them too!!. Weather was amazing and i was in absolute love with it. I need to schedule a meet with my manager probably next week and discuss my progress, it'll help me put thing in perspective.

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3 months ago

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Day 32 - 20/02/25 (Thursday)

C playlist - 20 videos - Did 10 videos

DIP textbook - chapter 1 - NO

GIT video - revision - NO

GIT website finishing - NO

COMPANY WORK - a, b, c, d - NO

Excersize - sweat inducing - NO

Bath / brush / floss - NO

Skin care - NO

Hair care - NO

Sleep by 10 pm - YES

One good thing that happened was i slept well, like really well, had some cucumber and felt refreshed.

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1 month ago

DAY 1 - 10/04/25 (Thursday) - 9am

Restarting my life again... with fresh perspective and an added motivation !!!!

My goal - To immigrate to Germany and enjoy my life as a engineer and nature enthusiast. I absolutely love that country and i would love to part of it soon.

My timeline is simple - 3 year (6 semesters - In my home place, become absolutely precious technically and then move)

In three years (purely career) -

Publish 10 Technical Papers

Have 3 Patents

MTGL - ST ( you know what this means !!! wink wink !! hahahaha)

1 award from the company i work in

Work as though i am doing my PhD in MIT

Excellent and strong foundation in programming

Have my own cute little projects

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3 months ago

Day 37 - 25/02/25 ( tuesday)

I -

I cried in front of my manager, worst day possible, it was soo fucking embarassing, why !!!! Just why!!

Ik why, i am not a good engineer who solves problem, rather than seeing things as puzzles, i see them as obstruction, which will not help me in prosper as an engineer. To be a good engineer is to learn always and keep solving puzzles

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4 months ago