What A Lovely Day To Remember Nondysphoric Trans People Are Trans.

What?? You are ATTRACTED TO MORE THAN ONE GENDER and also POLYAMOROUS? Well buddy let me tell you you are INCREDIBLE VALID!!!!!!!! Keep being yourself

me when trumeds blame The Trenders tm every time cis people do something bigoted

Quickie on why people with “weird” genders tend to be mentally ill! I know the question is asked to be rude most of the time, but I felt compelled to make this anyway :3

or identifying as only nonbinary. for example, i'm genderfluid which is under the enby umbrella yet many think nonbinary is a singular gender and not a spectrum/umbrella.

a lot of y’all out here making posts about how much you support enbies but will invalidate them if they don’t fit the mold.

the mold is white, naturally androgynous, non aligned, short hair, really skinny, afab, actively transitioning, identifing as trans, binding, pansexual or asexual, listening to indie or alt music, has a goblincore aesthetic, and maybe dyed hair.

let me clarify, if you fit this mold as a nonbinary person, you’re valid and you’re nonbinary. i’m not saying you aren’t.

i’m just saying if this is the ONLY type of nonbinary person you support, you’re enbyphobic.

nonbinary people can be poc, lesbian, gay, bi, amab, binary aligned, not transistioning, not identifying as trans, fat, and overall not fit your “ùwú enby space babey” aesthetic.

let nonbinary people exist the way they do.

stop treating our identities like things to be discussed or debated NO MATTER WHAT SIDE YOURE ON. nonbinary people are nonbinary and are valid, end of convo. our validity was NEVER up for debate. periodt.

if you take away one thing from this, let it be to LISTEN TO NONBINARY PPL.

- sincerely, a very pissed black autistic bisexual nonbinary person who uses neogenders and has she/her/he/him/cat/cats/nya/nyas pronouns

terfs/gender critical people and transmeds/truscum, don’t even BREATHE near this post.

nonbinary people can add on but binary trans ppl and cis people should only spread.

Beautiful!! 🥺

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[ tw for this post, it mentions sex/sex-repulsion a few times (just the word, nothing else) and i get heated/angry talking about it. this isn’t directed at anyone, i’m just pissed off about acephobia. ]

I think a lot of people get hung up on some ace people not liking sex or thinking it’s gross/repulsive on a personal level. Even in 2020. And I’m getting sick of it.

Even other aspec people I’ve spoken to have legitimately gotten pissed off at ace people who are averse to it. I feel like a lot of y’all only accept ace people if it’s the ones who are just as okay with sex/sexual topics/etc. as you are, and I can and WILL call you out on it when it happens. Sex-averse ace people deserve just as much goddamn respect as any other ace person.

There is a BIG difference between being sex negative and sex averse/repulsed. I’m personally very sex-averse, but you don’t see me stopping anyone else? Ace people do not walk around and claim that sex is objectively bad, and if you genuinely think we do this shit on a massive scale then you might want to try actually talking to an ace person and not exclusionists a few times in your life.

If us asking for you to, I dunno, talk about it somewhere else where it won’t make us uncomfortable, spoiler it, or maybe just tone it down a little bit, feels like being “sex negative” to you, then I genuinely worry how you treat other people and topics that make them uncomfortable. Y’all respect people’s discomfort and squicks until that person is ace and it shows.

Oh and if you try and tell me this isn’t an issue, that nobody is actually doing this, I will personally put crabs in your pillows. This shit is so constant I have the (dis)pleasure of seeing it in spaces I am apparently supposed to be welcomed in. My discomfort is not respected even in spaces that I’ve made myself. I’m laughed at and not taken seriously and viewed as childish/naive for not liking or understanding extremely sexual conversations/jokes even in my own friend-groups, and even around other aspec people, and even after I ask people to stop multiple times. Do not tell me what I, a sex-repulsed ace person, “actually” experience.

We’re allowed to joke about it being weird and not something we like. We Are Allowed To Not Like Sex, Guys.

Neopronouns are not a “tumblr fad”. Gender neutral pronouns other than they/them have existed in the English language for actual centuries. They are not harmful to the trans community.

To those who are against neopronouns, you’re acting against the evolution of a language and acting against something that’s been around for far longer than you’ve been alive.

To those who use neopronouns, your pronouns are not harmful. You do not deserve to be made to feel ashamed for your pronouns.

jdhdhdigdye 💀😭👏

“you changed” yes i realised gender is a hoax

"Neopronouns are made up!!!" ah yes, made up pronouns, as opposed to the organic, 100% natural she/he/they pronouns, handpicked from the trees