Y'all Go Follow My Friend Junie! She's Amazing And Yes, I Think It Is Largely Due To The Overwhelming

No, because a sandwitch is bread on top- meat- condiments- bread on bottom, not bread on side- pig guts- bread on side.

The only real discourse that we should be having in the LGBTQ+ community is whether or not a hot dog is a sandwich.

So I post this to interupt your scroll through the discourse tags with an actually important question:

Is a hotdog a sandwich?

Living for all this tea! Anyway; exclusionist culture is gaslighting and threatening aces/aros (and to a lesser extent, their allies) in order to "prove" that aces and aros are the Bad Guys for fighting back.

I may be aroace yet saying both are interchangeable is disrespectful to me (if I want to talk about a specific part of my identity) and aroallos.

Anyway aspec does not equal asexual spectrum, it means a- spectrum, and if you believe that aromantic people are interently part of the asexual spectrum then you're erasing non-ace aros and I don't want you following

Posting a frog a day until I feel statisfied #1

or identifying as only nonbinary. for example, i'm genderfluid which is under the enby umbrella yet many think nonbinary is a singular gender and not a spectrum/umbrella.

a lot of y’all out here making posts about how much you support enbies but will invalidate them if they don’t fit the mold.

the mold is white, naturally androgynous, non aligned, short hair, really skinny, afab, actively transitioning, identifing as trans, binding, pansexual or asexual, listening to indie or alt music, has a goblincore aesthetic, and maybe dyed hair.

let me clarify, if you fit this mold as a nonbinary person, you’re valid and you’re nonbinary. i’m not saying you aren’t.

i’m just saying if this is the ONLY type of nonbinary person you support, you’re enbyphobic.

nonbinary people can be poc, lesbian, gay, bi, amab, binary aligned, not transistioning, not identifying as trans, fat, and overall not fit your “ùwú enby space babey” aesthetic.

let nonbinary people exist the way they do.

stop treating our identities like things to be discussed or debated NO MATTER WHAT SIDE YOURE ON. nonbinary people are nonbinary and are valid, end of convo. our validity was NEVER up for debate. periodt.

if you take away one thing from this, let it be to LISTEN TO NONBINARY PPL.

- sincerely, a very pissed black autistic bisexual nonbinary person who uses neogenders and has she/her/he/him/cat/cats/nya/nyas pronouns

terfs/gender critical people and transmeds/truscum, don’t even BREATHE near this post.

nonbinary people can add on but binary trans ppl and cis people should only spread.

What someone says: I have romantic feelings for you

What I hear: I have decided, based on nothing that has to do with you, that you are going to solve all of my problems and make me happy forever, and when you inevitably can't do that I am going to be hurt and disappointed and maybe even mad at you

"Neopronouns are made up!!!" ah yes, made up pronouns, as opposed to the organic, 100% natural she/he/they pronouns, handpicked from the trees

anyway, the idea of “the one” is so innacurate and outdated. there are literally so many people that you could be compatible and share a really strong emotional connection and healthy relationship with. like if you think about it... even in platonic terms, friendship. how many best friends have you had throughout your life? your childhood best friend? high school best friend? college best friend? these were all people you were very in tune with emotionally and shared a meaningful relationship with. did they not understand you? did they not see you for who you were? did they not love you unconditionally? and you did the same. in a world w 8 billion people, one person was not the end all be all. remember that if a relationship dissolved it was for a reason; it wasn’t meant for you. there are plenty of people with whom you can form bonds with. who are willing to meet you where you are, and do what is necessary to earn a place in your life through consistent effort and actions. the “one” doesn’t exist, and they’re not out there for you to find.

PSA: Platonic breakups can hurt just as much as romantic ones, its okay to need time to heal and move on

Please reblog if you think that “they/them/theirs” is a valid set of pronouns.