Yes- An Aroace Demiboy

I’d like to anonymously coin the term Hydrangeaflux, it’s definition is: Having multiple masculine, masculine aligned, and or nonaligned genders all at once but how prevalent each one is fluctuates! I also made a flag for it! Which I'll submit in a second but if you have any suggestions about changes to make to it (especially if it looks too much like another flag!) that's cool ^w^

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pretty, yes i like this very much 🥰

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Hey, I'm very happy to say I'm aroace. After years of debating my orientation and being like 'but i thought this person was cute yesterday' or confusing romantic attraction with squishes I realize it's okay to accept myself.

Have a good day everyone :)

Read this and read it again.

You can’t decide someone else’s identity

Please reblog if you think that “they/them/theirs” is a valid set of pronouns.

what a great day to remember pansexuality is a real and valid sexuality

PSA: Platonic breakups can hurt just as much as romantic ones, its okay to need time to heal and move on

Posting a frog a day until I feel statisfied #1

I agree with the labels not being contradictory towards whatever orientation you may be yet I have to add

heteromantics are queer and thus LGBTQ+.

You don't have to like the same gender to be queer you just don't follow amatonormativity and/or heteronormativity. Let me add, this is typically not by choice like how asexuals and aromantics don't have a choice in not feeling attraction.

They have a different experience than that of heterosexuals. You may not notice, as I am going to assume that you are an allosexual/romantic by your word choice, but this world is heavily sex and romance crazed.

I am an aroace demiboy and you won't believe how hard it is to live in a society like this. We do face oppression like you as well, I'm not going to argue which is worse homophobia or aphobia because oppression isn't a contest but we do have to face discrimination as well.

Not just corrective rape and conversion 'therapy', but some doctors even put ace patients off of meds if found to lower their libido. There is nothing wrong with feeling no sexual and/or romantic attraction yet we feel broken for years. When we hear the terms asexual or aromantic we realize there is nothing wrong with us afterall.

You have to remember that this community was made to protect everyone thrown out by the amato/heteronormative society. Asexuals and aromantics experience oppression and need support just like everyone else in the LGBT+ community. Instead of infighting and saying who gets to be allowed in or not lets actually fight discrimination.

Asexuals and Aromantics are an important part of the community.

Is this person trying to say that being ace or aro makes you less of your sexual orientation…? This is just,,, so silly. A gay ace or a gay aro isn’t “basically” gay, they are gay.

Being gay doesn’t make you any less ace and being ace doesn’t make you any less gay. They aren’t contradictory! Same goes for every other sexual orientation and with being aro

~Mod Pluto