Neopronouns Are Extremely Epic!!

Living for all this tea! Anyway; exclusionist culture is gaslighting and threatening aces/aros (and to a lesser extent, their allies) in order to "prove" that aces and aros are the Bad Guys for fighting back.

I find it amusing whenever you tell someone you had a stressful day a popular phrase to respond with is 'tomorrow is another day.'

Well yeah, but today is also a day so in that moment I hate days. Jee thanks, I can't wait to relive the same harrowing experience over again!

jdhdhdigdye 💀😭👏

“you changed” yes i realised gender is a hoax

Even on days when I feel cis I don't like she/her pronouns and that is largely due to me never feeling completely like a girl. The most I get to that is a demigirl.

I literally go by every pronoun (yes, even neopronouns since those are my favorite and they are fucking valid) except she/her which is unfortunately what everyone I'm not out to calls me 😃

Also pronouns aren't attached to gender as they are literally just words and gender is a fucking social construct anyway.

Teachers who dock your grade based on participation are ableist and I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to realize it’s not my problem if a teacher makes a class inaccessible to me.

yessir

no one is allowed to not see this

Quickie on why people with “weird” genders tend to be mentally ill! I know the question is asked to be rude most of the time, but I felt compelled to make this anyway :3

Demigirl

so this is more for myself-

i'm curious to see how much my gender changes (I'm genderfluid) and what it changes to so I'll probably repeatedly reblog this with my gender shshhs

Reblog if you agree!

shoutout to pan, omni, ply, fluid, queer, unlabeled, and all other non-bi mspec people!

there is absolutely nothing wrong with finding a label that works for you and makes sense to you and captures how you feel about your attraction, even if it’s unknown, looked down on, a microlabel, created on tumblr, or severely misunderstood.

despite what people say, your label is not the reason people outside of the community hate us. your label does not make people think the community is a joke. the narrative that queer people with lesser known, understood, and accepted labels (microlabels, non-bi mspec labels, most aspec and non-binary labels, multiple labels, etc.) are to blame for queerphobia is simply repackaged homophobia that the community internalized.

the labels you use, or don’t use, to make sense of your feelings and experiences in good faith hurt absolutely no one and take away absolutely nothing from anyone else.

please do not let people who are taking their internalized queerphobia out on their own community shame you out of identifying in a way that feels right for you or make you question yourself and your identity.

once more, there is nothing wrong with identifying as pan, omni, ply, fluid, queer, or any other non-bi mspec labels. there is nothing wrong with being mspec, but not using any specific label.

being mspec and not using the bi label, however you decide to label or not label yourself, is not hurting anyone.

you are an important part of our community and history.

please remember that.