Gotta Highlight The Ones That Infuriate Me The Most From What I’ve Seen:

gotta highlight the ones that infuriate me the most from what i’ve seen:

remaining ignorant about bi discourse

only speaking on biphobia when bi people use terms or speak in ways you don’t like

if you are unaware of bi discourse you are biphobic

if you are unaware of the major ways the media and certain prominent gay creators and activists are biphobic you are biphobic

biphobia isn’t just really overt stereotypes and hatred like “bis need to pick a side” ‘bisexuality isn’t real" “bi women are disgusting because they’ve slept with men” “i’d never date a bi person”

it’s also remaining silent about bi issues

remaining ignorant about bi discourse

remaining silent when biphobia happens

speaking in ways that indirectly erase bi people

speaking in ways that imply bi people are more privileged or powerful than gay people

remaining silent when bi erasure and biphobia happens in the media

only speaking on biphobia when bi people use terms or speak in ways you don’t like

speaking with authority on biphobia when you are not bi

denying the importance of bi spaces and bi community

remaining silent on the higher levels of substance abuse, unemployment, mental disability, abuse and sexual assault of bi people, esp bi women

ignoring the unique aspects of the bi experience

etc

if you have never blogged/reblogged about biphobia except to call out bi people you are biphobic

if you have never spoken about biphobia other than to critique bi people’s discourse you are biphobic

if you are unaware of bi discourse you are biphobic

if you think bi people’s experiences are not unique or important you are biphobic

if you are unaware of the major ways the media and certain prominent gay creators and activists are biphobic you are biphobic

if you ignore the ways in which gay people have shut bi people out of their communities and erased bi people and undermined bi solidarity you are biphobic

and even if you are multisexual and you do these things;  it can be internalized: you still are biphobic 

it’s not always about what you do, it’s also about what you don’t do

bi people have suffered and died due to biphobia in the gay community and you don’t care

that makes you biphobic

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8 months ago

i feel like i never really see affirmation anymore for bisexuals who don’t have a preference, for bisexuals whose fluidity is constantly changing, for bisexuals who simply do not want or care about categorizing their attraction to every gender. as a bisexual i hate getting asked “what do you prefer?” because it forces me to simplify my complex relationship with my sexuality. it’s also a biphobe’s insidious way of asking “so are you actually straight or actually gay?” people can also use whatever label they identify with, but when you try to push the “bi means gender plays a factor into your attraction/you have a preference” definition, you are a part of the problem. you’re making people who identify as bi hyperanalyze their own sexuality. bisexuals do not need to think about who they prefer. i’m just tired of seeing every single post on social media about bi people being in relationship to preferences.

preferences are just not something i think about. i know i love everyone and that’s all i need to know. and i want this to be affirmation to anyone who is bisexual. you are not some meter in a scale. you don’t have to make a bar graph to explain your attraction to different genders. you can love everyone point blank full stop. your experiences will always be more important than having to define yourself. just live your bisexual life and keep being perfect 💗💜💙


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5 months ago
Bi Women Aren’t Secretly Straight. Bi Men Aren’t Secretly Gay.
Bi Women Aren’t Secretly Straight. Bi Men Aren’t Secretly Gay.

Bi women aren’t secretly straight. Bi men aren’t secretly gay.


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6 months ago

People who get really bothered by the fact that bisexual women like men are so funny to me . “Bisexual women be like I am into a man 😂” yes that is something that often happens when a person is bisexual


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8 months ago
Bisexuality Is Out Of This World!

Bisexuality is out of this world!


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11 months ago
10k Likes Is Crazy … Well Someone Call Dykes On Bikes And The Dyke March And The Dyke Alliance And

10k likes is crazy … well someone call dykes on bikes and the dyke march and the dyke alliance and


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3 weeks ago
Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ

Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ

Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ
Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ
Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ
Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ
Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ
Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ
Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ

— bisexuals who are attracted to all genders.

— бисексуалы которых привлекают все гендеры.

Bi-All/BiAll • БИ-АЛЛ/БИАЛЛ

Mentions / Tags: @radiomogai @acronym-chaos @imoga-pride @beyond-mogai-pride-flags


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8 months ago
(In Order) Bisexual Femme, Butch, And Futch Flags
(In Order) Bisexual Femme, Butch, And Futch Flags
(In Order) Bisexual Femme, Butch, And Futch Flags
(In Order) Bisexual Femme, Butch, And Futch Flags
(In Order) Bisexual Femme, Butch, And Futch Flags
(In Order) Bisexual Femme, Butch, And Futch Flags

(In order) Bisexual femme, butch, and futch flags <3


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1 month ago

Controversal opinion, I don't think it's really ever appropriate for people to theorize about groups they're not apart of.

That's how you get things like "non binary people aren't oppressed" and "trans men are exactly like cis men in every way and therefore have male privilege" and "asexuals aren't LGBT" and "bisexuals have straight privilege" like maybe like, include the group you're theorizing about to talk about their experiences because it always ends up exclusionary otherwise.


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5 months ago

middle right is genuinely gorgeous omg that’s so pretty!

Pinkie Pie bihet icons 🩷🖤🤍💙

Pinkie Pie Bihet Icons 🩷🖤🤍💙
Pinkie Pie Bihet Icons 🩷🖤🤍💙
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Pinkie Pie Bihet Icons 🩷🖤🤍💙

Note: this is not identifying as bisexual and straight or saying that bisexuals are het >:( this is just taking back an insult used against bi sapphics under the guise that we aren’t “queer enough” 🩷🖤🤍💙


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7 months ago

Poison Ivy camellian icons 🩷🌸💜💙

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