Doubts
Hey guys! So I've rewritten this post about 5 times but I think it's now exactly how I want it to be. Keep in mind that this post is about my personal journey with doubts and how I overcame this hurdle and my opinions on how to overcome it yourself. Take what resonates with you and I hope this helps you đ I also apologize about how long it is, I really tried to make it shorter đĽş
I think the best place to start this post is with my own journey just so you guys know that this post isn't just me preaching randomly, but what I've learned from my own experiences.
I learned about the void state when it first started to gain popularity through Angel's (@divineangelbee) blog. Prior to this, I was in the subliminal community and had spent a few days scrolling through r/nevillegoddard and loatumblr. When I came across Angel's post about the void, I was so intrigued and excited. I think we all know the appeal of the void state. This state that you can easily enter and have any desire of yours instantly granted. I was stuck in really hard life situations before and this just seemed like a dream come true. I wanted to learn more.
Other blogs began to pop up talking about the void and I also did my own research. I found out that the void state was documented even before Neville, was present in multiple religions, was a common experience amongst the meditation community, etc. I began to grow more and more excited. It was real!
I began documenting my journey on tumblr on a previous blog and attempting the void myself, although it wasn't as easy as all the blogs said it would be. However, I didn't lose hope and was willing to fail a few times if that meant I was going to get all my desires. I also really liked to read success stories because I felt like they motivated me. However, I started noticing some things about a few success stories. People saying they manifested a gazillion dollars or saying they're dating a celebrity sp when their sp would confirm that theh were in a relationship with someone else (granted they could have been cheated on but how would that happen if you went into the void and manifested your desired relationship with someone?). I wouldn't call these success stories out but it began to sow doubt in my mind. However, I found comfort in Angel's blog. I was one of her anons and she would always reply to me on any questions I had and would always make the void seem so real, so easy, and so attainable.Â
Then, Angel was exposed and my doubts went wild. Not only was Angel my favorite blogger but she was the one who introduced the void state to everyone. If she was lying the entire time, who's to say the void state is even real? What if it's all some big lie made my narcissistic, attention seekers on tumblr.
I entered a period of time where I was just very stagnant. I didn't really believe the void anymore, I deleted my own tumblr blog documenting my journey and just scrolled through tumblr aimlessly.Tumblr, especially void tumblr, turned pretty hostile and I remember success stories were being called out, void bloggers were being exposed left and right, and it just became this very negative, very angry place. And all this just made me doubt the void even more.Â
But like Uzi said, "You'll get over it." And I did. But it didn't happen naturally, I had to really stop and take a look at myself.
What happened? What REALLY happened? I ultimately came to the realization that all this wasn't even about the void, but Angel's betrayal. I am really embarrassed about this now but back then, I was so obsessed with Angel. Like I wanted to be her so bad, I wanted to enter the void as easily as she could and I loved to keep up with her and send her asks and be her anon. Like I had notifications on for her and would genuinely get so excited whenever she posted, I cringe at the thought of it now.
Not only did I have this parasocial relationship going on, but I also had this association of Angel and the void. For those of you who don't know, Angel would always going around calling herself the it girl of loa tumblr and talk about how she introduced the void and I ate all of that up and in my head, I genuinely had this mental association of Angel to the void.
So when one was exposed, I just believed the other was fake as well. But that's not really the case, is it?
I realized tumblr was doing more harm than good and I deleted it. I'm not going to lie and act like I deleted it and just moved on. I had relapses and i would get so frustrated as to why I was so addicted to tumblr and I had to constantly self reflect. I watched a few videos on YouTube on being addicted to social media and I think that's what eventually helped me delete it and keep it deleted. After deleting tumblr for good, I went back to my initial research that I did when I first found out about the void. I reread everything. I did even more research. I began finding people talking about the void in various fields during various time periods. I was slowly rebuilding my understanding of the void as well as my trust.
I also indulged in a lot of things I didn't before. I remember listening to a lot of subliminals for the void state, limiting beliefs, and self love. [I know people will ask me which ones and I didn't have any playlists or anything but there were a few I really liked and felt like they made a difference so here they are: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8]. I loved (and still do) watching self care/mindfulness content like how to overcome doubts and become your dream girl and stuff like that.
During this time, I came to terms with something else. Taking accountability and blaming myself. Up until this point, if you had asked me why I began doubting the void, I would have blamed tumblr or the lying bloggers who were exposed. But honestly, that's not the case. It was my fault. The truth is, we all know that some bloggers are lying. Whether they're doing so to live in the end or just to get attention, it's something that happens. I know I got hated on for saying this before but I've literally gotten asks where people told me they got scammed by multiple bloggers who claimed they would enter the void for them and we've seen multiple bloggers get exposed so I think it's time we accept that this is just something that is going to happen in this community.
But other people lying should have NEVER affected me the way that it did. One tumblr blogger should have NEVER completely shaken up my faith in something as proven as the void as it did for me. And I couldn't just sit and blame others, I had to take accountability. I had Void Tumblr and Angel especially on such a high pedestal when it should have never been like that and that's why one blogger lying was able to have such a massive impact on me to the point where I was genuinely depressed.
I couldn't continue blame lying bloggers because that puts my faith in the void in the hands of external factors that I have no control over so I had to take accountability and blame myself for putting tumblr and Angel on such a high pedestal and just attaching my entire faith to tumblr and being so parasocial and obsessed with "the community" and Angel.
Also, I touched on this before but I definitely had a mental association in my head that:
The Void -> Tumblr/Angel
Deleting tumblr and indulging in my research helped to breakdown that association but in order to make sure this never happened again, I had to completely reframe how I viewed tumblr.
Honestly, void tumblr is such a good resource when used correctly. There are so many amazing bloggers who put a lot of effort into helping others and share really good techniques and advice and I wanted to capitalize on that but to effectively do so, I had to really accept that some of these bloggers might be lying so to not depend on any success story for my belief.
Also, I promised myself to not engage in anymore loser activity. What is loser activity? (1) Being a parasocial fan and tying my entire faith in the void to a freaking social media app and a random blogger who I didn't even know as well as (2) hating on lying bloggers. Yep, both of these are loser activities. The first one is self explanatory but for the second one, the only reason I was hating on lying bloggers is because I was more obsessed with drama than me entering the void and was putting my entire faith into tumblr which is something I should have never done. Energy flows where attentions goes. Was I scrolling Void Tumblr for motivation or to learn tips and techniques to enter the void or to engage in drama? I wanted to enter the void and engaging in drama only increased my doubts so I had to cut that all off once and for all and I've stuck to that since.
I did end up downloading tumblr again after a while but this time, the way I viewed tumblr was completely different. By building up my faith in the void through research and by removing void tumblr off the pedestal I previously had it on as well as reframing how I was going to utilize it, I was able to use tumblr in a more effective manner as well as overcome my doubts and eventually enter the void.
So you might have been reading my personal journey and been like "why is this girl talking so much about tumblr?" Well, the reason is because tumblr was my trigger.
I remember watching this YouTube video that basically explained how almost everything that we do is a habit and our brain basically creates these habits to optimize our daily lives, including negative thought patterns. And our habits are triggered by something aka a trigger and then our brain basically creates a habit feedback loop, meaning whenever you come across that trigger, that habit will follow and if your habit is a negative thought pattern, you will spiral.
For me, the habit was a negative thought patterns of doubting the void and the trigger was tumblr and I would just spiral like crazy, doubting the void. I go really in depth to how I combatted my trigger above but I believe that everyone is different and I highly encourage you to sit down and really examine and understand yourself, identify your own trigger(s), and create a personalized plan for yourself because the thing is I can present all the evidence that the void is real to you but if you come across your trigger, you're just going to start doubting it again and it'll just be an endless loop until you actively combat it.
The best way to combat a trigger is to avoid it altogether, such as deleting tumblr in my case. However, sometimes people have triggers that aren't easily avoidable so it's really different for everyone and it's really up to you to plan it our for yourself because breaking habits is incredibly difficult so not only are you going to have to create a plan but the hardest part will be actually sticking to it but only by doing so will you be able to stop spiraling into doubt.
This section compiles a lot of the research I did [that I could still remember] that helped me overcome my doubts in the void, with some contributions from my lovely anons. I especially recommend the first 2 but keep going through all of them until you totally believe that the void state is real!
1 2 3 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22
This ^ should be enough but if you're still curious, I would highly recommend browsing reddit and amino for void state success stories. You'll find a lot in shifting and ap (astral projection) communities as well as meditation communities! Browsing meditation communities is pretty beneficial as they don't really put pressure on themselves to enter the void so they end up entering it pretty easily and they have such good advice and shifting communities tend to have a lot of good motivation.
Thank you so much for reading to the end!! I really appreciate it. To summarize, my opinion on how you overcome doubts in your void state journey is by removing/combatting triggers that are causing you to spiral and doing your own research and learning about the void so that you can understand that it's a very real thing, not just something that exists on tumblr or in the loa community.
But I want to let you in on a little secret. The truth is I doubted the void up until I actually entered it and manifested everything. Not the void state itself. After all that research, I knew the void state was real but in the very back of my mind I was like "but will it guarantee all my desires?" But honestly, the truth is no amount of success stories or proof will convince you fully other than you actually entering in yourself and manifesting whatever you want. So don't be so obsessed with doubting holding you back. Focus on entering the void and once you enter, you'll find out for yourself if it's real or not. I love and believe in you and I know you got this đ
Hey everyone~ I did a new pick a card reading for you guys. As the last ones were reality shifting related, I wanted to do one about law of assumption or more exactly about your manifestation journey! I hope you enjoy it! <3
How to choose a picture: Try to calm down, take deep breaths & use your intuition to select. Take you time and chose the picture you feel the most drawn to.
༣PđŚđŠđ˘ 1
spider -> camel, oyster
Hello pile one, I see you wanting to choose your own destiny, desiring control over everything and creating your own life. You strive for variety, you might often change your approach or âmethodâ and try to find out what works âbetterâ. Your perseverance is definitely unmatched and there are not many people as reasonable as you. Also, you can be very patient. You are often focused only on your benefits and on how you can get the most out of things/relationships etc. You are in the energy of creating and I see you planning a lot and working hard. As your energy seems to be boundless, you almost never tire which consequently makes it hard for you to find the right time to properly rest - âMaybe that wasnât enough, I should keep on workingâ kinda mindset - your mind might be still full of energy but your body canât keep up and you often donât notice that or just donât acknowledge it, so itâs important that you learn to rest inbetween the work. I see you often keeping a calm facade, and so the people around you often donât see that youâre struggling within which might have led to you not receiving so much help or care from others/your family in your childhood.
Instead of being result-oriented, you should try to be more process oriented. Your mind is thinking about the future/your future life that you strive for but because of that youâre often not âliving in the endâ - you subconsciously assume that your desires lay in the future and that you still need to work hard for them - which is not true! Those assumptions of yours are the problem. Youâre not aware that your desires are already there! You just need to become conscious of them! You worked hard all your life, now itâs the time to enjoy yourself. You pressure your mind to constantly make progress because you still subconsciously think youâre not doing enough or that youâre not enoughâŚplease try to deal with your self worth issues. Donât be scared of having your dream life, you deserve all of your desires! Youâre so powerful and meant to live an abundant life. When you feel discouraged, try to use your creativity in a playful way.
Youâre advised to be in a more laid back and overall content energy. You are so self-reliant, capable of anything and you have enough nourishment within you to handle any challenge with ease. Release all your fears. As I said before the period of struggling is over, you have mastered it, now is the time to enjoy your dream life on cloud 9. Even in the face of negative things in your 3D, keep calm and just ignore it! I know you are a problem solver and a bit of a control freak BUT YOU DONâT NEED TO FIX ANYTHING IN YOUR 3D! Ignore it, focus more on the reality you want to see right this moment. Take responsibility for your reactions - keep them in check and donât give the 3D you power! Create balance within you and be at peace. Also, donât forget to drink enough water!
Again, I want you to keep your focus on your 4D/your imagination. Donât take your inner gifts for granted - even the cards say that youâre a powerful manifestor! Spirit says you shouldnât be shy to ask for more! Dream big! Be greedy! You deserve it after all this time! Please donât doubt your worth or your ability ( I think the root of your âproblemsâ is your self concept/you self worth)
Ask yourself âwhat is it that I have been hesitant to share?â - Reveal your inner treasures, the world is waiting to see you. Try to feel how blessed you are! You are the creator of your reality! Make yourself aware of that fact!
Messages for you from my angel tarot deck:
seven of action, four of abundance, nine of emotions
âYouâre being called upon to claim your personal power! Feel confident, as your angels will give you the strength to say no when itâs the right thing to do for yourself. Your struggle may actually stem from an unresolved inner conflict, rather than a conflict with others or with your surroundings. â
âItâs time to reflect upon your relationship with money. Are you spending it too freely, or are you holding on to it too tightly? This can also relate to how you give of yourself to others. Is your heart open, or are you holding back? Your hard work and wise investment will bring great success!â
âThis is a magical time in your life when wishes are granted and dreams come true. It may seem that good luck is following you, but actually these happy times are just your reward for being a loving and wonderful person. Your angels are asking you to enjoy your life and have more fun!â
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༣PđŚđŠđ˘ 2
fox -> vulture
Hello pile two, I see you having tremendous potential - youâre very unique. I think it's not very difficult for you to deceive and blackmail someone for your own benefit, but in all you do, there is beauty and unobtrusiveness. It is impossible not to love or not be fascinated by someone as charming as you. Your whole energy is bright and very attractive! I think youâre someone who does not trust others easily, I see you persistently checking a person before trusting them. I think trusting for example in your manifesting abilities or having faith in your wishes coming true might also be something youâre struggling with. You might also tend to be easily influenced by the people around you - involving yourself with someone who thinks negatively about LOA could easily affect you. So be careful with that.
I know youâre very smart and a quick learner, you can easily understand other people and their point of view and you can easily adapt to new situations - which is great! You guys might be the ones who share those epiphany moments on loa blogs.
You seem to be a maximalist, i.e. you think that if one does something, they should do it efficiently and sensibly. And this goes also for LOA stuff. You might be the type to read a lot of neville's work or watch many loa videos on youtube because youâre eager to broaden your perspective on manifesting. But be careful with hyperfocusing.
You might often be very confused after overconsuming information - you might sometimes feel overwhelmed and in turn become unsure of your identity and your mindset - feeling lost. And you seem like someone who doesn't do well once they âslip awayâ. So, itâs important that you always stay true to yourself and to connect with your loved ones once in a while.
You might need to leave behind the âtumultuous waterâ to reach a future that is calm and promising. Donât obsess with loa content and be careful with over-consumption. Blind consuming doesnât bring you far if you donât take the time to think about your new attained knowledge before researching more information. Give your mind space and time to process everything and to develop your own opinion and therefore your own assumptions. Try to become more stable and independent - try to find your own path. Stop second-guessing and decide what you want to think/assume and commit to it. Establish your own values. Be abit more egoistic and unconventional. Others donât need to understand you or agree with your way of thinking and with your way of manifesting. Seperate yourself from others and from the idea that âjust because something worked for someone more doesnât mean it will be the same for youâ, I see you constantly changing up your way of manifesting and questioning it and then researching for a new âmethodâ - you researched enough. You know all you need to know. Keep it simple and commit for once. Stop being active on the internet and spend some time with yourself to make mental progress! Even though you âlook for useful informationâ, youâre constantly distracting your mind which makes it hard for you to charge down a straight clear path to success.
Be more patient, let the universe work for you - If you persist and stay patient the universe will do all the work behind the scenes till it manifests in your 3D. If something starts to seem like a mistake or tragedy, know that it might be a blessing in disguise. Donât give up. Focus on creating balance within. Once you're stable and balanced within, nothing can sweep you off your feet anymore! Try to learn from your mistakes and release all the information you donât need anymore to clear your mind.
Messages for you from my angel tarot deck:
a win-win solution, ten of thought, manifest your dreams
âThereâs strength in diversity. By blending the ideas of other people with your own, you can often come up with a solution thatâs magnificent! Start by focusing on the aspects that everyone agrees upon, and then open your mind to compromise and work together. Stay balanced and seek out a moderate approach. â
âA situation thatâs been troubling you has come to an end, and you can breathe a sigh of relief. With the challenging times behind you, you can now move on. Itâs important to fully let go at this juncture. Someone in your life or you may now finally be free of his or her addictions or codependency issues.â
âYouâre ready to go! There is no need for additional preparation. Take the first steps toward the changes you desire - even if they are small steps. Notice signs that guide you in the right direction, as well as resources and support that miraculously appear. â
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༣PđŚđŠđ˘ 3
tarantula -> peacock
Hello pile three, you might not really see it that way but you are actually very compassionate and kind. You care deeply about the feelings and well-being of others. You are a very good listener and you can gain a tremendous amount of insight into other peopleâs problems and concerns. I think you are just very sensitive to other peopleâs emotional states, and you can sometimes be too emotional for their own good. I think you felt drawn to this pile because the person showed strong emotions (anger) which you can relate too. You seem to respond quickly to the needs of others and which often leads you to put everyone elseâs needs before your own. You overall seem to be a bit anxious - you might be very irritable towards potential âdangersâ, quickly reverting to being defensive.
I see that you try to be patient with manifesting⌠almost in a compulsive way. Like you seem to have that mindset of âeverything Iâm asking for is coming to fruition behind the scenes. And therefore, I just have to step back and allow it all to take hold of a solid foundation/to manifest in the 3Dâ - which is a good approach to manifesting ngl! However, I think you have unconsciously developed this fear that moving too soon might create instability that in turn will undermine all of your hard work - which is not true! Of course a certain amount of patience is important but you should not wait to start living your life! Nothing can ruin your manifestations and the effort youâve put into this. Please release this fear. Please get this âdivine timingâ-mindset out of your mind! There is no divine timing in LOA. You're holding yourself back. I donât know if you had negative experiences as a child because you were too impatient and so developed this habit of forcing yourself to be patient ALL THE TIME to not get disappointed in yourself/hurt or for disappointing/hurting others but please release this fear!! Donât get lost in waiting - there is no perfect time you have to wait for. You want your desires, right? You want to live your stable dream life, right?? You have waited enough. Claim your desires right this moment! Are you not tired of waiting? If you want you could affirm things like âBecause Iâm so impatient for my desires, the 3D always conforms instantly.â - make use of your impatience and your strong emotions! There is nothing bad or wrong about it. Trust your intuition.
Release all the resentment, inner conflict and past pain within your psyche. Make use of your ability to adapt to new situations. Try to increase your level of acceptance⌠of yourself, of the past, your current situation and of your desired future. Accept it all. Be confident! No one will criticize you for being too extreme or for being greedy! Itâs your reality and you have all the right to be greedy for what you want and deserve!! Feel that you are an unrivaled individual. Put yourself first. Power and beauty resides within you and extends outward indefinitely!
You need to claim your success. See yourself as a warrior, rebel against all that has held you back or oppressed you! Seek your own path and the recognition for your deeds. Praise yourself, hype yourself up- you can never have enough confidence! There WON'T come a time that crushes your ego again if you choose to stand up for your desires. This is your life and you can manifest whatever you want!
There is an indomitable force within you that you suppressed all this time - make use of it now. Against all odds, stand up for what you believe in, and be willing to fight to the âbitter endâ. There wonât be any bitter end but once you have this kind of mindset and this immense courage and resolve you will make great progress in your manifestation journey!
Youâre allowed to be optimistic and enthusiastic about the life you manifest. Please release any fears of missing out. Remember that you are in control and youâll always be in control. Be kind and show yourself compassion.
Messages for you from my angel tarot deck:
a happy change, five of thought, healer of thought, four of thought
âYour angels have heard your prayers and have banded together to create real and joyful changes in your life. Events begin to move forward, and great progress will now be possible. You may need to make some rapid decisions due to the suddenness of activity. Be confident, and trust the guidance you receive.â
âThe path you were on seemed like the right one, but now youâve run into a challenge. There is a better direction for you that will make you much happier in the end. Changes are necessary so that you can get back on track. Avoid negative people who are draining, or who bring unwanted drama into your life.â
âItâs time to clean up your life! Get rid of anything that clutters your space or makes you disorganized. People who take from you but donât give back should be released as well! You or another person involved in this situation is wise, insightful and caring; has a wonderful sense of humor and offers a lot of life experience.â
âSpend some time in nature listening for guidance from your angels and your own inner voice, because overanalyzing the situation wonât provide the answers youâre seeking. Consider taking a vacation or a small break to help you rejuvenate and become clear on what your next step should be. Meditations can be very helpful.â
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༣PđŚđŠđ˘ 4
hummingbird -> bat
Hello pile four, you have this positive and light energy around you. You seem to be someone very curious who loves to learn. You might overall prefer it to be surrounded by light energy. Youâre eager to manifest your desired life and I think you are a bit reckless in the way you want to claim your desires. You might just have a hot temper and be a bit arrogant - I see you getting pushy and sharp with your words when things donât go the way you want them to.
I think you often get impatient and forcefully try to rush things while not even fully committing to your desires. You need to be more concentrated on where you want to go in life. Are you not willing to put in the âworkâ? Where is your determination and ambition? Itâs kinda weird, on one hand you just expect things to happen but on the other hand you have this indifference/apathy going on where Iâm starting to wonder if you donât really want the things you claim as âyour desiresâ... mhmâŚAre you not taking this seriously? Are you taking yourself seriously?... I think beneath this carefree facade, youâre being extremely anxious and quite pessimistic - I am not sure if you are even aware of that.
Staying naĂŻve and ignoring this issue wonât get you anywhere - you need to start dealing with your âdarknessâ. Youâre not only deceiving others, you're deceiving yourself too. I think you have pushed this part of you aside for too long already. Acknowledge your dark side and start taking responsibility for it. Focus more on the subtle things around you and within you. Itâs time to close this chapter of ignoring the depth of your existence. It might be uncomfortable for you at first. Well, but it will cause some things to prosper and others to fade to make life easier for you. Move on, no more lingering in the past/old story! There needs to be some kind of ending/closure before you can start your new life. Sometimes you need to explore certain depths because keeping things on a surface level will make you repeat your mistakes. And Iâm sure you donât want that. Be more self aware and stop the unconscious self-loathing - try changing your perspective. Become aware of your unhealthy habits and thinking patterns! Reclaim your power as a whole being. Disregarding a part of you or yourself in general will make you weak and decrease your overall confidence.
Embrace your true form! Enjoy time with yourself and with your loved ones once in a while. Practice self care and take care of your vitality, love yourself the way you need. So that you can get rid of this subtle gloomy energy around you!
Messages for you from my angel tarot deck:
nine of thought, inner strength, seven of abundance, six of thought,
âStop being so hard on yourself, and turn your thoughts toward positivity. There is no need to worry! Anticipating the worst isnât helpful. Know that heaven will provide a solution. If youâre experiencing sleepless nights or anxiety over a challenge in your life, release the problem to your angels.â
âYou have great courage and kindness. You may not realize how strong and powerful you are but thereâs no problem you canât solve. The compassion you so freely give to others must also be given to yourself. Stand strong in your convictions if the right answer to tell someone is no.â
âHave patience! Sometimes dreams grow slowly. Donât worry. The hard work youâve invested will bring about a bountiful harvest. This is a good time to prepare, because things will soon move forward quickly. Use this time to rest and plan.â
"Peaceful times, great happiness and emotional fulfillment are on the horizon! Harmony with those you love is assured. The storms have passed, and now you can see that your destination is within sight. The stress in your life will begin to fade away, allowing for happier times.â
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Š daisys-reality
Huhu đ I have a question about manifesting someone, you say that some BTS partners will do that. But I heard about free will. Is that not wrong? uwu thanks
hello love, before I explain what *i* think about this let me quickly give a short disclaimer. This is what *i* believe in and what makes sense to *me*. You do not have to agree, itâs up to you what you choose to believe in.
Okay so my believes in regards to this are based on the multiverse theory (you can google this, itâd be way too much to put this here as well). Basically every decision or thought you have creates a new universe. Which means there are multiple realities with multiple outcomes. Meaning that whatever you want exists already. Basically what I am trying to say is that youâre the only one having free will in your Reality, simply because itâs yours.
Letâs say you want to manifest your crush. There is a reality where you are and can be together. But letâs say your crush currently wants to date idk - Mila Kunis in *his* reality. There is a reality where this is possible and happening. Meaning both realities co-exist. You cannot take anyoneâs free will away, because there is a reality for them as well. You ARE the main character in as well as the whole production team of your Reality. So yes, you can manifest whatever the fuck you want and no you are not taking anyoneâs free will away because you are the only one with free will in your reality. Also you cannot just simply wish for something and itâll appear, you have to be a vibrational match to it, meaning you have to put in work to attract it into *your* reality. And if you are a vibrational match well honey you better be sure that your crush WILL fall in love with you. You simply have to truly believe in it and put it in the work. Listen to your intuition and let it guide you :)
I hope this makes sense <3
Void -Â Dananayi Muwanigwa
We all love our witchcraft but sometimes youâre just too tired to do some certain things so here is a list to help make a busy witches life a little easier.
⢠too exhausted to make a sigil? Go onto sigilscribe.me and it creates a perfect sigil for you all you need to do is charge it!
⢠if you wear glasses enchant them so when you wear them when your tired they will help your eyes more
⢠when casting a circle do it metaphorically instead of lying down crystals, stones, salt etc.
⢠use music lyrics if you are too tired to create a spell
⢠want to increase or decrease things? Stir tea clockwise (increase) anti-clockwise (decrease)
⢠enchant your bed on a good energy day so on a low energy day it may help
⢠make little pre-made ritual and spell kits/bags so when you need to preform something all your measured ingredients and supplies are already there
* Happy enchanting đ¤â¨đ
đš tarot tips for sexual readings:
âĄQUESTIONS âŚâ so, this is a simple trick but priceless. once you run out of ideas, flip what you asked the deck to the other person/perspective. if you inquired âhow are they like in bedâ, you now ask âhow would they experience me sexually?â. i got the most eye-opening results with this âinverted questionâ method.
âĄSUITS âŚâ the minor arcana excel in nsfw readings. why? the four suits show you what type of tone is set to a t. swords are serious and thought-out sex with sharp movements, wands signify loud and aggressive romps in multiple places or rounds, cups are romantic, sweet and emotional, while pentacles are slow, trusty, and drawn-out lovemaking thatâs domestic.Â
âĄELEMENTS âŚâ donât forget that the suits come with elements as well, and interpret accordingly. e.g. swords as air show you encounters that leave you breathless, wands as fire show you that both partners will be burning up with sweat, cups as water show you that itâs gonna be all wet and spit/kiss-heavy, while coins as earth are a more grounded experience without any horizontal positions, and that the person has your favorite scent.
âĄTROPES âŚâ the major arcana are perfect to determine what kind of sex life a person wants overall rather than the details. see them as erotic archetypes that get to the core of the person. they show central sensual needs and most importantly, relationship goals. and, by the way: the kind of sexy clothes the person prefers to wear.
âĄREVERSALS âŚâ unless youâre the utmost pro with a decade of tarot practice under your belt, or pretty advanced, make life easier and keep reversals out of sexual readings. for other questions yes, but i find that reversals are tricky with 18+ questions if youâre a beginner. especially when you focus on reading the imagery.
âĄDOM/SUB âŚâ if youâre asking about bdsm VS vanilla: swords and wands are the kinkier suits. cups and coins are way tamer. in the same vein, you can find out what type of sexual role they prefer this way. hard doms come with swords if they are strict. soft doms, usually pentacles. brats show up as wands (exception: the king/queen/knight show a dominant). soft subs = usually cups.Â
âĄCOURT CARDSâŚâ if a royal appears for a person youâre asking about, you know that they are experienced or know their stuff. unless itâs the pages, those show youâre dealing with a novice or shy person (cups and coins the most in that case, swords and wands the least). the knights, 50-50. beside the knight of coins they are or have been the most sexually active at least.
âĄACESâŚâ Most tarot readers interpret them as stages of initiation, like a first date, first time. I think you can add another meaning given their number in the suits (1): They can stand for the singular person getting it on by themselves rather than couple activity. The aces tell you the most about masturbation habits. On top of that, itâs how they want to become âoneâ with their partner.
âĄHARMONYâŚâ if thereâs one thing a deck can do, itâs this. the tarot will give you lightning-fast reflections on whether your intimate time would be/is/was harmonious or not, healthy or not. should you however get a card that is ambiguous in meaning, focus on how the image makes you feel like and you know the answer.
âĄSPREADS âŚâ for a mysterious reason, the tarot seems to like 5-card spreads for sexual readings. it seems to be the sacred number right here. maybe itâs how the body has five outermost points, the four limbs and head. so, a star-shaped spread works wonders congruently.
small reminder that this reality isn't the blueprint. why tf would one singular reality dictate the whole damn multiverse??? you are allowed to script and shift to whatever reality you want, even if it's deemed as "unrealistic" from this reality's standard. you are allowed to have EVERYTHING you desire, don't let this reality limit you from what you truly want.