You Will Meet Many Types Of People In Your Life. You Will Meet Delicate Flowers, Raging Oceans, Quiet

A thought

I really want to live in a small cottage with peach and apple trees growing outside, and a cozy kitchen where I can open the windows to feel the summer breeze on my face while I make jam and pies and my dogs lie on a rug nearby or out on the porch enjoying the sunshine

This is so true ❤️💖❤️💖

My dear lgbt+ kids, 

Your feelings are not dirty. You are not dirty. 

That’s so easy to say. If you follow multiple lgbt+ blogs, it may even feel like some overused phrase. One of those things that people can quickly post to gain some notes without adressing any real issues. 

And at the same time, it can be so hard to believe it for yourself. “Of course lgbt+ people are not dirty”, you may think - and the little mean voice in your head adds a whispered But I am.  

Generalized positivity may always be easier to swallow than positive statements about you personally, for a lot of reasons, but apart from (or next to) that it may also play a role that we are often told we are dirty without anyone uttering those exact words. 

One example for that is the old “I don’t know how I will explain it to my kid” argument. They may not directly say “I think you are gross and that’s why I don’t want my kid to see people like you in a movie” but the message is there. 

The “bathroom issue” follows the same path. They may only talk about keeping kids (or women) safe but of course that translates to “I think you are dirty and dangerous”. 

Those are only two of the more obvious examples - you probably encountered tiny, subtle, silent “You are dirty”s before. Conservations in which you maybe couldn’t even pinpoint it but something just left you feeling uncomfortable, unwelcome…dirty. 

You are not dirty. Not only as this abstract “lgbt+ person” that is so easy to praise in text posts but as you, the human being who is reading this. 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Mom 

So I found a site that does a subscription box for your period- it sends you basics like hygiene products, pain medication as well as snacks and pampering stuff to make you feel good, 

but the best thing is they have a specialty boxes, like vegan or kosher only snacks but also 

they specifically offer boxes for menstruating guys and nb folks. 

which is pretty darn cool.

it’s called bonjourjolie and I think it’s 1000% awesome tbh 

Krampus by Phantom City Creative

Us (2019), dir. Jordan Peele.

This is a true mood

EvErYtHiNg Is GaY, iSn’T iT?