“Don’t Hate Me Because I’m A Lesbian, Hate Me Because I Stole Your Chick.”

My dear lesbian girls, 

Some people seem to think that there are only two types of lesbians: the soft, cute, shy, feminine lesbian and the confident, loud, badass, masculine lesbian. 

This may be based on the assumption that there needs to be one who is “the girl in the relationship” while the other one is “the boy”. 

That’s not how it works. While there are certainly girls who will read the descriptions above and think “Yep, that’s so me!”, there are plenty others who do not fit into one of those narrow boxes. 

Your personality and your presentation don’t need to “match” like that. Don’t feel pressured to play a certain role if it doesn’t feel right. You can absolutely be confident, loud and dress feminine. Or you can be shy and dress masculine. Or, you can be none of those things at all! 

The bottom line is, you’re a human being. You are you. You don’t need to be “like a lesbian”, whatever people think that means - you already are one. You can’t fail at that, it’s who you are! 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Mom  

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Details from À la campagne (ca. 1910)

Ludovic Alleaume

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