underpressure.mp4
THIRD REUPLOAD’S A CHARM! i swear i’m never satisfied with my music videos enough to leave them alone. enjoy this version at least!
I am an ambiguously aged florist and god is a 37 year old dentist with trauma
Uhh here's a cat!
ive been a little too down and out to complete requests for you guys so i wanted to make a thing for u to use if u wanna! its nothing special but if you decide to use it please tag me id love to see
i tried to make sure all name combos work but if u get a dumbass name shoot me an ask and i will be legally obligated to give u a new one
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A lot of reducing your stress and your kid’s stress when parenting just involves asking yourself why you want them to do a thing. Neurotypical or not, but especially neurodivergent kids. Is there actually a point to it or do you just want it done because ‘that’s the way it is’ or you’re worried other parents will look at you weird?
Socks drive her crazy when they’re not inside out? Why do they need to be right side out? Why is that worth making a kid uncomfortable all day and starting a recurring argument over?
Your kid needs to eat at the table standing because otherwise he’ll fall out of the chair constantly wiggling and hanging out of it? Ok. Move the chair and let him stand and don’t let your mom give him a hard time about it. He’s eating food and at the table. You’re already winning .
Kid has sensory meltdown in public? Yelling and rushing them because you’re embarrassed will only make things so much worse and add you as part of the problem. Leave the store, sit down in the pasta aisle and hug them, pull up cooking videos on your phone, just do what you need to do like taking care of another panicking distressed human is more important than a few old ladies giving you stink eye.
The more we loosen unnecessary rules our parents gave us the less stress we put on ourselves and our kids. The more room we make for people to be open about their emotions. The more we set a better example to people around us and show them that allowances don’t have to be hard and kids and adults alike deserve some breathing room.