A Bit Of Psychology On A Saturday.

A Bit Of Psychology On A Saturday.

A bit of psychology on a Saturday.

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Weeeeeerk!!!!!! 👏👏👏😱😍 Yes!

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Anytime you feel down or disappointed in yourself

just remember that there are people who spend their days oozing vitriolic verbiage onto social media/website comment sections.


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Don't cheat yourself

I know there's this whole fat acceptance movement going on and more women are accepting themselves as they are but don't cheat yourself. I have big friends who are big and happy to the outside world but that doesn't stop them confiding their body issues over a bottle of wine or three or when body talk arises. Fat acceptance in my experience is used as a defence mechanism because my same friends who will be like “yes I'm big and sexy” in a crowd will say different when were alone. Being healthy and in the best physical condition isn't just about looking good but also about FEELING good so don't cheat yourself IF you truly are unhappy. Don't lie to yourself or others just make the change because its about how you feel, not what men want/like, not what others say, not what is hot right now. Its about your happiness. Its going to be hard work but you will thank yourself later 😘


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Fuck motivation. It’s a fickle and unreliable little state that isn’t worth your time. Better to cultivate discipline than to rely on motivation. Force yourself to do things, to get out of bed, to go the gym, to work harder and smarter; force yourself to do stuff when you don’t feel like doing anything. Motivation is fleeting, and it’s easy to rely on because it requires no concentrated effort to get. Motivation comes to you, you don’t even have to chase after it. Discipline is reliable; motivation is momentary. The real question isn’t how to keep yourself motivated, it’s how to train yourself to work without it.

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*Body Goals*

There is no specific body that is body goals to me. I am my body goals. This body only stronger and faster, this shape only bigger and tighter.

I appreciate all bodies; but placing another persons body on a pedestal of perfection that I should aim for is not achievable.

I am me, they are them and I can only be the best version of myself. 💋😘 

Its FRIDAYYYYY!!!!!!!!!

Its FRIDAYYYYY!!!!!!!!!

Amen to this 👏🙌🙌

It’s Far From Being Easy.

It’s Far From Being Easy.

Don’t be afraid. One day, all this hard work will pay off.

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Below Is A List Of Some Of The More Effective Ways Of Raising Your Vibration And Thus Your Energy Level

Below is a list of some of the more effective ways of raising your vibration and thus your energy level to a place where you operate and experience life at your best. As you read the list, pay attention to the ones that jump out at you and resonate with you the most, and start there. Biologically raise those vibes!

Closing your eyes and taking 5-10 deep breaths in through the nose and out through the mouth is incredibly helpful in getting you unstuck and releasing any feelings of fatigue, stress, worry or anxiety. We typically breathe very shallowly throughout the day, and our brains & bodies do not get the proper amount of oxygen necessary to operate at our maximum potential. Drinking plenty of water and replacing your normal diet coke or coffee can work wonders, too. Dehydration can be sneaky, and often causes the symptoms listed above, which can in turn cause a bad mood. And smile! When you smile, you are actually causing a chemical reaction in your body that releases dopamine (happy hormones) and makes you feel good. Do all three of these things and you can pretty much watch yourself transform into a happier person!

Spend time in gratitude. Take a few moments to write down or think of at least 10 things you are currently grateful for, anything from the wonderful people in your life to your comfy slippers. The energy of gratitude is one of the highest, and when you choose to participate in it, miracles can happen.

Affirmations galore! Our bodies respond to the thoughts that we have, so if you intentionally have an empowering and positive thought, phrased in the present tense, your body can’t help but respond accordingly. Start simple, with something like, “I am better and better every day and in every way”, or “I am loved”. The two words “I am” are the two most powerful words in the English language. (Read my most recent post on how positive/negative thoughts impact your energy field.)

Move your body! Put on music that lights you up and inspires you to sing and/or dance, you know the kind, those songs that it seems like you have no choice but to sing or dance along. For me, that song is “Dog Days Are Over” by Florence and the Machine. But don’t stop there, run, skip, jump, twirl, kick, spin, exercise, etc. Get those endorphins flowing!

Release the negative by clearing space. I mean this physically, mentally and emotionally. Make that bed, delete those unwanted emails, pay those stack of bills that you keep avoiding, say no to things you don’t want to do, write out all of your frustrations and emotions in your journal or vent to a friend. It may not exactly feel good while you’re actually doing these things, but afterwards you will feel much lighter, and in turn have a higher vibration.

Wear something that makes you feel beautiful or sexy. Even if you have nowhere special to go, dressing in a way that makes you feel good does just that: it makes you feel good. This can be a complete outfit, wearing your makeup or hair in a way that compliments you, or perhaps wearing a piece of jewelry you save for special occasions.

Reach out and connect to the world around you! This is so important, and can look many different ways. Hug a child, play with your cat or dog, call an old friend, tell a loved one how much you care about them, make eye contact with and smile at a perfect stranger, open an inspirational book to a random page and read it.

Doing any of the above things to raise your vibration can be downright magical in getting you to a better place (i.e. higher vibration), but like with anything else, it is you who has to give yourself the proper kick in the butt to do them. Try any or all of these out and pay attention to the ones that really get you going; knowing how you work and what you best respond to can make all the difference in giving yourself that kick in the butt. http://www.gowithincoaching.com/creating/7-ways-to-instantly-raise-your-vibration-and-enjoy-your-life-more

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Im on a weight gain journey, always had the shape now I'm getting the size. 💋💋💖 Positive energy only, here to give and receive motivation. British Caribbean mixed female, age unknown. Current stats are *35-24-35* no set goal just when i see what i want to see. Polymath exploring an amusing world from a sometimes twisted perspective. feel free to msg, comment etc... Oh an I talk a lot IRL.

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