Thedeniedgirl - The Secret Blog Of The Denied Girl

Obedient pet

I've been such a good obedient pet for sir he's let me have release whenever I want as a special reward yesterday. Sir controls my mind and pleasure.

Drip...

One of the most mild pleasure triggers I have. Unless of course I'm made to listen to a file on loop of sir saying it over and over. Which is exactly what he made me do while edging this morning. Pleasure just constantly grew with each drip. I also had to listen to it for an extra 5 minutes for complaining. Sir was nice however and let me cum at the end of it.

I was lucky

After edging for 19 minutes the fate of morning release ended up being on a spinner. If it landed on 3 I was allowed to cum however if it landed on 5 I would just feel arousal gel covering me. Fortunately it did land on 3 and sir let me have release this morning!

opener

Condition

Sir has said if I get enough notes on this post he might let me cum... So please followers it would be great if you helped me...

@chibird

So horny...

Currently almost halfway through 2 weeks of denial. I feel so sensitive and horny. Sir has spent quite a long time this evening teasing me and making me feel so very submissive.

Time and Space

Attention followers

Sir said if I get 20 notes I might be allowed to have one more orgasm before the new year >> so you should totally add to the number of notes!

D/s 101: If you call yourself a Dominant, don’t do this stuff...

You have adopted a title that should come with a giant heaping dose of honor, respect, and trustworthiness. 

1. Don’t make demands of submissive girls that don’t belong to you. You should know the difference between having the ability to control your own submissive, and how you should be treating all the rest that don’t belong to you.

2. Don’t talk intimately/woo other submissives behind the back of the one that belongs to you. All the time and energy you have to put into the submissive world should be aimed at your own submissive. If you want a different submissive, do the right thing, and break with the one you currently own first.

3. Don’t ditch submissives. How would you feel if the person you depend on for nearly everything suddenly went up in a puff of smoke, and was never heard from again? How would it effect your ability to trust someone else to take up the same role in your life? Stop ghosting, and ruining perfectly good submissives. 

4. Don’t cut your submissive out from contributing to your relationship. Yes, I know she put you in charge, but relationships evolve, and if you don’t attend to what she wants out of yours, your relationship is likely to evolve in separate directions. You can still be in charge, and listen to her wants and needs, I promise. 

5. Don’t ask someone you just met to be your submissive. It’s your job to inspire her to submit to you, by getting to know who she is, and showing her that you are the single most qualified man to be her Dominant. Don’t be lazy. Being a Dominant takes a lot of focus and energy. If you’re not up for that, go find another title to adopt. 

6. Don’t put your submissive on a shelf when caring for her is not convenient to you, and take her down off the shelf when it suits you. Submissives are human beings, and though some of them like to be treated like objects from time to time, they should not be ignored when you don’t feel like dealing with your relationship. If you don’t have to the time and energy to adopt the role of Dominant for someone, then don’t do it in a half-assed way.

7. Don’t compare your current submissive with past submissives. It’s not a competition. You should be making her feel like she’s the most important person in your current world, so don’t make her feel like she’s less than other submissives, or that you’re pining for something you no longer have, and feel you can’t have with her. 

8. Don’t skimp on the essential ingredients in D/s relationships. Don’t be that guy who limits your submissives safeword in any way. A safeword is the difference between consensual sex, and possible rape and abuse. Don’t skimp on aftercare. Let her know how much you appreciate all the control she continuously allows you to have over her, and how well she is performing for you. It’s the difference between a proud and happy submissive, and a sad and confused one. 

9. Don’t make unilateral decisions that your submissive is directly opposed to. You don’t get to decide your submissive needs a sister because it suits you to have a second submissive to play with, when it’s patently against her wishes. Once again, it’s her relationship too. 

10. Don’t lie to your submissive. It’s all about trust. It’s trust that inspires her to submit to you. It’s trust that inspires her to allow you to continue to hold her submission. One or two breaches of trust, and it all falls apart. 

JD🌹