Please Remember That...

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Sir said if I get 20 notes I might be allowed to have one more orgasm before the new year >> so you should totally add to the number of notes!

A new suggestion

I've been given a new suggestion by sir that I'm only allowed to touch when I'm sucking on something... This makes me feel very flustered, aroused and used like the good little slut I am.

Denied

After my morning edges sir denied me release for the whole day... should probably avoid scrolling here so I don't get too horny :p

8 months complete!

Well another month complete! A few days ago marked 8 months of orgasm denial for me!

It feels like time has just flown by! I can’t believe in a few short months it will be an entire year! Never ever did I think I could do this when I first started exploring! I have my friends and Sir to thank for that and are teaching me ever day and reminding me how good if feels to be a good girl ❤

Lately I have been extremely aroused to the point that im waking up dripping and desperate to edge. I even got in trouble one night because i edged without permission because i just couldn’t control my insane need building in me. Even after all this time im so aroused most days! Which makes it hard to concentrate some days but you learn to deal with it as it comes.

Im a better, happier girl, when i let someone else be in control😊 Though i truly love and am a sub at heart I have come to learn that I do enjoy taking control and having fun teasing others too. It helps when I don’t have permission myself to touch to make others touch for me haha

I don’t know how long this will last but I’m looking forward to finding out. ❤

- LovelyChica (sodance)

Can't ask...

Feeling frustrated this morning as after I did my daily edges sir decided to go to bed… I’m not allowed to beg for release and sir reminded me that I’m not supposed to hint at it when I protested about him going to sleep and said how horny I was… Hopefully I’m allowed to cum tonight.

D/s 101: If you call yourself a Dominant, don’t do this stuff...

You have adopted a title that should come with a giant heaping dose of honor, respect, and trustworthiness. 

1. Don’t make demands of submissive girls that don’t belong to you. You should know the difference between having the ability to control your own submissive, and how you should be treating all the rest that don’t belong to you.

2. Don’t talk intimately/woo other submissives behind the back of the one that belongs to you. All the time and energy you have to put into the submissive world should be aimed at your own submissive. If you want a different submissive, do the right thing, and break with the one you currently own first.

3. Don’t ditch submissives. How would you feel if the person you depend on for nearly everything suddenly went up in a puff of smoke, and was never heard from again? How would it effect your ability to trust someone else to take up the same role in your life? Stop ghosting, and ruining perfectly good submissives. 

4. Don’t cut your submissive out from contributing to your relationship. Yes, I know she put you in charge, but relationships evolve, and if you don’t attend to what she wants out of yours, your relationship is likely to evolve in separate directions. You can still be in charge, and listen to her wants and needs, I promise. 

5. Don’t ask someone you just met to be your submissive. It’s your job to inspire her to submit to you, by getting to know who she is, and showing her that you are the single most qualified man to be her Dominant. Don’t be lazy. Being a Dominant takes a lot of focus and energy. If you’re not up for that, go find another title to adopt. 

6. Don’t put your submissive on a shelf when caring for her is not convenient to you, and take her down off the shelf when it suits you. Submissives are human beings, and though some of them like to be treated like objects from time to time, they should not be ignored when you don’t feel like dealing with your relationship. If you don’t have to the time and energy to adopt the role of Dominant for someone, then don’t do it in a half-assed way.

7. Don’t compare your current submissive with past submissives. It’s not a competition. You should be making her feel like she’s the most important person in your current world, so don’t make her feel like she’s less than other submissives, or that you’re pining for something you no longer have, and feel you can’t have with her. 

8. Don’t skimp on the essential ingredients in D/s relationships. Don’t be that guy who limits your submissives safeword in any way. A safeword is the difference between consensual sex, and possible rape and abuse. Don’t skimp on aftercare. Let her know how much you appreciate all the control she continuously allows you to have over her, and how well she is performing for you. It’s the difference between a proud and happy submissive, and a sad and confused one. 

9. Don’t make unilateral decisions that your submissive is directly opposed to. You don’t get to decide your submissive needs a sister because it suits you to have a second submissive to play with, when it’s patently against her wishes. Once again, it’s her relationship too. 

10. Don’t lie to your submissive. It’s all about trust. It’s trust that inspires her to submit to you. It’s trust that inspires her to allow you to continue to hold her submission. One or two breaches of trust, and it all falls apart. 

JD🌹

It can be a simple stroke on the head or maybe his hand moves down your back which causes you purr and shiver in delight. His touch melts you into a submissive mess and you love it.

5th day of denial

I'm being insanely teased by sir. I just was made to edge for half an hour and am being teased ny sir. I can't think and am feeling him fuck me while I was typing. I'm so horny and shaking while writing this. I forgot what I was going to say.